First FR
I went with a couple friends to a club in AC for college night. This place was filled with HB9s and 10s. I ended up knowing a few groups of people already at the club which automatically gave me some social proof, and a girl who was chasing me around that week was there also, kinda boosting up my confidence. I tried to pay attention to my posture and positioning the entire night, keeping the conversation lively to show that I'm where it's at. I made some small talk with a few guys at the bar to get in the talking state, and got my tie pulled by some random drunk girl. It was about 11pm and I said to myself "Alright EQ, stop being a pussy", so I decided to try out an opener. I used the "Drunk I Love You's" opener on an HB 8 which worked nicely. She gave her advice and I did a push-pull, telling her that I should take her around the bar and give me advice on everything (Kino started since I put my arm around her shoulder and started walking), I then quickly pushed her off and said "Alright, that's enough of that..." and rolled off. I came back in and asked "Who'd you come with?". She pointed at a group behind her and the group looked and I told her not to be rude and to introduce me. I asked where they were from, schools, blablabla fluff with them, then turned my attention back to the HB8 and did the "Pick a number between 1 and 4" thing. I guessed 3, I was right, and told her "Seems like we're on the same page here". I turned my head away to talk to my friends behind me, body still facing her so-as to show she was kinda losing my interest, and she reinitiated convo, IOI. She randomly put her and on my chest when she leaned in to say something and I said "Hey! That'll be $5 you know!" she giggled and I told her about the girl who pulled my tie earlier to show some preselection.
I thought "Ok, I think I put in enough DHVs, so I'm gunna start qualifying her". I asked what school she went to and major. She said criminology, I said "Uh oh, I think I'm gunna get in trouble with you. You can probably figure out if I'm lying or not right now." That wasn't even funny, but she laughed (IOI). At this point I could've thrown in the whole eye accessing cues lie game thing, but I decided to just leave it alone. An external interrupt of one of her friends came along and she introduced me to her, I did the best friends test on them and they ate it up. The HB 8 said she had to go to the bathroom with her friend, so I said "This place is crowded! You're NEVER gunna find me again! Listen, how about you take down my number and shoot me a text." When she left, I went to open a girl I already know who drunkenly came into the club asking "Why haven't you been texting me lately?!" since I just cold turkey stopped trying on her. It's funny how when you don't try things work out a bit better =\ women...ANYWAY we chatted, and she was holding up the phone to her face and I wasn't trying to look like a chump so I just said "Listen, have fun with your phone, I'm gunna go find some fun" to which she was confused as to why I would leave an HB9 like her. So I went back to my group of friends to talk and got a text saying "Hey, I'm near the front of the club, come meet me" to which I said "You're gunna make me run around this damn place? You're losin points kiddo, meet me near the dancefloor" So after a while, I saw her with her friend on the dancefloor and i purposely walked by her, and then rolled back in and said "You look like you wanna dance" and the kino escalated from there, I don't have to get into the kinda kino that goes on on a dancefloor, but heavy eye contact while it all was happening. Eye contact really ramps up the intensity for some reason. After a while I asked "How good of a kisser are you?" and she just smiled so I said "Let's find out" and went in for the kiss. She wasn't that great, so I told her the honest truth "...7" and she laughed and punched my chest. She then got REALLY freaky on the dancefloor and started grining hard on me for a few minutes, hands everywhere, and the AFC in me was still trying to be somewhat respectful, so I didn't try to escalate to touching her tits in a public area (only her ass
) and after that hardcore grind sesh she said "...7" which i thought was kinda clever. Anyway, turns out her friend was vomitting all over the casino like Regan MacNeil (Exorcist reference anyone?) and she had to leave to take care of her. She didn't seem too happy about that, but I just said "alright, one last kiss then i guess?" and we just made out for a few minutes.SO, not too bad for a set that I thought was gunna be a warm up, since it was my first set ever, and one of the few times I just stopped being a bitch and got out of my head and walked up to a perfect stranger. So I #closed and kiss closed, and I'm setting up a day 2 which is tomorrow.
My question is, how do I keep up this attraction? I'm new to all of this so I need some input on how to keep the fun and flirty games going? I was also still qualifying her throughout the night, so when do you think I should just drop the qualifications shields and just be a little more of myself (i.e. not so many canned routines and just talk)? Also, the shallowest question of the night, how can I f-close ASAP?
Any input would be great. Just picked up a copy of "Red Queen" and I'm starting to read it. Hopefully that'll give me some good material to riff off of. Cheers mates and thanks to everyone for contributing to this ridiculously awesome community!
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