Well i am new to PUA, and figured i'd post about my first night out after finishing The Game.
Simple pre-cursor is i went to AC with about 10-15 ppl about 50/50 guy/girl. People i have known for a long time. I find myself uncomfortable around them as i find them less mature then myself, and some of them display or use 1-2 AMOG traits. (1 does the whole physical slap the back/show/slap thing, another does like the neg/insult in front of everyone thing...real lame)
So the big disaster is that i froze my first night out, the whole night i had too much anxeity to open a single set
However! i got open'd about 3-4 times. Only one of these is worth writing about and didnt go real far, i just wana see what advice i can get (other thenb grow a pair, i know i gotta).
**Walks into Irish Pub in Casino** (i got eye contact down, posture, and smile)
After about 5 mins standing in a circle with 3 of my buddies i notice a group of girls obviously there for a bachloerette party. 3 of these girls start get into real close proximity until once is bumping into me alot, but not by accident.
At first i kinda just glance over my shoulder, smile then look back at my friends. Immediatly the 1 girl becomes more aggressive with touching me whith her body/ass while she dances, so i turn around and playfully push her away and smile at her. I turn my back again.
This girl (whom i chose as my target
) and her 2 friends grab me and pull me over to my target and all 3 start dancing with me. I say "Looks like you guys could use my help, those moves." (kinda smirk and shake my head).My target engages me in conversation within the next min asking me things like my name, why i came to AC, etc. Some questions i answer and others i either ignore or kinda laff/joke at. Also at this point her 2 friends are still around, but not really "with" us.
All of the sudden 1 friend comes over to shot a picture on a digital camera, and the girl im dancing with leans into me til we are cheek-pressed to-cheek. *click*, snaps the picture and so i go over to her friend and act like im intrested in the picture but say, "Hey i look good, but whos that with me?" I said this in a jokeing ton and they seemed to get it as playful. Then i turned to my target and said "I think we look good together."
Danced with the target some more, then a buddy taps me on the shoulder, i turn around to talk to him and my target and friends disapear. I didnt look for her.
And that is basically the end. I think i messed up by (excluding me not aproaching):
1) no time constraint set...should said something after the neg about dancing that id help them but then had to get back to my friends.
2) Turned my back on target when friend tapped my shoulder. At this point i prob should have seperated the girl to a better place and bumped her up til i could k-close or something?
So let me know what you guys think, i know i messed up...so please reply with descriptions of how and what i should have done/not done. thanks guys.