Yo,
So I went to my mates twentyth party, was a tribal theme'd party, and I ended up hooking up with this girl, got some K closes and then a number close, she asked me to text her the next day.
When I did text her I said I didnt like text convo's so I set up a date, was good date, drinks, dinner, ice-cream, then walked her home, busted out the "can i come inside for a glass of water" then K close, she had work early next day so I had to go.
We kept in contact and then I invited her out for a spontaneous date (I just finished work sunday night and text her saying "I'm gana head to the beach, wanna come along.") so we had gelato ice-cream and i took her back to my house and F closed.. and again in the morning, yuss!
So all gud, but then her friend (kate) lives with my mate (Scott) and (kate) overheard my mate (scott) talking to my SPAM about me being a pimp and told the chick that I F closed that I was dating other people.

So being a good friend (kate) told the girl and I get a text saying
"Hey I just found out that your seeing other people, which would be fine if we didnt hasve sex but we did, so I guess it's off."
I replied saying
"ok fair enuf I understand, Im not ready for a relationship, i think your a nice gurl so lets just be friends"
she said
"I dont want a realtionship eiither, Im going away 4 summer so that wud be stupid. bit i still dont like being played, yup friends."

So what should I have done?
Told her that I was going to be seeing other people? before or after sex?
Done damage control when she said I was seeing other people?
I would like some feedback cause I just got into pua a couple months ago after getting out of a 2 year 8 Month relationship.
Cheers

Now lets look at her response. She agrees with you about being friends and not wanting a relationship because shes going away and whatever else. But she still feels played by you. Its funny because she says she doesn't want a relationship with you but implies through her statements that she wants you to be
monogamous with her if your going to be sleeping with her

I never come out and say I'm sleeping with other women but I kind of imply it when I'm talking to her. It's her choice then of whether she wants to pursue it any further. Most times they will at least in my experience. You should never apologize, do damage control or whatever for doing something that makes you happy.

I believe you did what you should have done. That reply was good, and you gave her the decision, so you have to respect her choice. All though I would have gotten mad if my friend were openly talking about that with a friend of a girl I liked.

Else I can not see anything wrong, it takes guts writing like you did, and you never know. Perhaps things will be different when she returns after the summer;)

- Exerio