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| Author: | Sixpounder [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First Time In The Field - Lots Of Mistakes |
I went to a metal club this Halloween intending to try my game for the first time, there was a fancy dress theme and I'd gone as a pirate. There weren't very many women there and absolutely none I wanted to do anything with (I like very slim girls and there were none that couldn't be called chubby at the very least), however, I had gotten my hopes up that I'd get to try my game tonight - so I went for the prettiest girl in the place. I didn't want anything from her other than practise, I'd been introduced to her in the past and she'd added me on facebook but we'd done no more than exchange names. I spoke to her near the bar, unfortunately close to both my friends and hers, so there were plenty of interruptions. Credit for the opener goes to ob14ever2003. I'm going to put the things I said in bold, actions between asterisks *like this*, mistakes in red and my thoughts on the situation in (brackets). I will refer to her as Sue. So without further ado, here goes: Me: I like your costume, I was going to wear the exact same thing. Sue: I'm glad you didn't, now I'm unique! Me: Yeah, plus, you'd have gotten upset that I wore it better than you. Sue: I have boobs, so I'd wear it better. Me: Are you saying I don't have boobs? *looking offended* (At this point I feel I should have either skipped the comment entirely, or said something to the effect of: "You're so rude" and turned away until she apologized. Though it may have been too early in the conversation for that.) Sue: Well, yeah. Me: I suppose, but I've got the legs for a skirt like that! Sue: Are you saying I don't? Me: Well... *shrug that suggests I've seen better* Sue: What's wrong with my legs? Me: Aww, it's okay. *patting her on the head* (Perhaps I should have said something like: "It's so cute the way you pout.") Sue: What's wrong with my legs? Me: Well, they're just not my legs! (I couldn't think of a neg here and sort of floundered a bit, I'm thinking something like: "Well, the left one's longer than the right one." would have done alright? On the other hand, I'm not sure if my hesitance followed by a deflection was an implied neg?) *Interrupted by my friend tapping me on the shoulder repeatedly until I finally turned to speak to him* (Trying to make the best of this, perhaps it was a DHV, showing that I'm in demand?) *Later on she seeks me out* (I took this as an IOI.) Sue: So, you were going to come as an assassin? Me: Sorry, what? Sue: An assassin, that's what I'm dressed as. Me: Oh, right, yeah, I was! But, I came as a pirate instead *indicating my costume* (I had told her I liked her costume when in actual fact I had no idea what she was meant to be. Personally, I thought she looked like a combination of nun and nurse.) Sue: But assassin beats pirate! Me: *Mimes shooting her with a fake pistol* Evidently not! Sue: Well, I did have a sword before. Me: What happened to it? Sue: It snapped. Me: Ah, my sword would never snap, it's bendy. *raising the plastic sword and bending it* (I got a giggle but at what cost?) *Interrupted again by a persistent friend* (Really hoping this is a DHV, haha.) *Later on in the night she comes up behind me and starts playing with the feathers on my hat, I turn around to see what's going on* Me: Hey! My feathers! Sue: But they feel so fluffy! *Interrupted briefly, as I turn to see who wants me now, she takes my hat and wears it* (I'd sprayed some of my deodorant into the hat before I left so I could place the hat on someone and it would remind them of me and give them a reason to seek me out later, so I was privately pleased she'd taken the hat.) Me: It looked better on me. *Interrupted again by the same friend who wasn't finished saying his piece* *Later on, I see the hat fall from her head* Me: Oi, you'd best look after my hat better than that, Missy! *in tones of mock severity* Sue: I will, I promise. *she puts the hat back on* Me: You've put it on backward, by the way. (I feel I should have teased her a little, e.g. "I don't think much of your fashion sense, you're wearing that hat backward.") *Interrupted again* *The hat is placed on my head from behind and I assume it was her, however, she's standing a couple of meters away* Sue: You took your hat back! *looking disappointed* Me: Oh, someone put it on my head, I assumed it was you... Figured you must have some freakishly long arms to do it from over there. *Smiling, she takes the sword from my belt* Me: Cheeky! (I should have said: "Wow, you're forward, I don't normally let girls touch my sword until at least the second date.") *Interrupted yet again* One of Sue's friends: Why did you give her that sword?! She won't stop poking us with it! *Sue pokes me with the sword* Me: I let you borrow my sword and you turn it against me? *in tones of mock outrage* *She pokes me again and I catch the sword and take it back, I then proceed to poke her with it. Once to the chest, once close to the crotch and then I mime taking her dress off with it.* *She pretends to be offended and giggles* *Interrupted and the night ends before I can do much more.* There was a point in the night where she came over and danced with me for a couple of songs, she seemed to try to strike up conversation on the dance floor too, but I couldn't hear her over the music. I was a bit disappointed I didn't get to do any form of close, but I didn't want to kiss or sleep with her and I already had her on facebook, so I didn't see how I'd pull off a number close. I forgot a lot of the body language stuff I'd been reading on here, so unless I did it naturally, that needs work. I'd have preferred rather less interruptions; they stopped me from getting into most of the stuff I'd planned, thus, I ended up doing mostly what came naturally to me. However, my ex girlfriend did say: "Congratulations, you nearly pulled... I saw you flirting with Sue." she was less than happy about it, but I guess it means I did okay? Any tips? What do you guys think of the ideas I had for better responses? Any help for a noobie would be welcome. I'll be back in the field on Friday (possibly Thursday too) and there are more women at both those venues, so I should be able to try out my game proper. |
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| Author: | mPUA Savior [ Thu Nov 04, 2010 8:46 pm ] |
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your new to approach so with time it will become easier but the overall problem id have to say is you were afraid to say the things that later on you knew you should have said.....basically you didnt say them because you were afraid of how she would react, i can almost see yourself saying one thing and going in your brain dammit i want to say that but i dont know what will happen if i do.....so basically you gotta develop a mind set of fuck it and say and do what you want, if she has some fragile little girly mold and she is offended by what you say those arent the girls you need to be messing around with......with time what to say and how to talk will come natural for now practice on saying what you want and not what your mother told you to say..aka be nice to girls |
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