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Author:  PrinceSendai [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:49 pm ]
Post subject:  40 Minute Stranger Sex Close
Hey guys. I will describe my sex close first and then I will go into some analysis.

Here is the story:


After staying at my grandparents’ house until 7 PM, I took a minibus that would take me to a clothing store. I was planning to buy an outfit for an audition (singing competition).

In the minibus I sat next to one of the only girls I found. As it turns out, she had fleshy legs and a pretty decent body.

So I talked to her.

“What are you studying?” I said. She had been writing some stuff on a notebook.
“Nothing. It’s a word game,” she said.
“Really? What word game?” I said.

She explained the word game.

We talked for a little bit longer. Just trivial conversation about life, what we do, etc.

After around 5 minutes, the crucial part came:

“What plans you got for today?” I said.
“Not much. Just go home,” she said.
“You wanna come with me to buy my outfit?” I said.
“I dunno…” she said.

I tried convincing her for a little bit, and I think I did convince her in the end, despite the fact that she didn’t give me a definite yes.

Shortly before reaching our bus stop, she said:

“What’s your number?”
“I’ll give it to you when we get off the bus,” I said.
“But maybe we can go out another day?” she said.
“No. You are coming with me, remember?” I said.
“Okay. But can I have your number?” she said.
“Yeah, but we need to get off the bus first,” I said.
“Alright,” she said.


We got off the bus together and went to sit at some benches.

Since I knew she was attracted to me, I put my arm around her a little bit. I basically had my arm on the bench, but it was around her.

She noticed my arm and actually got closer to me, which was a great sign.

“So what else is new? Don’t be so quiet,” she said.
“I like your lips,” I said.
“Hmmm… Well, don’t you dare kiss me here! What if someone shows up and sees us?” she said.
“Nobody will come over here, we are practically alone,” I said.
“Why don’t we go more over there?” she said.
“Alright,” I said.

We sat near some bushes.

There was nobody around. Here, I did kiss her. However, she was hesitant about the kissing.

“What’s up?” I said.
“Don’t kiss me like that, too much saliva,” she said.
“What? I haven’t even kissed you properly. Have you even kissed before?” I said. Of course I knew she had kissed before.
“Well, it’s too moist then,” she said.
“Want me to dry my lips?” I said.

The thing is, whether I dried my lips or not, she seemed hesitant to kiss.

However, I kept trying to kiss her and touch her.

“Are you turned on?” she said.
“Yes,” I said.
“You want to take me to a hotel, don’t you?” she said.
“I wasn’t thinking about it, but I guess I do,” I said.
“Well, maybe we can meet up another day, we can meet at night,” she said.
“I think it would be better to do it right now, though,” I said.
“Why?” she said.
“I’m kind of busy with rehearsals right now. I have no idea when I’ll be able to see you,” I said. This was true.

The conversation died out a bit and I simply kept trying to kiss her and touch her.

“Want to go for a walk?” she said.
“Okay,” I said. I agreed because it would give me a chance to look for a hotel. I wouldn’t have agreed had she not given me the hotel idea.

“Where are we going?” she said.
“Right there,” I said, and pointed to a hotel off in the distance. I was lucky. I had to look no further.
“I’m kind of scared,” she said.
“Why? I’m a good kid. Quite daring, but I’m a good kid. You know that, don’t you?” I said.
“Yeah, you’re right,” she said, and grabbed me softly around the waist.

We got to the hotel room and got a room in the eighth floor.

It was 8:10 PM when we got inside the hotel room.


When we were inside the hotel room she played hard to get. She refused to even take off her bra. She told me we would not do naughty things and that she was “scared that people would find out”.

I kept insisting for 15 minutes.

After 15 minutes she changed her attitude completely all of a sudden.

She said “okay”. Then she stood up and turned the lights off, leaving the TV on.

“Do you want me to take off my clothes?” she said.
“If you want,” I said.

She took off all her clothes.

“Go on, put your condom on,” she said.

I had previously shown her my penis so it was out of my pants, which is why she asked me to put my condom on. This had been her request, though, to show her my penis.

“We are going to do it right now?” I said.
“Yes,” she said.

So then she lay on the bed naked and I got on top of her. I thrust my penis inside of her and I started shoving it rhythmically in and out.

We kept going at it for 30 or 40 minutes. It was good sex.

Finally, we decided to go.

“If you ever want to meet up, just give me a call. Oh… and let me know one day in advance,” she said.
“Okay,” I said.

So I earned myself a fuck buddy.

I dropped her off at the bus stop at 9:15 PM.

Then I went and bought my outfit, and then took my bus home.




ANALYSIS


SUGGESTING TO GET OFF THE BUS

I noticed that she was attracted to me. Guys, when a girl is attracted to you, you can make bold moves or suggest bold things.


Also, getting off the bus is not TOO radical... but it didn't need to be. It was simply the next step in a logical progression.




ARM AROUND HER

My arm was not directly on her. That would have been too physical too soon. Always depends on the context, though.


The purpose for this was to observe her reaction. If her reaction was positive, it was a green light for a kiss.



"I LIKE YOUR LIPS"

Saying this expresses my intention to kiss her. It psychologically prepares her for a future kiss attempt.

It also allows me to kiss her right there, depending on her response.

If you think moving in for the kiss directly is too bold, you can say something like this as a starter.



THE HOTEL

The time constraints I had helped me in sex closing the same day.

In this case, my constraints were real.

Also... it helped that she asked me if I was turned on. I was able to tell her the honest answer "Yes" and it therefore made my suggestion of same day sex... more logical.

Guys... honesty is good. Honesty rings true and sounds logical. It will convince any girl. You can't argue against honesty.




PLAYING HARD TO GET IN THE HOTEL

How to deal with this? Well... to be honest it is not a problem. My mindset here is "I really don't care if I don't have sex with her. There is plenty of sex to be had later with other girls."


So all I did was try and insist on kissing her, touching her. It was up to her to finally let go.


And she did. She didn't come with me to the hotel for no reason.


But what I am saying is that my mindset was "I don't absolutely need to have sex with her... but I certainly will try because I want to make my hotel stay worth it."




FUTURE ENCOUNTERS

Of course we exchanged personal info.

I treated her well and I was honest with her the whole time. These are valid arguments that I am a safe guy to be with and that she would be down to see my again.

So here is a tip. Be a good guy. Even though you "just want sex" at some point, doesn't mean you stop caring about girls.


I personally don't have sex with a girl if I feel she might fall in love with me instantly.

In other words... I try to care for the girls' feelings, and try to be as honest as I can.


Girls will appreciate this and will be done for repeat of the experience. Furthermore, you will have a clean conscience and this will shine through in your future interactions.




LAST TIPS

My initial approach, my mindset was relaxed and having fun. I think this is a good mindset, although I have successfully approached in many other kinds of mindsets.


If you want to have this mindset, I suggest simply doing it often. Getting rejected A LOT means you will lose your sensitivity to it... and this means that approaching will be more fun rather than scary.


Approaching SHOULD be fun. Even rejections can be fun.


I remember going down the street one day telling girls "I am the prince of darkness and I have come to seduce you," and even if I am blown off... I found it hilarious and the greatest fun ever.


Some other funny thing I said once was "Hi... I'm X... and I'm your soulmate."


Anyway... have fun, DO IT OFTEN.


That is, if you want to live the empowered lifestyle.



Also.... REJECTIONS are often NOT REJECTIONS. Many times girls say no, not because they don't like you, but due to other random shit.


Hell, for all I know... girls say no to me because they are afraid they will cheat on their boyfriends with me. I'm just that attractive. Good mindset, huh?


Second thing, a "no" doesn't mean no most of the time. For me, girls say no just to test you if you have the balls to keep trying... or if you will take it personally and give up.


For me, no does not mean no MOST of the time. If she is clearly uncomfortable with something, then no does mean no.


So yeah... have a positive mindset and look for the best possible explanations to an apparent rejection. You will be right more often... since real life is actually much better than it can seem.



My general principles as a PUA:

Honesty (this is the most important one for me. I try to emphasize this quality and show this to women)
Genuinely good intentions with women
Complete daring... zero fear... comfortable approaching in any situation. (doesn't mean I act without thinking or that I approach in every situation always. But fear is not a factor)
Practice and Doing it Often
General Charm, Sense of Humor, Positive Vibes (comes with practice and having more abundance)
Unexpected and Bold. (my mindset is bold and having fun. this also comes with practice... and your general approach to things/personality)



Oh, and by the way... I run my game in Peru because I am Peruvian.



If you have any questions let me know! Cheers.
Author:  eduardo2 [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 5:09 pm ]
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Hola.

loved the report. fun fun
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