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she starts talking about her gran being in hospital again, so i changed the conversation (i didnt want to be associated with bad feelings about her gran).
LOL I always hate doing this, feel so guilty. When doing this, you want to be careful to not come across as just ignoring, I don't know, I like to show that I might care at least a little. But I usually deal with this by saying something positive/hope giving then cleverly shifting the convo away.Quote:
So i asked when she was coming out again, and told her to wear something kinky for me, she said no she wasnt going to wear anything kinky for me. so i basically said this wasn’t a request i was telling her what i wanted.
Not sure about this, I don't usually offer up the chance to get rejected in anyway, I usually phrase it in a way where it sounds more like i am to reject her/she is trying for me. But, the telling her what you wanted part ould be kinda strong I guess. So that could work fine if thts your thing.For the rest of it, I would have handled it a lot different, but it worked for you, so no point saying how I would have handled it (besides cant be bothered reading through it again
)I'm just usually more crafty/manipulative/sly with my shit. Maybe not necessary, but it works for me, and I enjoy it.
all in all, nice one, mate.
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