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Author:	Point [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 4:14 pm ]
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I had a date with a girl I didn't personally met, but she hung out with some of my friends before... I never talked to her (well, I only saw her a couple of times passing by), and she was asking questions about me so my friend gave her my number. When my friend told me about that I asked her to give me her number as well. She's a HB6.5 (Don't say shit, I have a very different scale standards than you. In every second post I see an HB 9.5 or a 10.) I texted her, and set up a meeting. (I didn't ask her, I told her to) So we met. She came directly from her school, and she was really nervous. I was relaxed all the time and expected that she would relax as well. We were going to an ice-cream parlor. I was talking about anything and everything, just like talking to a friend. I negged her for "stalking me". She knew lots of stuff about me. I said that I don't usually date stalkers and spies and that I hope she doesn't watch me when I'm in a bathroom, even if it's hard to resist. I also negged her for torturing her pets in sick ways. Said I hope that she won't treat me the same way... She said she'd treat me good, maybe just a little sick. She was carrying her school bag cause she came directly from school... should I have carried it for her? I don't know. I played the 5 question game, if I win --- she owes me an ice cream. (I won of course, there's no losing that game.) BUT, she didn't have enough money with her so I just bought her the ice cream, what could I've done? We sat down on a nearby bench. Her body language: Her legs were crossed but were pointing at me, so that's ok. A few times she crossed her arms for short periods of time --- bad. She was looking at her cell phone, bad again. She was "accidentally" touching my leg with her's --- very good. I was slightly leaning back and did KINO occasionally. I told her to give me a massage, negged her about it and showed her how it's done. We was about to part ways and we got up and walked a little. NOW she relaxed. I put my arm around her waist. She asked me if we'll meet again. I said: "YES, we definitely MUST meet again, you OWE ME money... or ice cream." As we both were about to go home, I said "kiss godbye" and I pointed to my cheek. She kissed me and turned her head to the side for me to kiss her too. So I did. She now asked: "Pleaseee... Can I get another???" She wanted to make out... I didn't. This was a bad day, she was nervous and un-relaxed. If I kissed her it would be just uncomfortable. I did that before as an AFC, and that would bury it. I wanted to keep this one. So I said: "Ok, sure, If you insist...", and I let her kiss me on the cheek again. She did, but she was confused by this, I just laughed, said bye, and left. All together, it was about an hour and three quarters.

Author:	outbreak [ Wed Oct 24, 2007 9:53 pm ]
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Hmmm intresting, well on the carrying her bag thing i would say no too AFC unless she was like really having trouble. Im in same kinda situation with the girl and money im fine on money and shes broke so i almost have to pay for mine and hers. Overall i would say you did a good job i want to ask you a small question though. What is 5 Qs again? and When you say "Kiss goodbye" and point towards your cheek, Would it be a good or bad idea to turn at the last second so you got it on the lips? I ask because i saw this happen and everyone who saw thought it was brilliant.

Author:	Point [ Thu Oct 25, 2007 12:16 pm ]
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Thanks Outbreak. It's like this. I didn't want a kiss close. I wanted to keep it like this. I don't know why, but it didn't feel right then. If I wanted a kiss close, I'd go with Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me?". The 5 questions game goes like this: PUA: "Wanna play a game?" HB: "Sure." PUA: "I'm gonna ask you five questions, and you have to LIE at each. You must not tell the truth or you lose. Ok?" HB: "Wait, I have to lie? ... Ok." ---- (You should bet in something, you shouldn't give it away for free) (Example: You have to buy me an ice-cream) PUA: "Ok, we start NOW!" HB: "Ok." PUA: "(first question, it can be whatever; example: what color is my shirt)" HB: "(lies, some other color than your shirt)" PUA: "(second question, whatever; example: what's your name)" HB: "(lies, some other name than hers)" PUA: "(third question, whatever; example: what state are we in)" HB: "(lies, some other state)" PUA (make cofused face): "Wait, how many question was that till now?" HB: "Oh, three!" ----- She said the truth. It was three questions. You win. OR, ANOTHER SCENARIO: PUA: "How many question was that till now?" HB: "Haha, seven!" PUA: "HOLY SHIT, you got it! Oh my god!" HB: "Haha, you can't fool me" PUA: "Habe you played this before?" HB: "No! Hah..." PUA: "Got you on the fifth one!" ---- She said the truth. She never played this before. You win. You can't lose this game.

Author:	They Call Me Lucid [ Thu Oct 25, 2007 2:46 pm ]
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i can understand where youre coming from but dont let her think that youre not interested in her. she probably thinks that or you are scared. i would go for a kiss next date (doesnt have to be a makeout). if i were in your shoes i would have kissed her then tell her if she wanted more she would have to go out with you on another date. like build up the anticipation and stuff. good job overall i say

Author:	Point [ Thu Oct 25, 2007 3:34 pm ]
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You're absolutely right. I know it was a mistake not to. Well, will do better next time. Thanks for advice.

Author:	ice~ [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 10:22 pm ]
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Congratulations. What is the Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me?"?

Author:	Nightynight [ Fri Jan 04, 2008 12:05 am ]
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Quote: Congratulations. What is the Mystery's "Do you want to kiss me?"? You basicly look her deep in the eyes and say "Do you want to kiss me?" She says yes: you kiss her She says maybe: you say "lets find out" and kiss her She says I don't know: "lets find out" and kiss her She says no: "I never said you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind" and keep the conversation going.

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