Last Thursday night I get off of work, it's 11 pm and my gf (hb wants to go out to a popular bar. My best friend josh comes with us along with my gf's friend (hb7). After a quick change the 4 of us head out. As we are getting out of the car Josh gets a text from someone he had been sleeping around with saying they needed to talk, so I go inside with gf and hb7. We are in there for about 5-10min. get something to drink and i'm dancing on gf and a little on hb 7(she's a little shy). I look over and there's a group of an hb7 hb8 and two guys with them (obvious they came together). The skinny hb 8 is looking at me, and I keep eye contact for a moment, (what the game teaches), but I look away because after all I am with my gf. A few more minutes go by and my gf says "Where's Josh!! I'm going out side to get him!!" now mind you we are kind of near a high table with some chairs and I sit down and they are pretty much next to us. The guy with hb 8 comes over and introduces himself (obviously not a local) and I introduce myself but then naturally go around the group shaking hands and getting introductions. I get to the hb 8, she lays her hand on my elbow right off the bat (Kino) leans in to my ear " That your gf?" ( I Shake my head) "that's my bf, but that's too bad because your f*&@ing hot". I was a little taken a back, but brush it off as some drunk chick who is just too easy but i say "your pretty attractive yourself" (slight neg? I think it was a little less of a response then she was expecting). The guy who introduces himself comes up to me talks for a second, and someone tells me it's his birthday and I told them that he needs a punisher shot. "what's that?" the other guy says. So I tell him what it is. "No way!!! Do they really!!" Nods Hb8, "What's He getting!?" I whisper in her ear and tell her. "That's awesome!" The guy says, "what do you have me doing?? ". "Don't worry about it but don't puss out". About this time my gf and hb 7 and josh come back inside. Josh says we need to talk and we go out on the patio to talk while I leave all them there. They all get to know each other and hb7 introduces herself and her boyfriend, then says "ad thats hb8 and her bf I think" (Was she using a cover story for a bf because I had a gf? Got me thinking it wasn't really her bf or they just met, but i digress) and we come back inside and by now they have done the punisher shot. Hb 8 runs up gives me a hug and has her bf's boxer band around her neck (I love punisher shots) and says "I got it all on tape!! It was awesome!!" so both groups split apart and dance about 5 feet from each other. But the hb8 is staring still and winks at me and is dancing on her friend. Then once she caught my eye contact she kissed hb 7. Just for a moment but then looked back and they continue to dance on each other. The night continues and my gf says " I need to go the batheroom" so she goes and I sit down by the bar on the other side of their group. The corner of my eye I see Hb 8 get up from her seat and tries to non chalauntly move around to me. she gets to me, " your gf better stick closer to you" " oh yea?, why's that?" "because I think your so hot and I would take you home, the things I would do to you you don't even know". "well it's going to take a lot to impress me, trust me, i've seen a lot" ( never give into a girl right off the bat, they lose respect and attraction for you, so push them away and watch them come back). Then comes my gf. eventually our group is about to leave after another 20 min. When I go to hug hb 8, she hold me for a second and tells me "I'll be thinking of you tonight when I get home". Translation: When I get home with by bf doing whatever I'll think of you. we leave.
What In the world just happened? Never In all my sarging had I had something like this happen. First of all the obstacle came up and introduced himself and talked to me and disarmed himself. Then the hb 8 kinos me, escalates it, and Wanting to go home with me? This never happens. Not this fast. Granted I might have dhv myself walking in with 2 attractive women and dancing and they are enjoying themselves. Anyone else translate what I did right? what I did wrong and why did I get such a reaction? Dumb Luck? Sorry it's kind of long but I feel trying to be as specific as possible would really help in this case. Thanks for the comments!
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