Hey guys,
I’d like to ask you all a question but first I feel I have to set the scene.
I went sarging a few weeks back with Chad_Chadwick (his name has a personal meaning), he’s a relative newbie and he’s got a great attitude. I think he’s gonna become a great PUA.
I wanted to show him that this stuff really works and demonstrate what I had gotten out of the community.
Chad winged perfectly and despite not closing the friend of a 2 set we had open in a another bar I eventually ended up with this HB6, a teacher from London with a really lovely personality (and a big pair jugs
) She was the marrying type.To cut a long story short I F-closed on the day 2 and then stayed at her flat the next weekend down in London. We went into London and rode the London Eye and afterwards she rode me
Throughout the whole seduction ritual from meet to F-close I didn’t feel that magic spark or butterflies in my stomach.
The Monday afterwards I called her and told her that despite the fact that I thought she was one of the most sensual girls I’d ever met, I didn’t think we had that special something. She didn’t see it coming and became really upset. However, she didn’t protest too much which I took to mean that she too couldn’t feel a spark.
Before learning about Game I would not have normally gone beyond the phone number if I didn’t think I felt a connection. I’ve tried to rationalise it by saying that what I was doing was allowing enough time to pass for a connection to grow should there ever have be one.
My questions are these:
Do you guys who have become good at the game find it emotionally difficult to let a girl go? I guess this is character building.
What would you have done in my position?
All comments welcome.
Mint