Background: Met this chick (HB1) through a friend about 5 years ago. We hit it off from the start. A bunch of us head out to the club and party it up. While there, the HB and I dance for a while, then parted ways. End of the night, she's on my arm again. We exchange numbers. Next morning I get a few texts from her showing a lot of interest. Nothing ever comes of this even though we hang out every full moon.
My bday comes up and she brings a friend (HB2). I celebrate my bday for 3-4 days. I game the friend and we hit it off. That night we're sleeping on the couch and I have my hand down her pants. Nothing more that night. Next day is house party at my house. They both come. I bang it out with HB2 and we end up dating for a little while afterwards.
We go out for HB2's bday a while later. HB2 gets drunk as hell and disappears. Completely leaves us without saying a word. Pretty sure she left with another dude, but that's neither here nor there now. HB1 and I go back to the hotel. She jumps into her pajamas, I strip to my underwear and we both hop into bed. Absolutely nothing happens...
Fast forward about 2 years.
I come back from a business trip and HB1 picks me up at the airport. We head to my place and I need to shower. Get out the shower to find HB1 laying on my bed. I get dressed in front of her and she doesn't look away. I suggest we get something to eat. Nothing comes of this.
Fast forward about 3 years.
We're still friends. Talk every now and again. Haven't really hung out as we were both in serious relationships.
Present time.
The friend that introduced us initially is having a party at his place. She asked if I were going and I said yes. She said she would be staying at a hotel so she didn't have to make the hour drive back home. I suggested she stay at my place instead and save a dollar.
She then mentioned she had nothing to do Friday, so I suggested she come up and just spend the weekend hanging out with me. She was all about it.
Her: I kinda still need your address
I'm still planning on coming over tomorrow after work if that's still ok with youMe: *ADDRESS*
Her: I got a condo!
Me: Nice!
Her: Thanks for the address. I was thinking you changed your mind
Me: You should know me better than that
Her: I knew you wouldn't. I'm excited and nervous
Me: Nervous about what?
Her: Oh... sorry. thinking and not saying what i'm thinking is confusing. i'm nervous about the condo. it's not cheap but will be worth it
Me: Had me wondering. I've been naked in front of you, and we've slept in the same bed together. Not sure what else could make you nervous after that.
Her: Oh no. I'm completely fine being with you. Speaking of bed am I sleeping with you or should I bring my blowup bed in case you meet some hot chick?
Me: Bed is pretty big. I'm sure we'd all fit
Her: I don't sleep with women
Me: LMAO! Guess we won't be sleeping then
Her: I can just use the spare room. I won't crotch block
Me: Feels like you're giving me permission
Her: Huh? I can use the spare room and you can bring someone home, but she won't be as nice as sleeping with me. LOL
Me: HA! And why is that?
Her: Cause my snoring is pleasant
Me: True... I hope you didn't forget that I get touchy feely with the women that sleep in my bed
Her: well, i snore and drool
Me: I can deal with your flaws if you can deal with mine
Her: You don't have any
Me: You have no idea what you're getting yourself into
So, with all that said, I'm pretty sure the frame has been setup for me to get some nookie... The problem is, I'm not even sure if I want to. Don't get me wrong, she's hot! She has these amazing green eyes!
Welp... guess a glass or two of wine will help me make my decision. Should be an interesting weekend.