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Author:  punisher707 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  How to Deal with Flakers
I'm sure this topic has been done to death, but this is another look at it. This isn't on how to not make them flake, but how to get flakers to ask YOU out after they have flaked.

Okay so when a girl flakes on you, tell them that you don't tolerate that kind of thing. be assertive and show them that you don't like to have your time wasted. Then stop talking to her. Don't text her until she texts you, wait for her to come back, and even if she doesn't, why would you want someone who keeps flaking on you in your life?

Most of the time they text you after a couple days, so just make ordinary conversation with them like you have lost all interest. This will usually lead to HER asking YOU out because she wants your interest back. Tell her that you will check your schedule. Then a day after text her agreeing to the date. This leads to almost 0 chance of her flaking on you a second time.
Author:  zappo [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 6:34 pm ]
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I usually just text them if they flake the first time " Oh I see the excuse fairy has visted you ;)" usually that one does it for me
Author:  GeorgePH [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 7:19 pm ]
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I'm sure lots of guys will disagree with me, but I'm dismissive of flakey girls. I guess I just can't be bothered at this point; I already have enough women in my life that I don't need to chase the ones who make it a pain in the ass to get in touch. The girls I want are decent enough not to flake. The easiest thing to do to prevent flaking is make a strong enough initial impression that girls don't want to flake.

That's my 0.02$.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 10:54 pm ]
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I'm sure lots of guys will disagree with me, but I'm dismissive of flakey girls. I guess I just can't be bothered at this point; I already have enough women in my life that I don't need to chase the ones who make it a pain in the ass to get in touch. The girls I want are decent enough not to flake. The easiest thing to do to prevent flaking is make a strong enough initial impression that girls don't want to flake.

That's my 0.02$.

+1
Author:  samex [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 3:27 am ]
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Quote:
I'm sure lots of guys will disagree with me, but I'm dismissive of flakey girls. I guess I just can't be bothered at this point; I already have enough women in my life that I don't need to chase the ones who make it a pain in the ass to get in touch. The girls I want are decent enough not to flake. The easiest thing to do to prevent flaking is make a strong enough initial impression that girls don't want to flake.

That's my 0.02$.
+2
Author:  lolaskate [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:28 am ]
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Quote:
I'm sure lots of guys will disagree with me, but I'm dismissive of flakey girls. I guess I just can't be bothered at this point; I already have enough women in my life that I don't need to chase the ones who make it a pain in the ass to get in touch. The girls I want are decent enough not to flake. The easiest thing to do to prevent flaking is make a strong enough initial impression that girls don't want to flake.

That's my 0.02$.
+3
Author:  TheNaturalPlayboy [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 7:32 pm ]
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Quote:
I'm sure lots of guys will disagree with me, but I'm dismissive of flakey girls. I guess I just can't be bothered at this point; I already have enough women in my life that I don't need to chase the ones who make it a pain in the ass to get in touch. The girls I want are decent enough not to flake. The easiest thing to do to prevent flaking is make a strong enough initial impression that girls don't want to flake.

That's my 0.02$.


+4
Author:  Singularity [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 9:03 pm ]
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Quote:
I'm sure lots of guys will disagree with me, but I'm dismissive of flakey girls. I guess I just can't be bothered at this point; I already have enough women in my life that I don't need to chase the ones who make it a pain in the ass to get in touch. The girls I want are decent enough not to flake. The easiest thing to do to prevent flaking is make a strong enough initial impression that girls don't want to flake.

That's my 0.02$.
+5
Author:  TheNaturalPlayboy [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 9:06 pm ]
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That's ENOUGH, that's flooding.
Author:  JMA [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 2:39 am ]
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Good thread. I think I'm going to bookmark it.
Author:  kasabi [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 5:07 am ]
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Quote:
I'm sure lots of guys will disagree with me, but I'm dismissive of flakey girls. I guess I just can't be bothered at this point; I already have enough women in my life that I don't need to chase the ones who make it a pain in the ass to get in touch. The girls I want are decent enough not to flake. The easiest thing to do to prevent flaking is make a strong enough initial impression that girls don't want to flake.

That's my 0.02$.
+14

Is that the number now?

This is the way it usually rolls if you're running it. It becomes a numbers game really . . . a few from the existing list will drop out (they always do). Some new will be added; others will not be added either because of your schedule limitations or due to flakes (a lot of times, it's a combination of both as chick also want to prove that they're fucking busy with their social lives just as you)

What does a guy, who is really into this one particular "flake" do?

Also . . . I feel few guys really appreciate the "REASONS" for flakes. Most flakers are more confused and nervous than the guys. I'd actually argue that often, flakers are even more into the guys than the guys are into the the flakers . . . (No way to test this really but I bet that this is one of the top reasons for 'flakes')
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