Haha, all good bro you don't even wanna know how many times i "accidentally" turned down sex because i wasn't paying attention. Later i look back and /face palm.
Just learn from your mistakes bro there's plenty of girls.
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| Author: | Dr.Joyful [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 11:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My First, First date |
I am living/watching my brothers palce while he is out of town. he recently broke up with his girl who is alos out of town. Anyway this girls sister comes over to pack and take all my brothers ex's shit. I let her in and I got a really good conversation going. When she was leaving she mentioned getting something to eat. I told her she should get me something and bring it back here because she bothered me on a sunday. She says we should both go. Cool so we go out and i wanted fast food but she chose olive garden a more date-like mealplace i noticed. I didn't even plan on gaming her but i feel i had too many iois to ignore at that point. So i start negging her dyslexia in way that she laughed, talked about where our lives or going and sex. I have to say i this point i felt i was doing really well, she even paid for the whole meal. I got alot of incidental kino from her and conviced her to come back to my place so she can show me how bad her dyslexia is. back in my bros place things go well for i while. I started to heavily kino her legs while we sat on the couch together. I did it so much and sexual that she slapped my hands off her in a playful way and moved away. i just got close again and started to kino her legs again. she moved away again and started playing on the labtop. She showed me her facebook pics saying aren't my friends hot aren't i hot in this pic. i told her truthfully what i thought of the pics who was hot and who was not. i said she was hot and looked better in red hair. when she left i gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. As i was turning to go back in the house she calls out that we should hang out together and go to the beach on our next free day, which are sundays. So i got a date in a week and i know i need alot of work on my date game. My first major mistake was my kino. I went too far too early. At my place i practically started feeling up her legs without any prior kino. It turned her on i'm sure but the fact she moved away i realised was that i did it too long and maybe a little too sexual. she even called me a perv playfully which i replied damn right i am, come here! My second major mistake of the night was i didn't have anything planned in my place to do and i couldn't think of an small games to play with her. so we just watched tv and sat on the internet together which in my opinion aloows boredom to seep in. In my defense i just started game recently and i have never been on a date til now. I never even thought about what to do when a girl is alone in a room with me. I really know no techniques, tricks, or kino games to sexually escalate in a room. i basically just winged it the whole way through. The biggest mistake was when we were looking at her facebook account and i told her she was hot. After that i was giving her a few too many compliments. i even said i was jealous at some guy in a pic who was holder her leg. i knew i was just totally afcing from tha point. Something i realized after this was how much she was leading the interaction she said lets do this lets do this lets do that. While all i did was suggest and she made a decision based on that suggestion. Is this an ok way to game on dates or should i take charge more, i mean she even chose the next place for our date. I've never been in this situation before should i text her these next few days or wait two days before our next date call her up and plan it out? After hangin out alone with a chick an entire day i noticed she is somewhat conceited, rambles while talking and i get the feeling she is somewhat crazy. Is this how must women are or did catch a special case? |
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| Author: | AttractionKings [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 2:40 am ] |
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Not a special case a lot of women are like this. You have to establish yourself as the alpha seeing as you played to much of a "nice guy" and let her walk all over you. You're right about the kino, personally i don't like to start feeling up her legs unless we're making out and i'm going for the f*ck close. hand on the leg is fine, anything higher is weird. I'm not sure how your conversations went but it was clear that you wanted her, and in turn she backed off. Remember girls only want what they think they can't have. If you had set up your role as alpha and had her all over you. You could have easily guided the conversation to something more personal or even sexual, with negs and DHVs. Which lead to kiss closes, and since she was at your house an easy f*ck close. Hope this helps. |
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| Author: | Dr.Joyful [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 1:21 pm ] |
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alright makes sense i completly forgot to use push/pull on her. Other than that though what could i do that would get her to think she can't have me? And how can i seem more alpha? |
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| Author: | Dr.Joyful [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 1:28 pm ] |
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And dude i know i totally botched this f close that came right to my door. i may be a noob but i saw all the fuckin signs man. At least i got a second chance at her. We're going to the beach man. I just gotta hope i don't pop a boner in my trunks there. |
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| Author: | AttractionKings [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 6:57 pm ] |
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Haha, all good bro you don't even wanna know how many times i "accidentally" turned down sex because i wasn't paying attention. Later i look back and /face palm. Just learn from your mistakes bro there's plenty of girls.
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| Author: | TimR [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 7:14 pm ] |
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"she even called me a perv playfully which i replied damn right i am, come here! " I couldn't help but laugh at this bit. Brilliant.  But yeah, not the best thing to say straight away. |
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