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| Author: | PapaWolf (mikeycasanova) [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Embarrassed During Sex- 30 Days of No Porn |
So this has happened to me before and I found the cure. I pulled the other night, I have an "I Owe You Money If I Don't Pull" series on a meetup.com group for long island. Basically I have to pull every night I go out or I have to give $5 per member who asks. Back to it, I pulled last Sunday back to her place. A half-hour from where I live. Short Blonde, 5'1/5'2. Rectangular glasses (i like that), small waist and big tits. She must have been fat and lost weight or something. Pick Up seemed seamless. About 2 hours into it we get back to her place. It was a small little 2 bedroom house with 3 small dogs. On the coach watching a movie, of course the perfect excuse to fark, right? Yes, yes it is. So I start at. First with the hand on the belly, the other around the waist, nudging my nose to hers. Eventually sliding one hand down her pants and the other up her shirt. She starts to moan and that's like a super signal to reach into my pants pocket, open my wallet, grab the condom and undo the wrapper. I actually did all of that without looking, after my pants were balled up over one of her dogs. Yeah I got some token resistance like, "I'm not sure if I'm ready for my pants to come off" That took about 1 minute to forget about. But when she said, "do you have protection" as I'm actually putting it on, I couldn't help but laugh a little, on the inside. Now we're good, obviously. She got off twice. So apparently my going for an extended period of time is not the issue. In fact it's the exact opposite. I go too long, can't finish and when the girls trying to finish up, I get things like, "my arm is getting tired", "c'mon", or "uugh, finish already" Yea I'm not kidding. The worse part is they mumble it or say really low key, like there talking to themselves. farking frustrating man. So this is what I'm going to do. 30 Days of no porn. I think the years of watching free miscellaneous porn on the internet damaged my brain. Now I'm not a porn addict, I'm not jacking it 3/4/5 times a day. As I've gathered most guys jerk it 1-2 times PER DAY. So I'm half that. I've actually done this before, and I was cured for about 6 months. So I think it's time I do it again. 30 Days... Just as a sidenote, does anyone know any studies done pertaining to this subject. |
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| Author: | HappySlip [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:32 am ] |
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Damn the longest I've gone was like 3 weeks..I got scared that my dick doesn't work no more man cuz like in 40 yr. old If you don't use it you lose it...thats right ....right? |
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| Author: | andd95 [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 3:54 am ] |
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i've had this happen before to me particularly when i'm drunk it does take quite a while. if you think you are more into the porn try out crazy things with the girl. for me it helped i have been told i'm quite rough when drunk and the girls ended up liking it as well. |
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| Author: | bvanevery [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 7:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Embarrassed During Sex- 30 Days of No Porn |
Quote: I go too long, can't finish and when the girls trying to finish up,
Last time that happened to me, someone suggested that it could be a latex allergy. Try switching to a non-latex condom and see if it helps.
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| Author: | BigDobes [ Fri Mar 04, 2011 9:15 am ] |
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What kind of condoms are you using? I've definitely had this issue too. Right now it seems like Trojan Fire and Ice, or Warming Sensations do the trick (or at least help) Although I'm definitely also thinking about your drop the porn idea, haha....that or not put down so much booze. |
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| Author: | PapaWolf (mikeycasanova) [ Fri Mar 04, 2011 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | sex |
I've been using trojan intense ribbed, it's got a little extra size that I need. Stopped watching porn for awhile but I've been having more sex also. Problem has since gone away. |
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| Author: | BigDobes [ Fri Mar 04, 2011 5:57 pm ] |
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To me it seems like the ribbed are thicker or something. I used to use them but now I don't notice shit with'em on. Oh and stay away from lifestyles if size is an issue, found that out the hard way, haha (no pun intended) |
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| Author: | Hinduplaya [ Wed Jul 13, 2011 7:15 pm ] |
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when i had a gf i would fuck her without a condom...was so fucking intense i hate condoms |
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| Author: | #1 Jish [ Thu Jul 14, 2011 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Embarrassed During Sex- 30 Days of No Porn |
Quote: So this is what I'm going to do. 30 Days of no porn. I think the years of watching free miscellaneous porn on the internet damaged my brain. Now I'm not a porn addict, I'm not jacking it 3/4/5 times a day. As I've gathered most guys jerk it 1-2 times PER DAY. So I'm half that. I've actually done this before, and I was cured for about 6 months. So I think it's time I do it again. 30 Days... Just as a sidenote, does anyone know any studies done pertaining to this subject. porn damaged your brain..... cured of what for 6 months... |
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| Author: | PapaWolf (mikeycasanova) [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 1:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | @#1Chief |
Just saw this on foxnews, Turns out there are studies about this And I am right http://www.foxnews.com/health/2011/07/2 ... =obnetwork |
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| Author: | Erinson [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 2:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Awesome thread, intersting topic to be sure |
Thanks for the thread |
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| Author: | Indie_Russell [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 9:30 am ] |
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Yes! i can totally relate to this problem, even to the extent of not cumming. Sometimes, like you said, you can feel them getting over it (not cuming) and loose your boner. Well me anyway, maybe 1/3 the time. I dont think you have to not wank for a month, just lay off the porn. If you can cum from your imagination, you can cum easily from having a gorgeous babe riding you. Also, i find condoms worsen the problem, they definatley reduce sensitivity which doesnt help our situation. Good to hear im not the only one. |
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| Author: | Jacob292 [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:26 pm ] |
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Quote: Yes! i can totally relate to this problem, even to the extent of not cumming. Sometimes, like you said, you can feel them getting over it (not cumming) and loose your boner. Well me anyway, maybe 1/3 the time.
Same here! However, to me, not watching porn didn't really do the trick.I don't think you have to not wank for a month, just lay off the porn. If you can cum from your imagination, you can cum easily from having a gorgeous babe riding you. Also, i find condoms worsen the problem, they definitely reduce sensitivity which doesn’t help our situation. Good to hear I'm not the only one. I think my main problem at first is that I wasn't attracted enough by the girl I was with. Since it turned out to be an actual relationship, we got tested, and when we knew we didn't have any sexually transmittable diseases, we just got rid of condoms. That worked very good! But to get yourself checked often, and I never trust people who deliberately say that "they are clean". I don't trust people for things that important. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:49 am ] |
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the problem may be the condom... i hate condoms, i can not cum with a condom... |
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| Author: | jagger25 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:42 pm ] |
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I had the same problem with not being able to cum a few times with a condom on and tried various brands of condoms and stuff. In the end since I was in a monogamous relationship we eventually ditched the condoms and the problem was solved  But I found that slightly larger condoms like trojan magnums, lube, and not wanking for a few days did help somewhat tho.
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