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| Author: | TrueBlue [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 5:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | to call or not to call HBModel |
I've been sarging now for about 3 nights a week for about 2 months. So, I'm out last night and I meet this HB9Model. This guy was chatting her up all night, but i somehow manage to intrude into the conversation and he runs off to buy drinks for her. her: I'm a model me: oh, your like a hand model? that got a laugh. Anyway, we talk for a while. She seems pretty interested, keeps playing with her hair. Tells me guys like to look at her tits and ass - I didn't look at them once. This is the first really hot chick i've had a decent conversation with (about 15 mins) Then her friends (male models?) come and tell her that they're leaving. i didn't really feel like i could roll with them, I didn't even see those guys b4. So I say something like, oh, you're leaving, that's a bit rude, you haven't even told me you name yet. She tells me her name, we chat for another minute or so, then she's like, i gotta go with my friends. So I say something like, oh, you're leaving, that's a bit rude, you haven't even told me you number yet. She gives me her number, then asks me what my name and number is. i tell her. then...I try to "put a spell" on her (the finger spell thing) and she's like, yeah, guys try to do that all the time, it never works, so i'm like, nah, i'm not gonna try then. (yeah, i know it was on "the pickup artist" but that hasn't been on TV over here) Then i ask her if she likes bowling, and that i'm gonna take her bowling next week. Shes like "yeah, i love bowling! lets do it! give me a call next week and we'll go bowling." So my question is... should i call her today, or sometime before next week, just so she remembers who I am. I'm not really sure how strong an impression I made. I'm not sure if I've built enough attraction. When the other dude came back with the drinks, i turned away for a bit and started talking to these guys standing next to us, but when i turned back to the HB, she put her arm straight over my shoulder. She kissed me on both cheeks, but not on the lips, when she was leaving, but I'm pretty sure she'd given her number to the other guy b4 I'd even approached. so, mixed signals...not sure if i've already been put into the LJBF category. Is it ok to call her today, or does that seem a bit weak since she already told me to call next week to arrange something? |
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| Author: | CaptinAmerica [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 1:12 pm ] |
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First off i just read a GREAT article thats prefect for you. "the most popular test women are using these days" is a article about what women say, and what they really mean. http://www.ideagasms.net/the-most-popul ... hese-days/ Second depends on the age of the women. Older i would say call the next day or two, no longer. Even for women your own age i would not wait to long because you are going to lose momentum and they will lose interest and forget what you're all about. You need to have something to talk about though. Just talking to say "hi" and plan something for a week or so away will seam weird to her. Have a topic in mind or a good story you can tell her. Then you could always through out something that your doing that coming up soon, talk some more, and possible tell her she can go if she wants, but if she doesn't your going anyways and it will still be an AWESOME time. Hope that top article helps. |
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| Author: | saqchek [ Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:00 pm ] |
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Quote: First off i just read a GREAT article thats prefect for you. "the most popular test women are using these days" is a article about what women say, and what they really mean.
I read that article some time ago and thought it was fucking fantastic. http://www.ideagasms.net/the-most-popul ... hese-days/ No harm in calling her next day. You want to try to relive the happy times you two shared that night prior. Make her laugh, ask her how the hand modeling is coming along and if she breaks a nail, would her career be over? (neg/funny comment from prior) Like Captain said, you don't want to lose the momentum. That's why all these "hardasses" trying to wait 4-5 days wonder why the women don't respond well when they call. Derrr....it's because you lost the momentum. |
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| Author: | TrueBlue [ Fri Oct 19, 2007 5:02 am ] |
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Thanks for the responses guys. I was just a bit unsure about calling her too quick as i was afraid i'd seem needy, but on the flip side, if i didn't call her I figured she'd forget me. The main thing was that she was pulled away before we'd talked for what i would have thought was long enough to get a solid number close. I ended up calling her last night from a nightclub. She told me she couldn't hear me, so I had to go outside and call her back. she seemed pretty cool on the phone, asking me what i was doing, etc. I asked her if she was gonna be around on the weekend, she said she wasn't, but was modelling at a fashion show tonight, and that i should come along and she'll call me this afternoon and leave a ticket for me at the door. I'm expecting her call in the next couple of hours, but I'll call her anyway if she doesn't. I get the feeling that I'm just some other guy she kinda knows, but at the same time, i don't wanna get stuck in my head thinking it's all over when it might not be. My main thing is i keep trying to figure out why a hot chick like that could be attracted to a guy like me. I think i was having a decent converstion, I've done a bit of travel and i think she was liking my stories, getting her laughing at my jokes, etc, but she's about 21 and I'm 30 and bald. gotta work on my inner game i guess. I'll see what happens tonight and post the results. |
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| Author: | neogamer [ Sun Oct 21, 2007 8:32 pm ] |
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Glad you made the call soon. She'd likely forget you amidst all her other offers. Given that's she's time limited, you have NO leverage and have to take what the defense gives you. But, don't show that, and keep her off balance with gentle negs as you step through attraction and comfort. Who knows why she likes you. You can ask her after you've been dating and having sex a few weeks...lol. |
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| Author: | TrueBlue [ Mon Oct 22, 2007 1:46 am ] |
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well, she did get back to me and got me a free ticket to a fashion show, but she told me to get there at 8, and when I got there at 8.04, the bouncer told me the show had already started and that I couldn't come in till 8.30. argh! got back at 8.30, missed the show, and couldn't find her anywhere. But I still got free entry and there was a bar tab going, plus a LOT of very hot women. Ended up calling her a bit later and some dude answered the phone, her bf? they left right after the show to go up the coast for the weekend. oh well, I'll probably call her during the week anyway. I think she's a bit of a party girl, so don't know if shes attached, or if she is, i can't see her being too attached. All in all, a bit bummed i missed the show, but was an awesome night, talked to lots of hot chicks, but no numbers. I wasn't really trying too hard i guess. The weird part was, all the hot girls were acting really nice to me. It was like, because i was there, i was pre-selected. I gotta go to more of these events, even if i have to pay next time. |
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| Author: | neogamer [ Mon Oct 22, 2007 2:04 am ] |
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A fashion model a party girl? Ya, probably. Also likely loosely attached to some guy or guys. But I like the part about the after party, with the other HBs. What a place to practice game! If you can loosen up and be interesting and entertaining with that crowd, an average bar will be easy. Just remember, never compliment these women on their looks, or buy them drinks, etc. You are not THOSE guys. You're the guy who could be doing one of a hundred things with one of a hundred women but happens to be hanging around there for while. |
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