Been there, mate. But I decided, we both have a good time, that's what matters the most. Chin up, lad.
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| Author: | blanch32 [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 11:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help! I feel horrible about what I did last night |
Bottom line: I completely seduced an innocent naive 29 year-old girl (I'm 3 years younger) that I really wasn't into, but just wanted to get some to end the 5 week drought. I mean, she talked a good game b/f we started messing around, but damn it was clear as day how nervous/inexperienced she was when the clothes came off. I guess I just feel bad b/c I was being totally selfish, and had to result to guilt to blast about 2 hours worth of LMR to get what I wanted. She kept stopping me at the belt buckle, but I would just pull back, run the next gammit, then proceed onward. This probably happened f'n 10 times, until she caved--I mean I totally "Boiler Roomed" her ass. I even promised to hang out w/ her on Friday, even though I had absolutely no intentions of calling her again. It wasn't even that good either. I don't know, I just feel wrong and dirty--like I executed the nuclear option b/c I wanted to--didn't need to. I mean, she's a really cool, honest, guinene, selfless girl who you only met like once every 25 girls, but simply isn't my type both physically and experience level. I don't know guys, I think i need to put my self on "Time Out" for the next two months or something...I just feel like total POS right now. Anyone else experience this and have any advice? |
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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 1:00 am ] |
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learn from ur mistake and don't do it again if u dont want to. dont dwell on it |
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| Author: | com.solo [ Fri Dec 19, 2008 1:17 am ] |
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Dude. She's 29. If she didn't want you she wouldn't have said yes. Trust me. |
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| Author: | xeroxed88 [ Sat Dec 20, 2008 10:48 pm ] |
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Been there, mate. But I decided, we both have a good time, that's what matters the most. Chin up, lad.
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| Author: | aseanaxe [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:02 pm ] |
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you are a good man... But I think maybe you should try zoning her in the F-Friend zone, by saying something like "Now I'm so busy I cant make a girlfriend. I don't have time to think about a others... But is it selfish if sometimes I want to meet you?" |
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| Author: | dark one [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 12:02 am ] |
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I think many time PUA's forget that we are still human and that we still have a responsibility to be respectful. Ther isint much you can do now but its a lesson learned. Many PUA's went their who life feeling power less and now they have the power to have almost any women they want and unforchantly they dont know how to handle the power they have been handed. Its kinda like an evil vilan effect lol and it seems like about 90% of PUA's forget that women still need to be treated with respect. |
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| Author: | VSaon [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 12:15 am ] |
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Yeah man, Props for actually feeling bad but the truth is that she IS 29 so WTF. Hang out with her again and just go total AFC on her, we all know what happens when you do that. She won't even want to talk to you. If you know how to pick up chicks then you definitely know how to get rid of them. Good luck buddy. |
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| Author: | BigJohn [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 11:09 am ] |
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Her actual age has nothing to do with her innocence. I know 50yold women who are as innocent as 16yolds. Good on you for picking up on that, but also bad on you for abusing your PUA power. That's the type of thing that gives PUA's a bad reputation. Also, bad actions stimulate bad feelings. I know of a number of guys who (deservedly) got their tyres slashed, etc. Walking away from this woman is going to cause more harm than good. She deserves a proper apology. It is important to take responsibility for the feelings of resentment/bitterness/any other feelings you caused. It's not necessary to draw out the apology, but you have to state exactly what it is that you regret, and ask her forgiveness. That means you DHV and leave it up to her to forgive you. Thank her if she does, and forget about it if she doesn't. And don't abuse your power again. It's uncool and it will bite you in the back when you least expect it. Here's a good site on "how to apologise". <http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/b ... part-3.php> |
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| Author: | Epicurus [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 11:54 am ] |
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Apologising also builds trust so you're more likely to get her back in bed again later on. |
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| Author: | backdoor man [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 1:29 am ] |
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Your remorse speaks of your character, so at least you know you're a good guy. |
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