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Author:  Pose18 [ Thu Jul 28, 2011 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Mixed Set - enjoy your flirting?!

Hey,

Out in Stourbridge, very up for a social night out... I was having real fun by just chatting with loads of random people... Trying to work on that social character...

Anyway, there is a guy and a girl standing in a fairly empty space... They are chatting, but rather low energy, and both seem a little bored... In wades Pose (my first mixed set, even if it is only 2 people)!

Hey guys (to the guy) do I look gay?!

He says no... Girl says erm...

I start to explain that a guy had come up to me at the bar and offered to by me a drink and the girl cuts me off, saying "I haven't decided yet"! There was a bit of banter about how I was standing etc. In the end she says:

Her: Well, you don't look gay, but you don't exactly look straight... you look like a straight guy who takes care of himself...
Me: Is that a good thing?!
Her: Well, put it this way, you're like my cousin, he isn't gay, but he takes care of himself, and he is very good with women, so it works for him!

I really am starting to believe that I give off a "pretty boy" image... I don’t know whether it is a good thing, or a bad thing!

Anyway, we chat a little, she gets into the conversation that the guy is her 'friend'... I will take that as an IOI...

After some more chat, about her name and things, I eject, saying it has been awesome to meet them, and I hope they have a good night...

Her: and you! Enjoy your flirting!

Now, my question, what could I have said to that? Should I go with the option of: "Yep, I'm flirting! It's really fun isn't it?!"
Or...
"Stop hitting on me, you're cool, but you’re not my type?!"
Or…
“I am flirting, but I bet most guys wouldn’t flirt with you because you are with a guy, they would be scared!”

I have had this a couple of times now... I'm thinking that I don't disqualify earlier in the interaction, which causes this "obviousness"…

Your advice is very much appreciated…
Pose

Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 4:22 am ]
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Or just "Oh I will" and kiss her on the cheek (or lips)? You were ejecting anyway, might as well be a little bold.

Author:  Pose18 [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 7:36 am ]
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That's the exact response I gave (without the kiss though) as I was walking away... Simply because I was expecting her to say "Enjoy your... night", so I was on auto-response...

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