Although i'm not quite the relationship type of guy i think my first gf learnt me all there is to know.
Look for a main girl that you can practice with. Be honest and open aboutsex. No big deal.
What gets you off?
just correct me if i do it wrong.
etc.
Most girls come with clitoral stimulation and i've had the best experience with that.
However girls are very different, even on clitoral stimulatin.
Some like a slow buildup of speed en pressure, some want rough action right away, some like nails on there clit when they are close to their climax.
In general i'd recommend this;
Imagine you lay next to eachother. You are slightly turned towars her and you ave your hand in her X area.
She spreads her legs and you gently stroke her inner thighs until you've reached her pussy lips. than you go back again and gently stroke until her pussy lips.
In the warmup it is key to postpone the moment you go for action until she realy want it bad. So now you have your index finder on her right pussylip and your middle on her left. Again you slichtly stroke her outer lips (at this point you might have noticed minor fluids already. What i likt to do now is gently stroke her inner lips as well. then you go up to the point where the lips start and you go down with your indexfinger and middle finger functioning as a V that opens the lips. You release your fingers, move up, and do the same thing again and again. What you do now is basically moving with your fingers around her clitoris. At the biginning of the stimulation the clitoris will most likely be too sensitive to touch, so its all about working on the areas around it. So now shes got the working and stroking around the clit you can start the actual stimulation.
I alway imagine the clit as a tube that starts high (where the lips start) and ends low (a small bumb just above the vagina entrance) The lowest part is most sensitive so you start high. Low rithm and low pressure. You slowly go down building speed and rithm. My rule is always if youve reached the lowest part (most sensitive part) before she came, and you are now only building speed and pressure, youve moved too fast.
You notice when you have the right rithm/pressure/position from her breath. Heavy breathing means keep doing this and give me slightly more. When she climaxes you can go quite rough and after some spastic movements stop, and keep one finger on her clit without moving. This will make the orgasm longer and she can even get another one.
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