Hey guys,
Background infromation:
This is my first 'real' post and it's about an experiment I did. When I was an AFC -+3 years back I managed to get into a relationship with a girl. In this relationship my now ex-girlfriend had alot of guy-friends who sometimes 'chilled' with my gf. I never liked this much because I always knew the guys liked her more than just a friend.
When I confronted my ex-gf with this she always said, "no, I'm just normal friends with them. I don't even like them, don't worry so much." I did worry and got very annoyed (remember I was an AFC
). I kept telling her man and women can't be friends. I didn't have any girl-friends at that time. So I thought, well I'll find a girl-friend and just be 'friends' with her.The experiment
While I still was in my relationship (2.5 years ago) I picked out a girl from my former school and started to be a friend of her. I talked with her alot, was nice, never to flirty, just 'friends'. She was in a relationship and I was in a relationship. We even watched movies, did fun stuff and all that, as friends.
It was working out, we were just friends although I was wondering about fucking her..
Months later, my ex gf and I broke up. I still talked with my 'friend' who was still in a relationship.
Time passed and a year goes by. After my ex-gf I never had a gf anymore because it's not for me (pua lifestyle
). I started to get into pua-ism and all that and I talked with that 'friend' of mine again. Who was now single as well.Well guess what. I think you can already see what's coming but we fucked. Of course. All this time I was attracted to her and she was attracted to me.
I know for most people this is very obvious but I just wanted to share my story. Maybe this isn't a good experiment because I only did it once. But I was convinced of it and I still am.
If she's hot enough to fuck, you can't be friends.
Although I'm still friends with this girl. But we have sex now too.
Let me know what you think.
Louie
