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Author:  LabZ [ Fri Nov 09, 2007 9:14 am ]
Post subject:  The unexpected friend zone
I've been friends with this girl for 5 months. She left for college about 3 and a half months ago and 2 weekends ago was the first time I've been able to see her in three months.

We had one of the best times of our lives. There was fluid kino and great negs. She's called me just about every night since then for the last two weeks.

Everythings seemed great so far, I really thought i had her but then tonight she pulled this line
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i always tell people i have 4 best friends.. .. but seriously out of everyyyyyone i consider you to be my best friend.. whenever anything is wrong, your the first person i think about going to talk to! im soo happy we bacame friends
my response
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haha im truly flattered but i mean, im such an ass hole i dont understand why you would even want me as a friend, i like to mess things up, being best friends with me may be your biggest mistake
Im not sure what's going on, is this way tougher on friends you've known for awhile? I mean does it still work??

I worked her hard, and what came of it was definitely good, it improved our relationship big time, but possibly in the wrong direction.

What should I do?
Author:  LabZ [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 1:08 am ]
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wow you guys are real good at this.....
Author:  Murdoc [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The unexpected friend zone
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I've been friends with this girl for 5 months.
I think that's the problem right there.

She's had 5 months to not even consider you romantically. You may have been attracted to her all this time, but you're only using this stuff on her now when it would've been more effective on your first meeting. So now you're way more valuable to her as a platonic friend, especially since she's off to college now where she has access to way more guys than before.
Author:  LabZ [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 7:35 am ]
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haha thanks anyway problem solved.

a few subconscious tricks and...

she digs me.

being away at a college can be used to your advantage, shell never be able to get enough of you.
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Sat Nov 10, 2007 10:40 am ]
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a few subconscious tricks and...
a few subconscious tricks? Ummm, would you mind explaining what you mean by that?
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