So basically, I'm a 19 year old, and have been sexually frustrated for a while, having gotten quite a lot of kiss-closes and fondling from girls/women, but never sealed the deal, until 2 nights ago.
DAY 1:
So basically, I was in town, training some parkour, I REALLY wasn't feeling into the game or anything, just wanted to get a good workout, when I notice this cute girl walking past, looking quite interested in what I'm doing. So, I take a shot and just walk up and say hi, handshake, introduce myself, and she tells me she used to do the sport, but stopped a while back. GREAT common ground. So she asks if she can watch for a bit, and she ends up hanging around for the entire 2.5 hour training session, with me chatting her up somewhat, and making small talk every now and then, with LOTS of eye contact, and a bit of playful kino. Then training session was over, it got dark, so I told her I'd give her a ride to her place, but she said she stays just around the corner, so I told her I would be the walking security escort. We walk for 5 minutes, don't really remember what we talked about, got to her place, chatted for a little while, I told her she seems like a cool person, and I must have her number, she gave it readily, we hugged, as I'm walking away she says "call me", she went inside, I went home. (I thought of going for KC, but the mood didn't feel right, so passed.)
DAY 2:
Call her around 1 in the afternoon, she doesn't pick up, but I get a text 5 mins later, saying sorry she missed the call, but she took a nap. Sent 2 or 3 more texts back and forth, then I ask what she's doing later that day. She says she has nothing planned, then I tell her she should join me for drinks at a cafe nearby. she asks if I'm going to be there alone, I say yes, then she says "Ok, I'll have to keep you company , see you then."
5 minutes early, I arrive at the place, she's not there yet so I get a juice, and just sit there chilling. 5 mins past the time, she gets there, at first tries to sneak up on me, but I notice her, we both laugh a bit, I give her a hug, pull out a chair for her (I find some "chivalrious" mannerisms to be useful sometimes, if used in the right context, and never overused.), and tell her to sit next to me. At first we just order light drinks, they arrive, I call cheers, and she says that I must look deep into her eyes while we touch glasses, otherwise we both will have bad sex for the next few years
Whatever, I comply, we keep making random small talk, occasional touches, then I randomly say that we should get sushi. She agrees, we order, sushi arrives, and with it, a small bowl of salty nuts. Turns out to be very useful later on. So, we eating sushi, start talking about travelling, adventures, random spontaneous moves, then I pick a nut up, put it into her mouth. She looks a bit surprised, but turns towards me, and opens her lips a bit more, so I put another one in. Then she picks up one, puts it in my mouth. After a few nuts, I tell her something like, "You'd better stop feeding me these, or my lips will taste too salty". She asks, "what?", and I just move in for the kiss. She leans into me, we kiss for maybe 5 mins, then I say that we should go, then, curious thing, she asks who's going to pay, of we split, or if I will be the gentleman and pay. I tell her "well, I make it a rule to never pay for both parties at a first date". She says that normally its the rules that the guy pays, then I tell her "well, I just like breaking the rules". We split the bill, leave the cafe, and walk to her place.Standing outside of her place, I go for another kiss, press her into me a bit, then after a while I let go and say, "ok bye, I'm off", walk off a bit, all the while maintaining heavy eye contact. she says "wait", I take that as a cue, walk straight back towards her, press her against the wall, kiss, and start moving my hands over her more. This goes on for about 2 mins, then a security guard shows up, tells us we can't do that here, I'm thinking to myself, PERFECT, and whisper to her, "lets go somewhere more private", she says that it's our first date, so no way I'm getting into her room. I just respond with, "well, if we stay out here, this guy is gonne arrest us", and put one arm around her waist, and tell her to lead the way. She laughs to herself, then starts walking, I follow, we get to her room, sit down on her bed, I push her over, start making out, she tells me she thinks we're moving too fast, I say "well, I train to move fast", sort of jokingly, she laughs, we continue making out, she switches the light off, deal is sealed, I stay at her place till next morning, then leave. Went back to her place the next night, same scenario again.
So please, any comments, or tips, suggestions, anything?
I'm always looking to improve.EDIT: Woah, didn't think it'd be such a wall of text :<
Also, jus something I thought about, as men, we SHOULD be prepared to game ANYWHERE. It doesn't matter if we are dressed for it, hell, at the time I was wearing ripped pants and some crap shirt, doesn't matter. Just be ready to approach, introduce, and take it further. You could be wearing a banana hammock and STILL get girls, if you play it right.
And, also, the approaches. If I hadn't said hi, she might have kept on walking, and I'd be jacking off to porn at instead of writing this
, but I was letting negative thoughts mess me up.
