It's been a few mad weeks of work so when I had the opportunity to f-close a Chinese HB7.5 I went for it. I met her at a workshop some two months ago (posted a FR about it) and established an emotional connection by talking about missing my nieces back home coz I'm working in Asia, been emailing/texting since then and getting her to talk to me about her sex life. She's 31 and I'm 26 so she's had alot to share...hehehe
THIS IS NO DOUBT THE BEST EXPERIENCE I'VE EVER HAD WITH A LOCAL HB. IF PEOPLE THINK MALAYSIA IS HARD FOR SARGING, I SUGGEST YOU CHANGE YOUR MINDSET. WHAT I’VE LEARNT.
· Be too naïve to know you can’t fail
· Don’t neg too hard. Use cocky/funny after opening with a normal “hello”, “do you speak English?” or “how do I get to….”
· Do not lie. Project your goal for sex or a relationship. Local women are extremely perceptive and prefer relationships
· Local HBs love hand-holding
· I’m still learning more
So Thursday last week, she texts me out of the blue to say she's picking me up on Saturday morning so we can drive to Malacca, a historic city about two hours from the capital city. She says I'm too worked up with deadlines. Saturday morning, she comes through and is wearing a short skirt with flower prints and a yellow t-shirt.
HB: Wow, you're wearing shorts!
WTF?...i totally ignore her comment and sit in the passenger seat, kiss her on her cheek then pull out my iPod and put on my earphones. She laughs, drives off and just as we leave my apartment block, I ask her loudly (the way people do when they've got earphones)
ME: Are we there yet?
She laughs again and pulls the earphone from my ear.
HB: You're not sitting in my car listening to your iPod.
ME: I'm not? Wow, what else can't i do in your car?
HB: just chill with me
I look back at her backseat and then back at her then smile
She laughs again
ME: What?
HB: Forget it...
We drive off to Malacca, I'm negging her all the way there about her driving, music and stuff. I run my hand on her thighs, nibble on her ear. I routinely place my hand behind her neck and tug at her hair while she drives. She moans, smiles and looks at me, her eyes glaze over and I smile,
"Keep your eyes on the road."
At this point, I've never run kino on this HB, we've only been emailing but the comfort she got from telling me about herself on email made it easy for me.
I note to myself, if i can't same-day or Day 2, emailing and talking on the phone kicks the ass of all the nervous moments you have when you see her again. Besides, the image a girl has of you when you see her for a day 2 is based on exactly what you said and did when you met...not the subsequent texts and emails. Good thing I was cocky&funny the first time.
We get to Malacca and visit historic sites, ships and burial grounds for people in 1718 and stuff. she takes photos, I take photos of her. We laugh, I kino, she rests her head on my shoulder as we walk. Tourists say hi to us, we say hi right back. I ask an HB7 where she's from, she says she's from Scotland. I talk about how Celtic and Rangers are the only teams in the Scottish Football League, HB7 laughs, moves on. ALL THE WHILE I’M:
· Demonstrating that women are comfortable around me
· Showing her that I have social value
· Signaling she’s not the only person I can talk to
· Making her want to see my other side – the sexual side – coz its clear what I’m like in public
HB7.5: You really connect easily with people...
I shrug and we have lunch and I kino some more by holding her hand while we walk around. I deliberately make no attempt to k-close. I don't talk about sex but throw in some comments,
ME: "i was thinking..."
HB: what about? Scottish football?
ME: "I think we should stay the night"
HB: Really?
ME: "yEAH, you can sleep in the car and I'll book myself a room."
I act like I'm her nervous ex-boyfriend trying to win her back but isnt sure how she'll react
HB: Why don't you drive on the way back?
ME: You promise to behave? (PLANTING THE SEEDS OF PLAYFULNESS)
HB: Promise. It'll be like daddy dropping off his little girl to school (she laughs)
I make mental note - get her to give you a hand-job or some brain. Sadly, I never get the chance to do it. Here's why.
We were on the road no less than half an hour when she began sniffing my shirt, toying with my hair. She then pulled up my shorts and started running her nails along my thigh. Then she stopped and sat upright, facing forward like she hadn't done anything. (A reversal of roles - give him a little and let him work for more.)
ME: Keep your eyes on the road...(IT'S A CUE TO GET HER TO DO THE OPPOSITE)
She laughs (she does that alot) and pulls down her seat and i cant help but smile
Her hand goes stright for my zip and flies down, pulls me out and begins to give me a hand job. I'm doing 80 per hour when she digs into her bag, pulls out some sunscreen
and I laugh...
ME: You're not putting sunscreen on me!
HB: Why (laughing)
ME: Coz i dont need it! (I'm not thinking fast enough for comebacks. If any of you guys ever had suncreen on your members, please tell me about it)
HB: Chicken...chi-ck-eeeen!
I laugh and its getting darker as we drive, she digs into her bag again and pulls out some lotion. She gives me a proper hand job but stops mid-way and zips me up and lies back on her seat, staring at me and sniggering.
HB: I need to pick up something at my office
ME: You want to fuck
it comes out so matter-of-fact and I almost regret it the moment it slips out
coz she goes all quiet for a while then gives me directions to her office and we get there around 8PM. Nobody's there. I hit the gents to freshen up, go to her office and we shoot the shit about her work, she shows me a few things on youtube (all the while I'm thinking --- this is what a PUA does to HBs, not the other way round!) I wheel my chair away from her and look at her. ME: This is boring...
HB: Well, you can go if you want to
ME: I do, you want to walk me out? (I'M TRYING TO MAKE HER COME TO ME. THERE'S LESS LMR TO DEAL WITH THAT WAY I THINK)
HB: Sure
She shuts down the PC (that's my cue) stands, walks over to me and I don't move. I swivel my chair in front of her and she's facing me, standing up while I'm sitting. I reach over and swtich off the light and she giggles. Just as I'm swiveling back to face her, she raises one leg and sits on my laps. Her body is hot and soft. She begins to unbutton my shirt and kisses my chest and I put my hands under her skirt. We're kissing and she pulls back.
I lift her off and unbuckle my belt, and pull down my shorts. No details but she gave me a BJ then before she sat on me, I dug into my bag and wrapped on a wrapper (always be safe!) and she literally fucked me, bobbing up and down, grinding on me. After she comes, she finishes me off with another BJ. She's sitting on the floor and looks at me, says she can't drive and I laugh.
ME: Come on, I just did all the work!
We got into her car, drove straight to my place, parked outside and shot the shit about how it was a fun day. I pecked her on her cheek and got to my apartment. Watched the Liverpool Vs Fulham game on TV, got bored and jacked off to her.
Apart from advice on how to drive safely, I welcome your comments and feedback.