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Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 1:12 am ]
Post subject:  My First Field Report, Please respond Gents don't be lazy!
A little intro. I'm a 19 year old international student from Zambia, Africa and I've been studying PUA for 2 -3 months now, it's time for me to put it into practice so this my beginning...This was my first real field experience sarging with other PUAs after finishing a couple of books. I've sarged before but with minimal knowledge. Anyways I hope this isn't too long but the details are important, right?

So last night I linked up with few other Toronto PUAs and 3 HB8s (they were friends/girlfriends). In line I opened a 3 set of an HB8, HB5 & HB9 after one my wings insulted them I came in to kind of joke about it (pretending not to know him). I ran a few routines while in line and told them that I had to meet up with my friends but they should have a good night. Later on the HB8 saw me in the bar and opened me with an inside joke we had shared in line. She re-introduced me to her friends and this time I started to notice serious IOIs from her.

HB8: What do you do in Toronto besides picking up hot women from bars, mr player?
Me: Hey, don't hate, it's a gift...(they laughed) Anyways, I work at A&F as a model.
HB8: Nice, ooh a model huh I can see that. (She started playing with her hair)

I told them a few funny stories about my douchie model co-workers. Negged Hb8 about her age. Then I told them I had to get back to my friends again and if they're lucky I'll see them later. We talked for another 5mins before I actually left. A little later I saw the girls again and I asked one the HB8s in our group to be my pivot and create a jealousy plotline by flirting with me, she did. (they were watching me) After a few minutes I heard them calling my name and so I went over & this time the HB8 wanted to introduce me to her HB8.5 sister.

HB8.5: Hey! I'm (name) I work at...right next to A&F, we're neighbours! (she smiled)
Me: Cool, I like your teeth but they kinda remind of Bugs Bunny, they're cute though!
HB8.5: (She laughed) Your such an asshole!

I know it's canned material but the Bugs Bunny neg works like a charm it was a running joke the whole night. I also negged her about the Jersey Shore (she's Italian) After a few routines I started to build kino by playing thumb war, I cheated to win. This time I gave her a false time constraint about my friends calling me but then told the group that they seemed cool so they could come and join us at our table. This was great because I had a better chance to isolate her by putting my friends in between us and her friends.

I think the weakest part of my game is building kino because while I managed to get compliance to hold her hand & touch her back I didn't really manage to make it more sexually charged. The other thing is she didn't want to do anything in front of her sister plus I didn't know any dark corners of the pub I tried the do you think you're a good kisser, I don't believe you prove it, gambit. And she was receptive but didn't want to do anything in front of her sister. I tried a little later by saying you look like you want to kiss me right now and she didn't respond and smiled but when I touched her chin and tried to lean in she pulled away...I think this is where I went wrong because I should have just #closed and gone to look for other targets but I stayed mainly because I didn't want to leave her while my wingmen were gaming her friends. (Any ideas on what I should have done?) Anyways, we flirted a little and she gave me her number without me asking (I joked with her about giving her the 3day rule and she begged me to break it) the bar closed and her friends wanted to go home.
I also read in the MM not to follow any 3day rule so I texted her today.

Me: Hey Bugsy, it's Rico. Stop thinking about me. ;)
HB8.5: Rico Suave! I thought I got the 3 day rule...Not so Mr. Cocky noww huh

I wanted to text game her a little then set up a meet. but I think I messed up here because I didn't see her text and ended up not replying for 4hours.

Me: I'm still cocky, you just got lucky (no pun intended) I should become a singer though, you can do my background vocals lol

I mentioned the singer thing because she told me she sings but was too shy to sing for me last night and now I'm waiting for a reply. So guys what do you think any and all criticism is welcome :)
Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 2:31 am ]
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Update: She replied and we had very flirtatious chat texting.

HB8.5: lol oh? The thing is I don't havee to become a singer it comes naturally.. So if you want to team up you must be the one in luck Mr. Bruno Mars (I was wearing a fedora last night)
Me: Pretty confident words from "Ms. I'm too shy to sing right now" :P When you audition don't feel nervous I promise to be a little nicer than Simon Cowell
HB8.5: Haha Thanks..appreciate it. But in my defence I didn't want to draw in a crowd and make you feel left out. That's how good I am :p
Me: lol We'll just see how good you really are ;) So if you had nothing to do on a Mon evening which witty, handsome, cocky yet sensitive black guy lol would you want to have drinks with?
HB8.5: Neyo?
Me: lol Wrong...try again ;)
HB8.5: (My name)? ;)
Me: You win! We should meet up at Philthy Mcnasty's tomorrow at 9pm (it's not as Mcnasty as it sounds)
HB8.5: Hah ya I've heard of it. Possibly I might be working tomorrow, unlike some ppl ;)

How was I supposed to respond to that?

Update: Update: 8)
Me: Don't hate I have another job it's called being awesome. Live a little. lol
HB8.5: Ahhaha that's not a job it's a lifestyle..I would know I share it with you! Text me tmrw!

(At this point I wanted to flip it on her to make her text me first tomorrow but this is the best i could come up with)

Me:haha Nice...A lifestyle I'm stealing that ;) I'm gonna be with some friends tomorrow till the evenin so text me when u get off of work. Bugsy (bunny)
HB8.5: haha I thought nigerians were the stealers..(inside joke we shared last night) you sure your aren't of that decent? ps. Is that reeeally my nickname now :(
Me: lol Aaaaw a sad smiley...I'm mean aren't I? :P Don't worry we'll come up with somethin better the next time we're together. I think we're pretty creative people...
HB8.5: We are :) sounds good to me cause Bugs is hurting! Hah ttyl hombre

That's it and honestly I'm not quite sure which direction to take it from here...
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:06 am ]
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Welcome to the communtiy.

Im gonna give my feedbacc in stages.

Great work by being social while in line with the 3 set.

Most guys would just stand there like anti-social clowns.

Good move to build your state by chatting them up.

Great game once again with the same girls at the bar.

You did not shy away from the plyer label.

Most guys & AFC's would say,"Oh no!!!Im no player.Far from it".

Thus kissing the girls' asses.

Nice work with the neg on age.

Negging girls on being or looking too young is part of my routine.

Great job in rolling off and leaving them alone for the time being.

Most guys would stay in set and stall thus ruining the picc-up.

I always roll off like you did.

It shows that you're not some stalker-type intending to stay with them all night.

Pure DHV.

Im not able to checc out your whole post[very busy] but I have no criticism to give.

Your club/bar game is friggin' solid for just few months bro.

Our game is practically identical although I've been in the community for years.

I'll comment on the rest of your post later.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:11 am ]
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Hey bro,checc out my blog post.It pertains to your post.It shows how powerful take-aways are and how powerful it is to roll off from the girl opposed to not leaving at all.This' why I consider myself master of club game.https://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com ... ly-bitchy/
Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:51 am ]
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Quote:
Welcome to the communtiy.

Im gonna give my feedbacc in stages.

Great work by being social while in line with the 3 set.

Most guys would just stand there like anti-social clowns.

Good move to build your state by chatting them up.

Great game once again with the same girls at the bar.

You did not shy away from the plyer label.

Most guys & AFC's would say,"Oh no!!!Im no player.Far from it".

Thus kissing the girls' asses.

Nice work with the neg on age.

Negging girls on being or looking too young is part of my routine.

Great job in rolling off and leaving them alone for the time being.

Most guys would stay in set and stall thus ruining the picc-up.

I always roll off like you did.

It shows that you're not some stalker-type intending to stay with them all night.

Pure DHV.

Im not able to checc out your whole post[very busy] but I have no criticism to give.

Your club/bar game is friggin' solid for just few months bro.

Our game is practically identical although I've been in the community for years.

I'll comment on the rest of your post later.
Thanks man, even when I was an AFC I used to approach girls even with my crazy AA I even managed Fclose straight from the club once in a while but it was all pure luck. I was learning PUA (fucking slowly! I just didn't know it at the time. But now I'm reading this stuff and putting it into practice and sometimes it feels just like clockwork! Anyways thanks for reading man I look forward to your critique on my text game.
Author:  ZeroValley [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 4:36 am ]
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You seem to be well on your way there bro, definitely have enough balls to make steady strong progress, well done!


It's 06:00 and I'm in a train right now, don't expect too much.
I would rather get kicked between my legs than do extensive text game. The lack of kino, eye-contact, physical tension, etcetera is too limiting for me. Call her up and set up a day2, bring your own self since she seems to like it and just make it a fun, but sexual experience. (Start back down but move up the kino ladder fast till you were where you left off and try and get that kiss-close, date during the day or evening doesn't matter.) Make sure you're 1on1 at least for quite a bit.

You seem to already do a lot of things right, keep it up!
Author:  Cafe_Mocha [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 6:37 pm ]
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Quote:
You seem to be well on your way there bro, definitely have enough balls to make steady strong progress, well done!

I would rather get kicked between my legs than do extensive text game. The lack of kino, eye-contact, physical tension, etcetera is too limiting for me. Call her up and set up a day2, !
Thanks Zero it's very encouraging to have more experienced PUAs giving me positive/negative feedback because I really don't try to do things half assed (I read the MM in 2days and read the forum frequently) As for phone game, I agree with you 100% texting in so impersonal, sometimes I find it hard to convey the right context. This is another weak part of my game I've called girls that I was trying to date in the past and I'm sure I came across as a nervous, AFC trying to hard. This is so AFC for me to say but texting is just easier for me right now I want to try phone game a little later on or at least after my first fclose.
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