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| Author: | TheLionWithin [ Thu May 02, 2013 1:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Fun and great lessons from a cougar |
So guys, I hooked up with this cougar I hadn't seen in a while. I met her when I first started the game. She's kinda chubby and she's no 10, but she's got some real intense sexual energy and confidence that makes me genuinely find her attractive. And of course she's real experienced and amazing in bed, and has fantasies all the way up to soft rape, so she's great practice to unleash my ability to dominate and get comfortable with the inner beast. Ok so we hooked up the other night, and spent a couple days and nights together. First thing is she was blown away by how I'd grown as a man. I've talked with her frankly about my quest to come out of my shell and improve my ability to connect with a woman (that's how you convey pickup so you gain points instead of having her write you off as a creepy player), and she's very supportive of some projects in the works which I'm not ready to discuss, geared toward helping other guys. She was even teaching me routines to use on other women LOL!!! I'm talking tantra-inspired techniques similar to soul... what is it, soul gazing? And I was asking her all kinds of questions, and she's very self aware and honest about what she likes. She wasn't telling me stuff like "just be yourself," she was giving me killer advice to add to my game, and really insightful explanations of female psychology. Ok, well obviously we fucked as well, a great deal. I asked her if she'd ever squirted, she said yes and I asked her to teach me to make her squirt. I explain how in another post, which I'll link if there's interest. She was very honest. One good thing about squirting is it's impossible to fake, but she also told me when I'd given her many orgasms in a row. (I didn't ask and you shouldn't, it shows lack of confidence and annoys women.) But she also challenged me, because I thought I was being quite dominant and aggressive with her, and she told me that I still hadn't completely dominated her. She said I'd start out on the right track, and then let go of her arms that I'd pinned over her head against the bed (for instance), and she'd lose the feeling of being totally dominated. I wasn't offended, I let it push me. Note that not all women want it quite that aggressive, you have to feel it out but don't be timid. If you go overboard, she'll let you know. You can apologize for being too bold, but what do you say when you've been timid and failed to excite her in bed? Even women who don't want to be spanked (yes, they exist) and want romantic lovemaking, want it with all the passion you've got, so don't be shy. So most of the time we were sober or just a bit tipsy, but our last night we both got drunk as hell. We were fucking in the shower, and I lost my balance and we both came crashing down. I grabbed the shower curtain to catch my balance, and the damned pole fell down on our heads. She came tumbling out of the bathtub on top of me, looked at me with drunk eyes, laughed hysterically and said "OMG that was epic!!!!" Then I dressed nice and she dressed up as a prostitute just for me, and we went out to late night Denny's. I noticed a group and pointed out they were trannies. She said "OMG really??," got up, and stumbled over to tell them how beautiful they all were. Then she proceeded to tell them the story of our epic sex fail in the shower, and that we'd decided to come to Denny's to have a food orgasm since we couldn't have a real one. Another group of two tables, one with whites and one with blacks, mistakenly interpreted a comment by my date as racist. They got insanely offended, and I knew that my date wasn't racist and they were just easily triggered by any little thing. I overheard one of the white girls say to her friend "I feel sorry for that guy. He just picked up a prostitute and wanted some fun, he didn't expect to get in the middle of a race war." So I stood up, walked over inbetween their tables, and stared that girl down with the deadliest glare like I meant business. "She is NOT a prostitute," I stated. They were all total assholes, and it escalated until one of the guys got up and stared me down, ready for a fight unless I left. At this point, my date tugged me back, just lightly enough to signal that she didn't want a fight to break out. I turned and broke eye contact to the side with the man, making clear that I was unafraid to stand up for my date, and we moved to the other end of the restaurant where we could eat in peace. I got brownie points for being willing to stand up for her, without the battle scars from actually fighting. That chick was a total mess for the rest of the night. She was bawling, saying she had never been called a prostitute in her life. She is also going through other issues that I don't want to talk about, for fear that I might say something personally revealing. Long story short, I decided to cut things with her, but I've got to be grateful for being able to learn from a woman like that. She was an insanely good mentor. I can't help but feel I learned more from her than I probably would have at a $3000 bootcamp. You guys, some of these cougars do have quite a lot of baggage that makes them, shall we say, damaged goods, but if you find one at the right place in her life, milk her for all she's worth. She might be relatively easy to pick up, but she will help you grow both your relationship skills and your sexual skills and confidence like no other. Cheers guys. |
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| Author: | Voluntaryism [ Thu May 02, 2013 3:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fun and great lessons from a cougar |
Great post! I hope to have a similar experience within the next year as well. There's a lot to be learned from older women. |
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| Author: | TheLionWithin [ Thu May 02, 2013 4:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fun and great lessons from a cougar |
U know what's a great place to meet women like that? Google "tantra groups " in your area, or search for them through meetup. I wonder if there are any near u. It would be worth a try, even if ur almost sure the answer is no. The cons to these groups : u have to be comfortable enough in ur sexuality to eye gaze with men, and some of the women there are just old or unattractive to the point of being gross. The pros : u are meeting women in a sexually charged environment they consider safe, which means u can often skip attract and comfort altogether and go straight for seduction. U can actually lose these women if u try to play a tight game from attract to comfort and all that. The way I met this woman, I just looked at her dead in the eyes like she was my prey, with a slight devilish half grin spreading, and she came crawling to me and said "I thought I was leaving. " so this is a great way to get comfortable with the later stages of ur game, when the early stages don't need to be near as tight. Best to u man. |
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