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Author:  blacklabel [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:10 am ]
Post subject:  First attempt at negging
well, a little background info here, met this girl two weeks ago, she was on her way to a bar and ran into me, i offered her a ride instead of walking...I wasn't planning on going out, but she invited me to join her. I said id meet up with her later. Met up with here, and she initiated the kiss and we spent the rest of the night talking and getting hot and heavy (didn't sleep with her) We set to go on a date (sober) the following week. We had a few drinks before hand and all was going well (2 a piece) then we went to the movies, a little bit of touching hands and legs...that was about it.

a few days later i talk to her and she said that it wouldn't work out since i do not have a degree and she wants to find someone who values education. Big diss to me, i was in total shock. Deleted her number, was completely appalled.


so a few days later (she lives near my work) i notice that her blinkers on the car are on all day. So after a few hrs i decide to tell her and let her know (had to find her number from my phone bill since i deleted it. heres the txts that followed

ME (6:17) you left your 4 ways on
HB (6:18) they still on? i shut them off 5 mins ago. thx tho. how r ya?
ME (6:41) they probably aren't on then...I was out there about a half hour ago and noticed they were on.
ME (6:42) Im great....just doing some cleaning at the field had a large group here earlier....getting ready to open the outdoor field tomorrow...very exciting
HB (6:46) that was very sweet of u blacklabel. Glad ur excited. Meetn some grl friends 4 dinner at XXX...was gonna ask u to walk me there...oh well, clear, clear away. gdluck
HB (6:49) technically its girls nite neways.
ME (6:50) I have a lot going on here right now, maybe next time
HB (6:51) np
ME (7:53) If you need a safe escort home later I may be able to help
HB (8:47) yay...but i got oral surgery so no kissing. Im not assuming u r th
HB (8:47) ...that easy lol
ME (8:59) Honey I at least need to be wined and dined before you get to kiss me
HB (9:05) haha. Rrrriggghtt!
ME (9:10) last time was a fluke....you took advantage of my drunken state
HB (9:24) ha ha. im thinkin im gonna bail early. u want 2 meet up? Im totally sober. We could make spring rolls.
ME (9:32) Well I still feel a little dissed after our last talk so spring rolls would be a step towards you making it up to me.
HB (9:33) Im not hungry but I could teach you
ME (9:37) im not hungry either but i never turn down learning something new
HB (9:40) when can you get free pops?
ME (9:40) Im already home
ME (9:41) pops, aren't you the old lady?
HB (9:41) u have offspring
ME (9:43) Well then its big daddy to you
HB (9:52) K. Come over then. But honestly, just hangin out. and minimal smiling....dont want to bleed out. Sweatpants nite too. no 3 piece suits
ME (9:54) Shit...I was already pressing my cuffs and collar
HB (9:54) Smart Ass.
ME (9:57) At least it will be ready for tomorrow night then...Ill be over, PJ pants, slippers and all
HB (9:58) Don't rush. need 2 pick up
ME (10:05) Not a bad idea...i can be a bit of a neat freak.
HB (10:06) Oh shit, well im not
ME (10:07) guess you were right then, this wouldn't work out...lol
HB (10:07) yep. weez just friends.
ME (10:11) That's good cause you weren't the best kisser anyways
HB (10:12) Fuck u
ME (10:12) lol...Dont take me too seriously darling
HB (10:13) I dont. U dont have mint leaves do u?
ME (10:14) Can't say i do....got some orbit
ME (10:14) Bad Breath?
HB (10:15) Very well could be for the rolls
ME (10:17) no need to make excses...i don't judge
HB (10:18) whats ur eta?
HB (10:22) u should come, im not that dirty
ME (10:25) I dont know the way you've talked to me before would have me thinking otherwise
HB (10:28) this isn't going 2 be one of those nights blacklabel. Can u behave? If not, I won't have you come over.
ME (10:29) Im leaving in a few mins
HB (10:36) Shit, this is going to be a late night! I was hoping not.
ME (10:36) Im already on my way

so i was let in, talked a little about food, and my shine from working in restaurants many years showed. we cooked and ate, then the coversation took a shit.

got very boring and she basically asked me to leave, so i started up trying to get the conversation going again. She said she was tired and that if i promised to be on my best behavior we would sit in her room and talk (its a small apartment, no living room) so she layed down, i SAT at the foot of the bed. Talked for a little while about shit, and she patted for me to come lay down with her, i layed down, we locked eyes and she started running her hands through my hair...i continued to talk and she moved closer. Things got hot and heavy but no sex cause she wants two things (she wants to hang out in a place other than her bedroom (to makesure it isn't simply a sexual attraction) and she wanted a std test or somethign.

so that pretty much ends my night, off to bed to be up in 2hrs for work...lol

let me know what u think or what i should have done differently....also has anyone else dealt with the std test letter. This is my first lady run in since reading on her...i thought i did fairly well.


THANKS!
Author:  Firebolt_Hernandez [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 9:08 am ]
Post subject: 
Interesting story...

I don't know about you, but I'm the kind of guy that doesn't take much shit from people. If I got perped on like you did by this girl who 'values education' but lives in an apartment without a bedroom, I would simply delete her number and not give a shit if her car was on fire, much less about her blinkers. The way I see it, there's about 3.4 billion women out there... 1 down, a few more to go.

Hope this helps.
Author:  blacklabel [ Sun Jun 12, 2011 6:00 am ]
Post subject: 
lol...awesome point and im sure it has something to do with the AFC which i still very much am. I guess thats the mind state that i need to get away from is forgetting how many potential women there are out there

thanks for the advice, I do always take everyone's opinions as food for thought!
Author:  Firebolt_Hernandez [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 6:26 pm ]
Post subject: 
Anytime man, glad I could be of help :)
Author:  Allahz Apostle [ Wed Jun 15, 2011 12:25 am ]
Post subject: 
Yeah she is definetly flirting with you, but remember that you are the prize. When she sayz stuff like if you promise to be on your best behaviour it means that she thinks your chasing her. Demonstrate the fact that you think shez alright, but could find a better her any day of the week.
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