Nice keep going man, enjoyed reading your log!
Ill keep watching this thread. Hope to see you bloom Those small steps are exactly how I started out. Keep at it and soon you´ll find yourself building up and up!
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| Author: | Matkap [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 9:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | My Journal from zero to PUA |
# NEW CHAPTER # I was prepared well the day before yesterday. I know what to say word by word. Opener was asking for direction. it was crowded as hell and there were many HBs. but I couldn't open. I fell this.. serious hesitation, fear, adrenaline. My left leg become numb! I feel numbness. My energy goes down and I saw HB s with avarage guys, worse than me, better than me.. Then I hate my whole life. i hate social anxiety. After that, I decided to start from "ZERO". If I will be a pua or at least a social and attractive guy, this will be a great story of from zero to "SUCCESS". # GOALS: - Beeing comfortable in every environment and able to talk anyone easily. - Able to approach anytime, anywhere, anyone and beeing in control. - Beeing acttractive and alfa guy. - Beeing respected # STATE - I have enough knowledge about pick up. - Insecurety, hesitation, disciplineless. - Inexperienced - Social anxiety - Living in others reality #STATE of GAME - Opening: 0/10 - Social anxiety, AA - A2 A3... others: 0/10 - Not tested. |
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| Author: | Matkap [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 9:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | 1. week |
# OBJECTİVE of 1. WEEK # # PROBLEM: - Social Anxiety - Approah Anxiety - Eye Contact - To much excitement Seriousness: Very High # REASON: - Inexperienceness - Thinking of what others though - "They will think that I am weird" - "They will be inresponsive" - "They will snub me" thoughs.. # MOTIVATING MINDSETS: - You are living for yourself. Forget about others. - You can't be comfortable without experiencing their bitcyness and snubness. - It is a must, if you want a better life - You will get what you have gotten if you won't do that. - To be good at something, you have to be bad at it first. To be bad at someting, you have to do someting at first. # Objective: Approach at least 40 sets without expecions. don't game, just ask for directions. Make eye contact, don't lean in, just make approaching a habbit. |
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| Author: | Matkap [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 9:52 am ] |
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Quick update Hi guys, I did 6 approaches yesterday. Just ask for directions to girls. Only 1 of them was friendly and described me the bookstore I asked but she was tall and fat about UG3-4. First HB was alone and waiting for someone. I asked her overshoulder and she was soo shy and said just no. The next one was 3 set with ugly girls I asked them and one of them answered as fast as she can "no!" and grabbed friends hand then gone. Next one just said no. (The bookstore i asked for is the most know store in this city, everyone knows it lol.) Next one said no too. The next one said no, but I know there is a bookstore I don't know its name and walked. I changed the opener and the next set is a 2 HB7. I said excuse me is this street xyasdaskdh street? I noticed that when I am saying the word excuse, the blonde one make a huge and fast step like she want to escape me. Then she stopped and said yes and I thanked and gone. lol I am well dressed and have babyface, at least nice blue eyes but people are so inresponsive. I wasn't exception anything but i wish they were more friendly! Also I was waiting for bus and 1 HB7 and an old women came and old one asked HB about direction. She is a bit low self-esteem and I answered old women's question. Then she ask about the HB's arms. There were lots of razor lines. She told they are tree cuts etc. Then I said Me: yea sure they look like tree cuts. HB:laughss Old women:This is so bad. don't do that again. did you do them because of a boy? etc... we talked a bit Me:She is so young, she will learn that *smile* HB:laughs.. Then I was talkative and told a few stories(which I prepared before) and some funny lines boom the girl asked me: HB: am I really look so young? (with a face expression like I she want an approve) I didn't answer then we talked about tattoos. She had a tattoo and I told her my another DHV story. Then her body language is opened and asked me where i am living. I saw some IOI as you can see. I can say that I build some attraction just with stories. And I also noticed that, when I am in conversation, I feel no adrenaline, no fear. talkative, funny, smiling etc. The problem is starting an interaction. Then bus had came I asked HB, I will sit end of the bus, you can come if you want but she sit already and said that here is okay. Thoughs: Girls are nonrespinseve in Turkey. But I am good enough when I pass ASD and around friendly people. |
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| Author: | DIAMONDS J001 [ Sat Jul 16, 2011 10:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Hey good luck! |
Nice keep going man, enjoyed reading your log! Ill keep watching this thread. Hope to see you bloom Those small steps are exactly how I started out. Keep at it and soon you´ll find yourself building up and up! |
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