my problem is that when i know that a girl is really interested, like major IOIs, i cut corners. My mind snaps out of the moment, my body language falls apart, ect. I am the kind of guy that because i normally get who i want, i want a challenge. On the home stretch, i don't need to be monitoring every aspect, a few (body language, warm dominant vibe, energy) aspects drop and i sometimes blow it so that halfway through escalation i get blown out. I don't see any solution in my mind. it gets too easy, then it isn't fun anymore, then i move on to the next girl, like a bad gambler at slot machines,lol
