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| Author: | vizzy [ Wed Nov 11, 2009 10:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | F-Closed on first date - woman 10+ years older than me |
Ok before I begin, I don't like writing up lay reports or field reports for that matter. Many of the lay reports especially are just people bragging. I will try to write this up as informative as possible without me bragging or sounding obnoxious. Just so you know, I am 18 years old. And I met a 29 year old and number closed her in a mall (people, she looked like she was 21! honest!). So by the age difference I was kind of hesitant to meet this woman again, I am much younger, she's nearly 30, what would we have to talk about? I was surprised, we went on a date and had ALOT of fun, and had a real connection. I did not have to "run game" on her, I talked about whatever came to mind. I look a bit older for my age, so when I told her I was 18, she was just as surprised as me when I found out that she was 29. So we went to this little Chinese restaurant and had a great time. She was telling me how she has a kid (I think she said he was 2) who was staying with her mother during weekends because she had to work away from the house. NO I'm not going to get involved with a woman who has a kid, I don't plan to! We talked for a bit more and she told me she also felt self conscious about her age, she always imagined herself married at this age. This led onto the conversation of how older woman are different to younger woman. Anyways we started talking about sex, and I was telling her how younger woman who I've met tend to think of sex as some big step instead of how I see it, as a fun sport between two (or more) people. I told her that woman like sex just as much as men and that woman who deny this have probably never had a good orgasm. Anyways the conversation led onto orgasms that woman can have, I have read a bit about this and have had experience, so I was telling her about what I do during sex. Then I was blown away, she says to me (something like) 'in all my time dating, many guys have tried to get me horny during a date, and most haven't even come close to how much this is turning me on" I decided to play it cool and said something like, oh well I feel special. And (this was my favorite part) she just say's "you're coming home with me tonight" It was so great! I wasn't expecting her to say that, but the way she said it was such a turn on, I think that's why I liked it so much, it was just a no bullshit, no tricks type of thing. We're walking out of the restaurant and she says 'have you got condoms?' (again, straight to the point! excellent!). I tell her I do, and we start joking about how I felt confident to bring condoms on a date. Anyways we get back to her apartment (HUGE hotel room actually, because her company pays for it) and it was on! Anyways we were on the bed and I knew she was really turned on just because of her breathing, and her enthusiasm. I decided to tease her a bit more so I say "what would you say if I told you I wasn't in the mode for sex tonight?" (I said this in a way so she knew I was joking, but she couldn't be too sure) Anyways she said something along the lines of we're having sex whether you like it or now (she was joking too) And by this time she must've been really excited because she grabbed my shirt and ripped like half of it open (3 of the buttons got ripped off) So anyways that's the lay report, I did have sex and it was great! but I also ripped my favourit shirt The main point of this LR is, I think older woman tend to be easier to pick up then younger ones. I didn't use any tricks or routines, I was just being myself. And maybe it's me or my experience but I'm starting to get the feeling older woman look at sex differently than the younger (18-24) ones. Can anyone support what I'm saying or contradict it? I really want to hear other peoples thoughts and opinions. |
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| Author: | Klever [ Wed Nov 18, 2009 6:45 pm ] |
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Cool story. I want to call it "impressive" but you made is sound easy. lol I'll go to my local mall and see if I get lucky too! (i'm 17) But hey, once you had sex with her, did you even hanged out with her again or did you just stop your game? |
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| Author: | vizzy [ Wed Nov 18, 2009 11:49 pm ] |
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Quote: Cool story.
I do still hang out with/have sex with her. It's more like a casual thing. So she is only working in my city on weekdays, but only 2 weeks for every month, so I only see her very occasionally because she isn't always in the city.I want to call it "impressive" but you made is sound easy. lol I'll go to my local mall and see if I get lucky too! (i'm 17) But hey, once you had sex with her, did you even hanged out with her again or did you just stop your game? It's more like, she doesn't have anyone in this city and I keep her company sometimes, maybe take her to lunch or just hang out. |
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| Author: | ross_mack [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 3:49 am ] |
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I love picking up at the mall you feel so accomplised. From my past experiences I believe older women are easier to pick up than younger girls because alot of younger girls are just starting to explore their sexuality where as older women have been through that already.. its nothing new. This isnt to say all are like that, Ive met a few that were more immature than 17yr olds ive slpet with. Younger girls feel if they sleep with a bunch of guys they will be burdoned with the steriotype of being a slut and would care about what their friends think. Older women and their friends have all had them so no one is there to judge. |
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| Author: | Brah [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: F-Closed on first date - woman 10+ years older than me |
Quote: I'm starting to get the feeling older woman look at sex differently than the younger (18-24) ones.
Yes, absolutely. A lot of younger girls just out of principle won't sleep with you until the "xth date", whether that be 3rd or 10th or whatever. women 24+ don't care about those BS standards as much, they are more comfortable.
Can anyone support what I'm saying or contradict it? I really want to hear other peoples thoughts and opinions. |
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| Author: | Klever [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 5:09 pm ] |
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Hm. this is pretty interesting. Older woman rock! |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 6:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: F-Closed on first date - woman 10+ years older than me |
Quote: This led onto the conversation of how older woman are different to younger woman. Anyways we started talking about sex, and I was telling her how younger woman who I've met tend to think of sex as some big step instead of how I see it, as a fun sport between two (or more) people. I told her that woman like sex just as much as men and that woman who deny this have probably never had a good orgasm. Anyways the conversation led onto orgasms that woman can have, I have read a bit about this and have had experience, so I was telling her about what I do during sex.
Fucking love it. Great stuff.
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| Author: | vizzy [ Sat Nov 21, 2009 1:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: F-Closed on first date - woman 10+ years older than me |
Quote: Quote: I'm starting to get the feeling older woman look at sex differently than the younger (18-24) ones.
Yes, absolutely. A lot of younger girls just out of principle won't sleep with you until the "xth date", whether that be 3rd or 10th or whatever. women 24+ don't care about those BS standards as much, they are more comfortable.Can anyone support what I'm saying or contradict it? I really want to hear other peoples thoughts and opinions. |
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| Author: | D-Clev [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 8:37 am ] |
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Women 26+ tend to not care about casual sex. From bar experience i've noticed that older women love younger guys who approach them. It makes them feel more proud of being an older hot female. Many have stories but one i have of "falatio on the beach from the 31 year old" will prove my comment true. Older women are much easier yet more fun to pick up. Not much a challenge but more of a task. |
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| Author: | TheFuture [ Sun Dec 27, 2009 3:19 am ] |
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Good job man,it seems that over half of the women ive been with are over 28 and yes they are direct and tend to know what they want. in my eyes these women have came across plenty of guys that couldnt satisfy them so usually if they sense that you can give it to them how they want it then ur in, usually. |
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| Author: | miamiheat87 [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 11:03 pm ] |
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WOW. Great job vizzy. I like the way you write the report. Don't let age get in the way. If you see a hot woman, and you want to bang her - go for it. No matter how much older they are then you, they are still females. You can aim higher too bro. The biggest age difference i've had is 16+ years. I'm curious about how you opened her in the mall. Can you elaborate on that? |
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| Author: | vizzy [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 11:24 pm ] |
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Quote: WOW. Great job vizzy. I like the way you write the report. Don't let age get in the way. If you see a hot woman, and you want to bang her - go for it. No matter how much older they are then you, they are still females. You can aim higher too bro. The biggest age difference i've had is 16+ years. I'm curious about how you opened her in the mall. Can you elaborate on that?
I saw her enter a sunglass store and went in aswell. When I was there I just started trying on sunglasses and then I just said something like 'be honest, do these suit me, or do they make me look a bit feminine?' and we just kept talking from there. To be honest I spent about 20 minutes in the mall with her. After we left the sunglasses store we got a coffee but before we could really sit down to talk she got a call from her work or something so I got her number instead.Like I said when I saw her she looked like she was in her early 20's, I don't think I would've done so well at opening if I knew she was older than that because I would've probably tried being someone different to appeal to her age instead of just being my playful self. I only found out how old she really was after I had gotten her number. And it's funny because we went on an actual "date" like to a restaurant. When I meet a girl for the first time after I have gotten her number I NEVER take her to a place like that! |
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| Author: | miamiheat87 [ Fri Jan 01, 2010 8:11 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: WOW. Great job vizzy. I like the way you write the report. Don't let age get in the way. If you see a hot woman, and you want to bang her - go for it. No matter how much older they are then you, they are still females. You can aim higher too bro. The biggest age difference i've had is 16+ years. I'm curious about how you opened her in the mall. Can you elaborate on that?
I saw her enter a sunglass store and went in aswell. When I was there I just started trying on sunglasses and then I just said something like 'be honest, do these suit me, or do they make me look a bit feminine?' and we just kept talking from there. To be honest I spent about 20 minutes in the mall with her. After we left the sunglasses store we got a coffee but before we could really sit down to talk she got a call from her work or something so I got her number instead.Like I said when I saw her she looked like she was in her early 20's, I don't think I would've done so well at opening if I knew she was older than that because I would've probably tried being someone different to appeal to her age instead of just being my playful self. I only found out how old she really was after I had gotten her number. And it's funny because we went on an actual "date" like to a restaurant. When I meet a girl for the first time after I have gotten her number I NEVER take her to a place like that! |
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| Author: | Johnny B. [ Fri Jan 01, 2010 9:05 pm ] |
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I dont usually read this section but i have to say that this post of yours was a one solid post. A great example of how much sexual frame can benefit your game when its built up right. Thanks for posting this. [ Johnny B ] |
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