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Author:  Foxx21 [ Tue Oct 02, 2007 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Damn,I almost Had It!
Alright i went out to get haircut, to work on my avatar. when i got My haircut done i went to burger king to eat cuzz i was hungry. Then i saw these 3 girls working at the registered, I see em all laughing, I did the 3 second rule, I didn't use the any openers, I just asked " what so funny !?" with a smile on my face, Then i got some IOI's from the register girl, she started touching her hair, look at me in the Eyes, and we were having a conversation about that she works at the window and take orders from the windows i threw some negs, asking her playfully "Well today I'm your first...Right?" she said "No" then I tell the girl at the window to loudly "Give her the mic," She says" Why?" I said " Because the customer is always right" . BTW she was HB7.5 and started laughin.

After that she served me my food gets me some napkings get me a straw with my drink and she says "Enjoy" And i said "i Will". Then she says " I hope you do" with a smile on her face. I walk away with some good body language smiling at her as Im leaving.

Then as I was about to leave she comes to me (Girl at the registered) and asked me what my name. I told her my name, which is Arnold. Her name was Merniva, She 19
from El Salvador and all that shit. But i didn't know how close, I got nervous. YUP I got NERVOUS, I didn't Bother getting her number, Because i i don't know how too I'm new to this just 2 weeks in the game. Some one Help me please. Please some teach me how to #close.
Author:  Foxx21 [ Tue Oct 02, 2007 4:45 pm ]
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My bad this is the wrong section to post. sorry
Author:  Surreal [ Tue Oct 02, 2007 6:57 pm ]
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Nice work it sounds like you could have closed, she gave IoI's and even asked your name. Being that she was at work you were at a little disadvantage so not a whole lot you could have done, who hangs out for awhile at BK..I don't think you could have just said "hey can I get your #" I think it would have taken a little bit more work in comfort but she was definately trying to show you the opportunity is there. Sounds like your off to a good start next time try and remember a little bit more of the conversation and give us some details and we'll give you our opinions on what went right and what could have been done better.
Author:  Foxx21 [ Wed Oct 03, 2007 2:02 pm ]
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I will do just that, I'm hoping tomorrow i get a chance to open some sets at the at the field(mall). But if someone can give me some advice on number close then that would be great thanks.
Author:  Scent [ Wed Oct 03, 2007 3:20 pm ]
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#Closing is actually pretty easy once you are at comfort.

You built attraction well by the sound of things, but you didn't have enough time to build comfort. Boo hoo eh?

She seemed interested enough to warrant forcing the close though, and a forced close is at least better than nothing.

Scent: Listen, I have to rush off and be a busy bee, but give me your number and I'll take you for a coffee at this neat place I know.

Done deal. She's forced into giving you her number which is not very cool but better than nothing.


If you're looking for ways to #close under normal circumstances then that's a different story.
Author:  Foxx21 [ Wed Oct 03, 2007 4:45 pm ]
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Good deal, I wrote that down, kudos M8
Author:  The Bachelor's Code [ Wed Oct 03, 2007 5:06 pm ]
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it sounds like she was pretty interested in you. i like to make the girl acutally utter the words, asking for my number. you obviously didn't have much time for comfort building but that's alright. maybe you could have said something like:

you: alright im heading out of here, but hey, I'm heading over to the mall some time this week, i need to pick some stuff up for...(whatever) do you want to help me pick out some clothes/or just go with me?
her: yea sure
you: alright, (from here it's easy) give me a call this week, or sometimes you can use silence as a tool...and then she will say
her: okay, here is my number or can i have your number

this is a time bridge...it's better than getting a number and then trying to make plans...you make plans first, then the number is secondary
Author:  Chikito [ Wed Oct 03, 2007 6:48 pm ]
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this is a time bridge...it's better than getting a number and then trying to make plans...you make plans first, then the number is secondary
I cannot agree more!

Its a very common misconception. The #close is an insurance. IT IS NOT NECESSARY. You only need to number close if:

a. The situation doesnt allow you to proceed (and more often than not when you think it doesnt, you still can)
b. After you have sex and you want her back for more.

Its called Insta-dating. REMEMBER #close IS NOT an objective, its a safety net.

So in your situation, look at it like this:

-she works at BK, automatically she will see you as being Higher Value (most prob embarassed) possible negs? - Nice hat...It brings out your eyes:P Which really are beautiful btw.

-She is most probably BORRED since shes laughing with friends at work etc. You have such a huge oportunity.

- She flicks her hair (OMG HUGE IOI, shes self concious!) She asks your name and approaches you! (Dude need i say more?!)

OK so heres what I would have done. PUSHED It. Keep the convo with her, dont be afraid to keep talking considering she was busy chatting away with her friends. And kept pushing for maybe like 2-5 minutes?

You could bring up a story about the adventures you have with people in malls... then ask her if she was adventurous. She (since shes already into u) will probably say "hell yeah i am" and be like "proove it, go and eat someones fry without them noticing" hahah(where did that come from i duno!?)

If she suceeds:
PUA: Awsome stuff! You are worthy of my adventures! Haha. What time does your shift end? We should adventure here in the mall..."
HB: totally
PUA: Awsome, heres my phone plug your number in and ill call you (whenever she said her shift ended)

**IMPORTANT, dont just walk off after a #close, stay and carry on talking as if its not big deal..***

If she wooses out/fails.
PUA: Aww you totally suck, but since your so pretty (wink and cheeky smile) ill let you adventure with me. What time does your shift end...etc etc


Now dont worry tho! You can return! U know where she works. Go back a few days later stand in her que (dont make ec with her till your in the front of the que) and look up, act surprised.
"You again! You dont sleep here do you?!"
Then continue to repeat what i said above.

:) Good luck and report back!
Author:  Foxx21 [ Thu Oct 04, 2007 10:14 pm ]
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Now dont worry tho! You can return! U know where she works. Go back a few days later stand in her que (dont make ec with her till your in the front of the que) and look up, act surprised.
"You again! You dont sleep here do you?!"
Then continue to repeat what i said above.

:) Good luck and report back!

Ahhh man!!! you guys, I went back there today with some multiple threading on my head! I was gonna do the 1-4,1-10 guessing routines and ask her if she good at math, by then asking her how many 9's are in 1- 100. And the leaving her guessing ? Sound pretty good huh ? GUESS WHAT !!

She was off till saturday! Shit! But at least i was ready with the # closed.

:?
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