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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Sat Jun 18, 2011 3:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Doing PU in Scania, Sweden |
Okey, im going to introduce myself real quick and write & analyze all my "major" pickups meaning those who had been hard, where i failed totaly, and also when i succeeded alot. Im 18-20 years old, Tall, average body, average face. My inner game is good wich was the first thing i started to improve when i started with pick-up 6 months ago. I have good confidence since I've the skill to fit in in any setup of people. My challenge was to form the converstions to go as i wanted. One of my first pickups where i used PUA-material was a cute blonde girl. I met her and her friend on the way to the club, Did a quick opener and built some attraction from both her and her friend, majorly the HB6 wich was her friend, target was HB8. They knew the owner of the club and got me and my little brother (without I.D) into the club for free and also we didn't have to pay for any drinks the whole night. HB6 & HB8 were DHVing... so i negged em both and then told em a story about how i saved a friends life when we were riverrafting wich took em to the same level. I met up with friends in the club and social proofed alot since everyone from my uni/college where partying that day. During the time i sorted my kino escalation very well, and tried to merge some sets too, not very successfull but not bad. I managed to get both the girls to my place (They asked me to sleep at my place - i didn't say a word about it!) and I live at home but I have two separate bedrooms so I consider it a successfull pickup. Although i only got to make out with HB8 - HB6 cockblocked. I dont really know how i can change my game to get her to let go of the friend. I was not in a mood for a threesome. As you can see the only problem i had was how to remove the friend. Now the HB8 is all after me, wanting dates, maybe even a relationship. Im just trying to figure out what to do to separate em before, or even after they are at my place. HB8 went to one of the beds and HB6 quickly threw herself at the same bed, leaving me clueless of what to do. I couldn't tell her to get to the other room, because it was too obvious. Oh btw the HB6 is also calling me from time to time, sometimes i answer and sometimes not. Any pointers? --- Second were last night at a party a friend of mine were having at her house. I knew all of the guys and girls there except for two girls. Gametime! I did my normal things, openers even on the girls i know, merged some sets, opinionquestions and everything. I told the girl i didn't know to sit on my lap because it was cold outside and the blankets were taken. She didn't - fine. I stuck to MM and continued. When her friends went inside i just told her to get over (i had ALOT of IOI's and thought well what the hell. HB7 comes over straight away. I couln't number close or even kiss-close, because her friends wouldn't leave us. I built comfort slow and steady. There was no room to go to a private place hence the party was everywhere. It was a major fail because i did everything according to plan, but only got a human blanket for it. Any pointers? Other pickups have been successfull or with little fail... k-closes & #-closes. No F-close yet tough ive been very close. /Roll The Dice! |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Sat Jun 18, 2011 7:17 pm ] |
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Good job! I have been to Sweden (Stockholm), and the game field is tough Hot women, but not-responsive (to me) |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Sat Jun 18, 2011 7:34 pm ] |
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Quote: Good job!
Indeed the climate here is worse then when i am abroad - just going to copenhagen makes it easier! No adventures today tough.
I have been to Sweden (Stockholm), and the game field is tough Hot women, but not-responsive (to me) |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 12:17 am ] |
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Partied last friday. Got a good game up, was in C3 with a girl that really liked me (alot of IOI's) and escalation was good. Everywhere i went with her, her friends made a move to mess it all up. I know i should've planned logistics, but it was a spontanious house party at a friends house so that was not possible. Anyone knows how to get some logistics at home parties? She really wanted to fuck, her friends wouldn't let her - Banging on the toilet door, phoned her every other min, went out to block me when we were sitting together outside alone - simply: they would not allow me and her any dirty alone-time. I dont really know how to avoid these situations. I tried the "were just going to talk for a while holding hands with her" and she agreed but her friends... oh well. I need pointers on how to avoid those scavangers! anyone knows how to deal with them? |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Tue Jun 21, 2011 8:10 pm ] |
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nice!! Her friends are all = AFC Pretend to care about her, but they missed the guts to hit on her themselves! |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Wed Jun 22, 2011 3:29 am ] |
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Quote: nice!!
Indeed, actually i saw one of the guys compliment her all the time, typical AFC stuff but he was very kind to me at start. I was going to tell him all about pickup (or atleast the things i have learned) but when he started to cockblock me those thoughts went away.Her friends are all = AFC Pretend to care about her, but they missed the guts to hit on her themselves! I finally got rid of an obstacle in a club environment. Approched alot of sets and one of the sets was a 2-set. What i did different this time was that i did not "isolate" (moving her back alot) until just before i k-closed. I did routines on them both. I had her friend getting alot of attraction to me aswell (she was actually giving me hints to go for her but i saw that as a shit test or a "faithfullness" test she did on her friends behalf or to trick me in some way) wich worked out fine. I guess every mans game is different and this worked for me so im going to stick with it for a while and try some other "obstacle destroyers" on the less beutiful people i meet. My wing was all around the place but came with his camera at that perfect moment and took a picture. I guess thats what they call a codac moment. And the friend is still happy Guess i broke some rules by not isolating but hey, it worked kind of fine. (would have posted picture but i need atleast 5 posts to do it) |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Sun Jun 26, 2011 9:11 pm ] |
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New weekend. Midsummer festatives in sweden - oh boy... Got alot of alcohol through my throat and into my veins that night. Still, i managed to Fclose, first time using PUA materials and strategys! Approach Anxiety? Fuck that! Although i know the alcohol was the reason that i had absolutely zero approach anxiety, it felt great to overcome it. I talked to everyone and it was like talking to a good friend. The target this night was an asian HB7 (but with my beergoggles on she was a HB9.5, damn you spritzers). Anyway, i started of with my basic stuff wich for the moment is alot like Mystery Method, just some minor fixes to fit my own style better. I think i will evolve and use less and less of his method, but the frame and scientological view of it is a great +. Started out at my friends place, drinking etc. Some girls arrived, including Asian HB7, "Monster" (really less beutiful woman) and Randomgirl (5-6). I used group strategys and the "can i talk to your friend alone for a while, i feel like i alienated her" after negging AsianHB7 and only talked to Randomgirl and Monster. We moved to another party, wich was a big house party with jacuzzi etc in the yard. Mood was great. I really felt like a boss. Good thing is that i meet some of my hotter female friends at the party wich increases my value big time. I could almost see the Asian HB7's jealousy when they screamed my name and ran up to greet me. Timejump -> (i did game everyone and got 2 numbers at the party but that didn't get me any results so i will leave it out) I got me + 2 of my friends/wings (they dont believe in "the game" even if i show them how it works for me) and Monster- who was hot for one of my pals + Asian HB7 to my home. I was setting up the sexual frame, and i simply didn't do anything except for very fucking intense eyecontact (was aware to not go creepy) and then i did the "Triangular look - eye lips eye". Man, from what she saw at the party, the value and all the interesting stuff i talked about, that was enough. I said: "Im going to sleep" Asian HB7: "Me too" RollTheDice: "Okey, follow me then" Grabbed her hand and led her to the bedroom thinking "Who's the fucking boss now, RollTheDice? smiling inside my head" Now she was really into having sex with me, and the sex sucked since i was kind of drunk, but next time it wont be midsommar so yeah If i break it down, the best things i did was: My storytelling was great I had alot of value at the party knowing the hotter chicks and alot of the fellas there Logistics were sorted Kino was good during the night. And oh yeah, almost forgot. I used mysterys (?) "we shouldn't do this right now"- kiss thingy and she just continued after like 5 sec (i was planning on waiting 10 each time) - No LMR at all. Great stuff guys, now i really have gotten bloodied teeths and want to learn and improve my game more |
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| Author: | Cafe_Mocha [ Mon Jun 27, 2011 3:58 am ] |
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Nice job man and keep the posts coming. I just began my journey into PUA and I love hearing stories of fellow PUAs using game for the first time and making steady progress into the fclose, It gives me a lot of inspiration! Why do you think it's harder to game in Sweden? |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 5:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why "the beutiful swedish women" SUCKS |
Quote: Nice job man and keep the posts coming. I just began my journey into PUA and I love hearing stories of fellow PUAs using game for the first time and making steady progress into the fclose, It gives me a lot of inspiration! Why do you think it's harder to game in Sweden?
When i chill out at my "office" (got a seperate room for thinking and such) i actually started to analyze why. I came to some conclusions about gaming in Sweden.Girls in sweden (or scania) dont go out solo - they always bring guys to be "bodyguards" - hence problem with kino. Alot of these guys are trying to "protect" their female friends, and even if you disarm them, they WILL come back and cockblock since they see it as their "responsibility" Girls in Sweden (or scania) are afraid to meet people - I know that they "just go out with their friends to dance" thing is NOT ACCURATE, but they stick very well to it. It doesn't matter if its a house party, you still have the problem but its a bit less at house parties. Girls in Sweden (or scania) are brainwashed - By television, girls here get fed about that the best men are tall, dark and dress sharp, preferable with a nice watch on their arm. If i go to the clubs that demand that kind of dress, i dont have as much confidence since i dont like wearing suits. They also get fed that the men shall pay for everything, and that they have the pussy and dont have to do anything else then to pick and choose. - Girls in Sweden (or scania) think to much of their rep The SPAM is tough (as stated by a non-swede earlier in this thread). I Feel that gaming in Cyprus, Spain, Denmark, Crete & even Germany, is ALOT easier. The people there are much more open minded and outgoing and up for adventure. Swedish girls tend to just chat "lagom" (the only country in the world that has a word for not too much, not to little) and that tends to fuck up day2's or hooking up later the same day. I dont mind having to work alot, but i know that as soon as i go abroad, my game goes up a notch, not because of me but because of the people. This fucks up my inner game since i sometimes just think, man if i were abroad i would Fclose instead of K-close. |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 5:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Some days ago |
Some days ago me and my buddy were DJing (well he was DJing and i was mostly helping out) at a graduation party. I cant tell you nothing, since my game really sucked. The approches i did was pure crash and burns. I really messed up, and i dont really know why. I think it was because of: The first two sets went awfully wrong. - After that i couln't pick up my game, or sort it out and continue. The rest of the approches was really just to push myself, but i still had the first two sets in my mind and couldn't focus. I guess that everyone has their ups and downs, and this party was really like going back to the old AFC me. Horrible thought, but i have decided to be honest on this thread, so when i look back i can see exactly what i did right and wrong. Shape up, roll the dice, and do it quick! Life awaits... |
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| Author: | Don'Dada [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 3:08 pm ] |
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Sweden is totally and utterly built up by superficial crap, what are you wearing who do you know. Girls are sexy.. but you have to fuck your girlfriends friends if you want to get some.. But hey what can you expect from a country that has it engraved into there culture to think that every stranger who comes up and talks to you might be CRAZY! lol |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 2:55 pm ] |
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Quote: Sweden is totally and utterly built up by superficial crap, what are you wearing who do you know. Girls are sexy.. but you have to fuck your girlfriends friends if you want to get some..
Indeed it can be challanging sometimes. Thats why i never use direct openers unless ive gotten alot of IOIs from girls i haven't talked to (through social proof and being the centre of attention).But hey what can you expect from a country that has it engraved into there culture to think that every stranger who comes up and talks to you might be CRAZY! lol This wednesday im going to a festival that ends sunday 12:00. Should be alot of rapports, but to make it easy i will only write the interesting ones that is where i got blown out, where i scored F-or-Kclose, or where something i dont know how to proceed from happens. Been feeling very bad now so i have not gamed for 2 days, only kept some connections through phone and chats - always let the girl contact you and interrupt with "wait 10 min i got a thing to do" etc. Im out until sunday, and then there will be some interesting field reports, since ive made up my mind to make about 700 approaches on this festival. |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 1:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Threesome failure |
Yesterday, i recieved a phone call... from a girl that ive met as an AFC and got flushed. She said she saw me at the midsummer party and wondered what happened to me as a person. I didn't say anything and had a mysterious frame. I kept her guessing. She fucking invited herself and one friend over. Holy fuck... Now to the part where it didn't go well. I know for a fact that these girls are bisexual, so i thought alot about why they suddenly invited themself over at my place for "drinking alcohol and talking". I though shit was on... And boy how wrong i were... I built up attraction, kino for the past 3 hours and comfort all of the evening... when i tried to escalate about 4.5 hours into our little evening, i did the style routine (grab back of hair, bite arms etc). They were really turned on, but then they suddenly got cold feet (LMR) and i couldn't freeze out since there were two of them... I know im not a master and i shouldn't be able to pull threesomes yet, but i need tips on what to do if i come in the same situation ever again with LMR in threesomes... |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 12:21 pm ] |
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Current goals: - Get a job - Get started on reading books (not just PUA-related) - Get my new room fixed up (Art, Design, "Cozyness" - prepare it for closes in every way) Things coming up: Falsterbo Horse Show - Gonna go to a horse "festival" just to game girls from Wednesday - Sunday (If im not getting sick living in a tent) Magaluf, Spain Going to spain for two weeks to sarge nonstop with my wing, traveling with alot of other friends aswell but i think we can leave them out (They dont believe in "game" in that way, AFC's but who cares - more for me and my friend This includes beach pickups, bar pickups, club game, airport game etc. I will go fucking all out here |
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| Author: | RollTheDice [ Thu Jul 07, 2011 3:02 pm ] |
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My "sarging week" at the festival went really bad. There were no available places to rent - the camping was fully booked. This didn't stop me and 2 friends, we managed to get inside the area by jumping fences and running through woods chased by guards. We managed to get rid of the guards. Then we were walking towards alot of people, Security found us and asked if we had the festival-bracelets wich we ofc didn't and we got thrown out. Atleast i had the will to go through a forest to get inside. NO SURRENDER! |
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