1. Introduction
Hey fellow-pua's, I am anthony and I live in Europe. I am average looking, kinda short (5ft7"), buffed with a small belly. In the past I was too anxious to game girls. I did get laid, but these are more lucky shots.
So a year ago, a friend gave me "The Mystery Method". I didn't read it, because I thought it was bullshit. One night me and my mates went out, and i sat at the bar, talking about the girls to my friend, without approaching any set. I complained that the women here were all bitches [excuses]. But I saw my friend opening many sets. He opened a girl, I wanted to open but didn't dare. He kissed her. At that moment, I felt so sad. Why did I just sat and watched how the girl, I wanted badly, gamed by others? So that night I studied the Mystery Method.
2. The girl
I met a scandinavian girl at the gym. She is a friend of a friend of me. She is a good HB9. So we talked and to her i was just somebody from the gym. To me, she was too hot/pretty for me, I can not get her. With MM in my mind, I negged her since I had nothing to lose. She asked me several times to do things for her, I said no [hoops]. Later, She asked to join her and her friends for a drink after working out, I said no again. SHe was astonished. A guy was refusing her invits
But this HB9 is so hot, she got approached by lots of men, everywhere. All AFC were doing stuff to impress her, getting her stuff, etc.3. The Game
I knew I showed some DHV to her. I was familiar with MM. So I asked her to join me and my friends for a drink. I asked her to add me on FB. She did. That night i was late. She was not angry and spend the whole night with me. Nothing happened. The second time I asked her to hang out, I was late (one hour). She sat there and she was not mad. Again she spend the whole night with me. We walked home, nothing happened.
Then she asked me to join her and her friends for a drink. I agreed and I was late again. When I arrived in the club, I pinched her back and walked to the bar. She left her friends and followed me. SHe was all touching me, took my housekeys [lock-in], and gave me her necklace. We also left the club and our friends, just the two of us for a 'bite'. Again nothing happened. SHe was giving lots of IOI's, kino-ing like crazy.
The day after, i asked her to have coffee with me. We stayed 4,5 hours in the coffeehouse. All touchy, talked about sex and dating and stuff. She told me she likes me and that I was challenging [thanks to MM
].4. The turning point
During the third night we hung out, especially when we left our friends and the club to get a 'bite', I should have kissed her. But I didn't. There was a window opening. After this, I noticed she was losing interest in me. She was not responsive to my textmessages (or took several days). SHe didn't show interest in what I was doing.
I textmessaged her several times, asked her for a drink, just to see if I can repair the situation. Of course, it didn't work out. This is DLV. I become needy to her.
5. Nowadays
She is going back to Scandinavia, so I asked her for a lunch. This invit took almost 3 weeks. During this period, I was the one who tried to be in touch. During this lunch, she received many textmessages from several men (she showed it to me). I also found out she was sleeping with someone lately. I was a bit disappointed. She should have slept with me. And now she is leaving, I have to admit that I am missing her.
I found out that this HB9 is aware that she is hot and lots of men are wanting her. SHe makes use of this. People getting her stuff, doing favors. SHe could have cock, whenever and wherever she wants.
6. Conclusion
With the help of MM, I had a HB9 interested in me. It helped me being more confident, showing DHV, since i know the 'tools and tricks'. The fact that a HB9 was interested in my, gave a boost to my self-confidence. Still I didn't have sex with her, because I chicked out on the important moments. This is because lack of field experience. While gaming this HB9, I also gamed other girls. I felt great and confident to approach other girls.
So my final conclusion: although I didn't sleep with this HB9, I have practised PUA-skills. And having a HB9 interested in me, gives me an enormous boost to my selfconfidence