I am new to the community just been researching whenever I can. I totally feel that aa all the time, and usually it takes a few drinks to get rid of it. I never really drink during the day; hence, I never approach women during the day. So, today I'm chillin by my pool at my apartment complex. A fatty walks in sits down across the pool (not what you think). 5 minutes later another chick (about an
walks in and sits next to the fatty their friends. The pool was pretty empty besides us and a mom and her kids. I had already been there for an hour and really had to go to work. So, after sitting there for 15 minutes I realized I had to go and forced myself to say fack it, and I'm going to Number Close.I walk around the pool sit in a lounge chair next to her and start my conversation.
Me: "hey how you doin"
Her: "good how are you?"
M: good good. But I am in a dillema.
H: whats that?
M: I would love to stay and chat with you for a minute but I have to go to work right now. Let me get your digits and I'll txt you sometime?
H: Well... (as she scratches her head and is hesitant) I'm actually in a slight relationship thing
M: (I interrupt) Hey hey your advancing our relationship way to fast already (haha) We wouldn't be doing anything illegal just making a new friend.
H: (she smiles) alright. (digits)
M: whats this area code Riverside
H: blah blah
H: and she gives me her name
M: I shake her hand tell her mine and i'll txt her soon and walk away
H: Have fun at work...
That's it. I just tried to make it simple and I hope it goes somewhere but I'm just stoked I did it and accomplished task one. The mistakes I can already see I made was that I should of started talking to her way earlier. But, I just felt like that seemed as if I was just waiting for a cute chick to walk in the pool to hit on just because we were the only ones really in there. Also, I'm not gunna lie my voice I think was a little quivery, my hands were kinda shaking, and my heart was beating pretty fast. Hopefully those will subside with more experience. But, it worked and now I know I can do it again.
Any suggestions what I could do better and about the next step would be cool.
later