originally posted on melbournelair.com
This story hopefully demonstrates how when you get your inner game and lifestyle sorted, sex is effortless. All the experiences I gained practicing rapid escalation led me to culminate this amazing sexual experience with very low effort and investment; it was just a by-product of my lifestyle.
A few weeks back I was coaching at the Hawthorne. My student started talking to two girls at the bar, I winged him and talked to her friend for 30 seconds. They had to leave, but I got her number as she was walking off. We talked to them a few more times throughout the night, I met up with her a few weeks later and she sucked me off and I blew on her titties. It was fucking hot.
Anyway, that same night I also met another girl as we passed in the crowd. She accidently kicked a glass across the floor.
Me: did you kick that glass?
Her: no! It was an accident!
Me: you shouldn’t do that its dangerous
Her: I didn’t do it on purpose!
Me: I'm Liam
Her: I'm sexchick.
(she starts getting dragged off by her friends)
me: what’s your number (looking her in the eyes with sexual intent)
Her: oh it’s 0412…(yells it out as she is dragged away)
I text her a bit of call-back humour about the glass, and she asks me to add her on Facebook. This is one of two chat conversations we had:
me: this is so awesome
(I sent her a funny link)
Sexchick
bahhahahahah
how was your weekend?
Me
awesome
saw lots of ppl i havent seen in ages
you?
Sexchick
yeah good, drank all day yesterday so really feeling crap today
Me
nice! top effort
Sexchick
hahaha yeah i tried
summer holidays are almost here
Me
woot
yeh i got a sexy bikini im gonna wear
cant wait
Sexchick
ahahah i'd like to see that
Me
would you now
that can be arranged
but you have to match it with your best pair of board shorts
Sexchick
don't get me too excited
Me
ill try not to
might be hard though, you're very excitable
Sexchick
only when bikinis are involved
Me
i dont mind when bikinis are not involved
(as in no bikini)
thats always good too
Sexchick
hahaha
Me
ever been skinny dipping?
Sexchick
i actually haven't
Me
really!?
ok when summer comes along im taking your skinny dip virginity
Sexchick
bahahaha
where do you suggest skinny dipping mister?
Me
wow, that question actually just reminded me
like 2 years ago
i was on google maps
looking at my house
and i noticed how many ppl who live near me have swimming pools
Sexchick
bahahaha
Me
and around that time, i was walking home drunk and got stuck in a lane and had to climb into someones yard
and i also saw a porno of this chick and a dude breaking into someone’s pool at night and sexing it up and nearly getting caught
and then i thought 'man i should just break into ppls pools and swim there at night'
Sexchick
it'd be pretty fun actually lol
Me
i know!
seriously check this out
(sent her a map link)
so many pools
zoom in a bit
Sexchick
yeah it just showed me australia...
Me
oh
zoom into my suburb
and put it on satellite
and check out how many pools there are
and in summer ppl go away on hols...
Sexchick
hehehe
you live like what one/two suburbs away from me
Me
oh sweet, so you're right in the midst of pool town heistville too
Sexchick
you know it lol
Me
some places have like clusters with 5-6 pools
with in 15 ms of each other
such a waste of water lol
Sexchick
should just have a community pool for those rich people ahaha
Me
exactly
Sexchick
can't imagine them everrr doing that
Me
yeh i know lol
dont want the common riff raff
Sexchick
of course not
Me
hey im in a crazy mood
want to go scouting for places with pools
tonight
not to swim just to check it out
places with easy access
Sexchick
haha i would but i'm incredibly hungover and have uni tmoz
7:57pm
Me
well i commend you for being committed to the idea in spirit
7:57pm
Sexchick
i'm currently lying in bed that's how dead i am
yes i'm spiritually dedicated to the idea
Me
haha sick
ok well i better go down hw
but when you're feeling better we will go on a pool hunting mission
Sexchick
definitely
Me
get well soon
THATS AN ORDER
Sexchick
haha will do catchyax
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I was in a weird mind state before I met up with this chick.
Firstly, I’ve been having a lot of sex recently, to the point where it's not that amazing for me. Given that I just got back from Eurotour where fucked 5 chicks in 10 days, and then I’m seeing multiple girls at the moment, I’m not really inspired to go and fuck new chicks.
Also her Facebook photos did nothing for me. I remember thinking she was really sexy on the night I met her, and then I looked at her Facebook photos and thought ‘what was I thinking? That lighting in that place is fucked…’
Anyway I see some photos and figure she has an ok body and figure that it’s a pretty low investment date for me, and will be fun either way. I cancel on her the first time because the weather was shit, and she texted back disappointed.
We end up rescheduling. I'm really not attached to whether we meet up or not, and I think that would come across in the frequency of my texts, the wording, etc.
I've tried faking non-attachment in the past as a tactic, but the end goal is for it to be real. It makes everything so effortless. So keep that kind of mindset evolution/paradigm shift stuff in mind.
When I was going to meet her, I was thinking ‘oh shit, she’s not even that hot. Ah well. I'll just go and try to fuck her, just be straight up that I want a random sex adventure and nothing more, and if she says no I don’t really give a fuck either way, it just means I have more time playing guitar at home.’
It’s cool because that used to be a rationalization I would tell myself, but now its actually true. I'm actually psyched on clocking 4-6 hours of shred every day, so I really do value any time spent on that.
I arranged to meet her at 10pm at the local shopping strip, which is obviously empty at night. The fact that she’s agreed to meet me there at night when she barely knows me to come on a ‘pool hunting mission’ where I strongly suggested sex would be part of it…is a good sign.
I meet her, on the street corner, and the first thing I think is 'LIES!! HER PHOTOS LIED TO ME! SHE IS WAY HOTTER IN REAL LIFE!!' This is the second time this has happened; me thinking a chicks hot in real life, then seeing Facebook photos and my opinion changing to think she’ not hot, but then seeing her in real life and being MUCH hotter: me risking it and it paying off big time. I’m glad I took this risk, This chick was totally hot and totally worth it.
We chat for 2 mins on a bench, I'm giving her intense sex eyes, and she’s matching my energy with her own sexual eye contact.
I mention my primary school, and suggest we walk there as it’s just across the road.
I already fucked a chick there about a year ago so I knew the logistics were sweet.
We’re walking through the park and I link arms with her. After about 20 meters I ask her whether her mint tastes good, and pull her in close and kiss her to find out.
The kiss was amazing. Everything about her was like a warm apple pie. Her skin, her lips, her energy...she was a goddess.
Physical beauty is not the be-all and end-all of course, the women who’ve had the biggest impact on my emotionally have all had their flaws...but still, it doesn’t make experiencing perfection in the physical form any less amazing.
It’s an end point of expression for all the tension I build up when I see hot girls in magazines/online/other media. Its like ‘YESS fuck yeah this is my fantasy coming true.’
We kissed, there was so much tension; I was melting into her body. We went for a walk, and I took her down the dark lane I knew was private. She was a bit hesitant at a few of these points but I just led confidently. Her willingness to go along with the whole process without causing a fuss or being immature was so fuckin sexy.
It’s like FUCK YES, me and this chick are on the same page! We’re both just here for a random sexy encounter.
I was running my hands all over her body, up her top, feeling her tits, kissing her neck...she was shivering. I was so amazed by how beautiful her body was, and she could tell that I was transfixed by it. I didn’t try to hide it at all, I showed my appreciation by the way I looked at it, touched it, caressed it, held it, kissed it.
She had tiny denim short shorts on, and I was running my hands all over her legs, eventually I put my hand down her pants.
She pulled back, and made it clear that she wanted me to stop. I stepped back and she said ‘is this all you want me for?’
‘yep, not gonna lie about that’ I said. It was pretty fucking clear; I met her for 2 mins and then take her to a school to fuck her. She said ‘well all the guys I know lately have just wanted to use me for sex’.
I said ‘well, yep, that’s me. I figure its always better to be straight about that kinda stuff.’
We wandered out of the lane over to the steps and sat down.
Over this time I was really relaxed, and just talked through her issues with her. I asked her if she was looking for a boyfriend, she said shed just ended a 4-year relationship. She told me about how she’s fucked 2 guys in the past two weeks, but then worried that she was a slut. Told her about my views on sex, how sexually free girls are cool; she started telling me about how she was so in touch with her sexuality, more than other girls. Once she saw my sexual attitude was non-judgemental it encouraged her to open up, and to try to prove herself to me sexually.
This discussion went on for about 10 minutes, she mentioned how the guys she fucked were her friends, and how they were shit in bed, and eventually she goes ‘ I just need some random guy that I don’t know for casual sex’.
And I go ‘um...duh...that’s me, silly. That’s the best bit, I don’t know any of your friends, I'm just a stranger you can have a passionate sexual experience with’.
She was like ‘oh! My god, you’re right! You’re perfect!’
There was a few points during this talk when she mentioned sex in a way like ‘you better be good’ and my vibe was ‘don’t you worry about that, I'm gonna fuck you really hard and good. ‘ I think I said something like ‘you can decide if I'm shit in bed when I penetrate you’.
I went to take a piss and jokingly said ‘now’s your chance to run off if you want’.
When I got back I just sat behind her on the stairs and bear hugged her. We kissed again, and I admired her sexy legs, kissing and caressing them.
I walked her back to the lane, and we kissed again. I slowly removed her clothes; her body was such a joy to explore. I was savouring every second of it. Her skin was so smooth, and so WARM. When we were both naked together our bodies were creating the coolest sexual energy. It just felt so right.
She sucked my dick really well, and when I grabbed her hair and throat fucked her, she gasped with the pleasure of being dominated. I told her to stand up, and traced my tongue over her smooth, tanned, soft stomach to the top of her juicy pussy. My tongue slid along her lips, brushed over her clit, and buried itself as far inside itself as I could push it. She was gasping with pleasure, and I could feel her pussy shaking and vibrating in reaction.
After feasting on her for a while, I rolled a condom on and slid into her with ease, she was so wet. The sex was relatively quick but interesting: even with tantric practice, sometimes I can still have really short sex sessions. The only difference is that I'm better in tune with my energy, her energy, and the overall sexual experience.
So instead of pleasant, dull pumping for 20 minutes, and then me finishing, I pound the shit out of her in 15 second bursts, then just spent a while growling and biting her, and redirecting all the intense sex energy I feel from how amazing being inside her feels into her body through my hands and mouth. The sex might only last 5-10 minutes but it’s a much more passionate, climatic and memorable experience.
This means even though I don’t necessarily give her a marathon fucking session, it’s an intense encounter and it feels longer because I fuck her in so many different positions, with different rhythms, from different angles.
So from her point of view, she can feel how into it I am, and she gets teased a lot, but then fucked really hard and deep a lot too, and really feels dominated. She’s exposed to such a wide variety of sexually stimulating scenarios in a short time frame. The fact that I'm fucking her how I want to fuck is also sexy for her. This all combines to make for an explosive dynamic.
I fucked her from behind, so hard and so deep, but I couldn’t stay in there for long. It felt so insanely good. I would pump her doggystyle, then have to pull out, then put one leg up on the bench and fuck her like that, then have to pull out, then ram her against the wall, and fuck her like that. We changed positions a lot.
After a while I had an orgasm, and then went soft. I was feeling so horny from how hot her body was that I rammed my dick in her mouth and told her how horny I was, and she said 'I want you to fuck me again...only if you fuck me really hard. I love being fucked hard'. Immediately Iå got hard again, and fucked her again, only for about 30 seconds but it was intense. I think I didn’t blow the first time, which was a cool tantra breakthrough because it means my first orgasm was without ejaculation.
It was so cool to run the whole thing totally on my terms. It was so easy for me. Meeting her in 15 seconds, while I’m at work.... minimal Facebook chat investment, and then a date which totally summed up what I wanted...to meet her on a warm evening, take her somewhere, and fuck her silly, without having to pretend I wanted anything else. The total time of the date from start to finish took almost exactly one hour...very time efficient, and allowed me to come home and play 1.5 hours more of solid shred guitar before going to bed.
Honesty was a good choice when she was quizzing me about my intent...imagine if I had bullshited about what I wanted when she asked if I just wanted sex? She would have seen right through it in a second. Having my values about sex, my self worth, and what I expect from girls sorted just made this effortless. I didn’t have to 'try' at any point; it all just flows now as an expression of who I am. It’s the culmination of years of self-exploration and discovery.
Also, all the sexual experience and confidence I have is driving this on so many levels. It’s present in the way I look at her when we meet, me getting her number, me coming up with such a sexually suggestive date, me not being phased when she hinted that I might not live up to her sexpectations, me being confident in the way I kissed and touched her, and led her to a sex location, me being cool talking about sex... having that base level of sexual confidence drives it.
On the other hand, while that experience is an amazing asset, it’s not entirely necessary...one of the most badass stories I’ve heard was when one of The Natural Lifestyle’s interns a while back was with his first girl; he was 19 and she was 25. He had zero experience. She said 'you have no idea what you're doing do you' and he said 'no but I’m gonna do it anyway' and proceeded to lose his virginity with her. What a fucking champ.
In summary, when you reach a certain point sex is just a by-product of your lifestyle. It feels great to be really capitalizing on this, hope this inspires other guys to put in the hard yards in terms of their inner game to get to this point.