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EXERCISE 14
SOFT ENTRY
1. Your partner must be fully lubricated, and you should pleasure her until her fluids are flowing. If necessary, you can use a lubricant on her vagina or your penis or both.

2.It is generally easiest for you to be on top so that gravity helps draw the blood into your penis and so that you have as much freedom to move as possible.

3.Circle your thumb and forefinger around the base of your penis to form a finger ring and squeeze gently to push the blood into the shaft and head.

4.Carefully insert your penis into your partner and begin thrusting, keeping your finger ring around the base of your penis.

5.Focus on the blood and sexual energy that are filling your penis and concentrate on the sensations in your penis. Squeeze your perineum and buttocks to push blood into your genitals.

6.Your partner can help stimulate you by playing with your testicles, perineum, and anus.

7.Adjust the tightness of your finger ring to keep your penis engorged enough for thrusting and then remove your fingers when your penis is sufficiently erect for continued thrusting.

8.Reapply the finger ring if your erection wanes (although you generally won't need to do so).

ENTER SOFT, EXIT HARD
Recognizing that all men experience situational impotence at some time or another, the Taoists developed a fail-safe technique they called Soft Entry. The Taoists realized that a man could help with his hands, just as the Yellow Emperor had wished. With this technique and with the cooperation of your partner, you can enter your partner even when you are completely flaccid. Once you are inside your partner, the warmth and sensation of lovemaking will allow you to get an erection in short order. The Soft Entry technique dispels the old belief that a man must have a steel-hard erection before having intercourse, and it is a useful part of any man’s sexual repertoire. Knowing that you have mastered this technique and can use it when necessary will give you greater confidence when faced with the awkward, but common, situation of a penis that is slain to rise.

Author:	juan_frap95 [ Sun May 06, 2012 6:25 pm ]
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i've been with my girlfriend for a month and a half, i met her on a club using what i learned here... to make a long story short, on friday i was at her place and we were on her couch watching a movie, things started to get hot and we went to her room, (during all this time my penis was hard like a rock) but when the time arrived and i had to put on the condom, my penis died, and never came back ! D: when my dad went to pick me up at 1:00 am i started to cry, like what the fuck is wrong with me! he told me that many many many guys have had the same issue, and that i had to know that this wasn't going to be the last time, that the stress and nervousness are the problem. Yesterday, she came over and we started again (during foreplay, hard as a rock, she blowing me, i eating her, etc) but when i put on the condom, it all goes to shit! what can i do? altough yesterday it wasnt THAT flaky, i still couldnt penetrate her, and dude i get hard from nothing lol. has anyone gone through something like this before? it's the second time and i dont know what do do

Author:	AFCostanza [ Mon May 07, 2012 1:33 am ]
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Dude, relax. It sounds maybe like performance anxiety. Like maybe you were so concerned about making her cum, that you were unable to get it up when you needed it. I hope that this girl was understanding, it sounds like she was. I would just relax, and try again. Maybe the condoms are too small also. Just guessing. It sounds like you're way to young for erectile dysfunction, so don't worry about it.

Author:	1eye [ Mon May 07, 2012 2:24 am ]
Post subject:	Re: My "first time" (?)
This is the alternate method taught by the taoist.From 'The multi orgasmic man".You are focusing too much on yourself,try focusing on the girl by thinking of pleasuring her and yourself.Ask her to massage your testicles and penis.If you are anxious take a break and try again. Quote: EXERCISE 14 SOFT ENTRY 1. Your partner must be fully lubricated, and you should pleasure her until her fluids are flowing. If necessary, you can use a lubricant on her vagina or your penis or both. 2.It is generally easiest for you to be on top so that gravity helps draw the blood into your penis and so that you have as much freedom to move as possible. 3.Circle your thumb and forefinger around the base of your penis to form a finger ring and squeeze gently to push the blood into the shaft and head. 4.Carefully insert your penis into your partner and begin thrusting, keeping your finger ring around the base of your penis. 5.Focus on the blood and sexual energy that are filling your penis and concentrate on the sensations in your penis. Squeeze your perineum and buttocks to push blood into your genitals. 6.Your partner can help stimulate you by playing with your testicles, perineum, and anus. 7.Adjust the tightness of your finger ring to keep your penis engorged enough for thrusting and then remove your fingers when your penis is sufficiently erect for continued thrusting. 8.Reapply the finger ring if your erection wanes (although you generally won't need to do so). ENTER SOFT, EXIT HARD Recognizing that all men experience situational impotence at some time or another, the Taoists developed a fail-safe technique they called Soft Entry. The Taoists realized that a man could help with his hands, just as the Yellow Emperor had wished. With this technique and with the cooperation of your partner, you can enter your partner even when you are completely flaccid. Once you are inside your partner, the warmth and sensation of lovemaking will allow you to get an erection in short order. The Soft Entry technique dispels the old belief that a man must have a steel-hard erection before having intercourse, and it is a useful part of any man’s sexual repertoire. Knowing that you have mastered this technique and can use it when necessary will give you greater confidence when faced with the awkward, but common, situation of a penis that is slain to rise.

Author:	juan_frap95 [ Mon May 07, 2012 2:50 am ]
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My mom is like the assistant of an urologist, so she knnow about this shit, and she told me the same thing but i had to post here! thanks guys, and i will be investigating more about taoism, since i read steppenwolf i grew i big curiosity for it.

Author:	Sillsy [ Thu May 10, 2012 6:50 pm ]
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Try a bigger condom, also probably less foreplay. Sometimes to much will desensitize you to much and exacerbate the issue. Have fun dude!

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Author:	green_mo [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 5:43 pm ]
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Have one time the same problem, my penis die when i wanted to fuck her. But, now i know where have been the reason, it's was long forplay...

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