DAY 1 : Asking girls for directions
Notes:Im a bit ripping off , the titles from AFC Daniel (props to him for inspiration)
At home like always
So here I was sitting at home , reading some PUA material in the morning,singing with my MIDI keyboard , and I just decided to try picking up that day(12 August)
I live in a village close to a city , so it is kind of hard to connect to people ,but I can go to the city , just fine to , try the art.My objective was to go to the city , at the mall , to eat KFC (Yeah im a fast food junkie ), and try pickup along the way.
The time it takes for me to prepare , and go to the city takes a while , as I had a cold fast shower, I took care of my looks ( I began looking great ) , and went out fast with a neighboor , that wanted to go to the city too , and car lifted me (a friend of my dad) (the city is named Bacau , by the way)
In the street (daygame begins)
I told him to leave at some street , and I went along the way straight to the mall.
When I was in the street though , AA hit my like a train , and I found my self unable , to engange in a direct approach , as I wanted to try direct approach , so it would make me confindent.Yet I found out it was very embarising for me to even attempt doing so , so I walked almost a half a kilometer (it takes a very long time to get to the mall by foot) , and have tried enganging in conversation,but man I just couldn't bring myself.It was like when you are playing basketball for the first time when you watched so many matches,and found out , you can't even score one point.That's how I felt.
Oh well , it didn't last too long,before I made my first approach on the first girl at the street/opener.
As i was a bit confunsed and scared the dialogue went like this (i wasn't paying attention to BL,and my voice was shacking,though I kept eye contact,which I was good at )
She was a black haired girl ready to cross the street , though she had to wait for green light.I approached her from behind.
"Hello do you know where can i find the north district?"she turned arround very surprised when she saw me, and found out she was really good looking,damn a HB 8.5 AT LEAST!!!
"She asked me to repeat because she wasn't paying very much attention " (I learned from this that , I have to say hello , and continue after , she pays me attention the first time"
"Well if you walk this road straight you will find yourself there"
I actually been in north before so I kinda knew where it was, but I didn't knew the exact location.
I said
" Oh really, I didn't knew"
she said
"Where do you exactly want to go
I wanted to eject quickly but she insisted on asking me (damn biotch lol )
" I said , a friend is waiting for me at his home"
"Do you know the street he live "
I knew no street of the north district so that was quite embarising
"No i don't know"
She looked weird at me and said " How couldn't you "
I ejected by saying
"Thank you" and left
It was even more embarising that she could have seen that I was not going to the North district,but to the mall (it was really close to that place)
In the mall ( the desired field )
Oh well so I entered to mall,ate first , and afterwards I did 3 appproaches (an HB 7 at first,she was cute , though with her little brother , a two set: HB 6 HB 7, another set : HB 6 HB
with the same opener : Do you know where I can find Hand watches?I wanted to progress more than just asking directions, so I kinda asked them if they would show me
.It went well and not as embarising as the first time , with the black haired chick.
I left the mall afterwards.
Street part 2 ( daygame ends)
I put myself with the objective to approach every cute girl until I went to my sister (who was at market at the time ) and go to the beer festival in the city.
I did 2 approaches asking where the festival takes place ( I like situation openers )
: ( first A two set , one HB 8 that I can remember , and another 2 set that were street skating, a cute little young blone 14 years old hahaha , I like girls that young , though but don't take me for pedo
) and I pushed myself asking the last set If they were coming (i didn't say with me though )Now here is where the daygame ended.I saw a couple more of HBs , but I didn't take the courage to go up to them ask the same thing.Next Ill note to not hesitate to a single HB , for a direction ( how bad can it be ? )
So i quit picking up for that day, my heart was very tired from all that anxiety shit.
I went to my sister, and went alone to festival , and met some ex classmates (it was boring but they asked me out to go to the swimming pool with them , I guess that's nice ,but nothing of interes )
Day 1 ENDS
Conclusion : It was a good/bad day.I liked that I approached girls asking for directions, but I couldn't go in for a conversation, I always ejected. AA is a big obstacle,but it can be of help too,depending on whether Im embared of what I am doing or not.
Questions for you : I am really really really sorry for my bad grammar, and bad narrative.I am good at understanding english , but bad with its grammar.And my narrative is bad.So i will appreciate some advices in the future , and I hope I won't ask to much by saying this : CHEER ME ON!!!!!!!!
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