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| Author: | renny32 [ Sat Oct 02, 2010 4:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Field report, beautiful genius, long game, input sought. |
Met a woman at a conference 3 years ago. Extremely attractive, and with a PHD. Most men probably catch on fire by getting close to her. Ran into same lady 2 years ago at same conference. Said hi again, chatted. Ran into same lady 1 year ago, in a professional setting. Got her card. Came across her card recently while cleaning up desk. Juiced with new found PUA awareness, thought to give her a call. Wrote her: "So sorry.... I forgot to get back to you for coffee... Are you Free tomorrow??". (We never had plans for coffee. I'm not even sure she knows who the hell I am.) She accepts, shows up dressed to the 9s. She'd make most men beg, even without the PHD. We have a nice chat. I present well. She gains the impression I am someone very "connected", although I never sought to create such impression. I ask her why she gave up running, and she says it was her fiance. Sadly, instead of letting her continue, I interject with my own girlfriend-asked-me-to-stop-exercising story. Otherwise, goes well. I email a week later, ask out for coffee... she says she's going out of town, defers a week. I don't followup. I let the "deadline" get closer, and she emails back, apologizing for letting things slide, and can we meet soon? I wait an hour, agree. We meet. She apologizes profusely for letting things slide. I reply that I appreciated the flexibility in my schedule, and that what counts is that we eventually got together. As we meet, she presents a hand for handshake - a bit formal, perhaps. I touch one elbow, but also shake her hand. I take her to a nice peaceful garden in the area not many know about. We have more space to ourselves than anyone else in the downtown area. We chat. In retrospect, I think I focused a little too much on DHV than in just letting her babble. I actively looked for opportunities to DHV, but probably just ended up dominating the conversation with the following: - Military experience - A fluke language translation favor that eventually lead me to discover her last name in another language last week - with a pleasant meaning. (A rare language I am fluent in) - A public feat of (fierce) animal taming that was also witnessed by a mutual acquaintance. Pictures promised for next meeting. - Stories related to my accomplishments in several other fields completely unrelated to the business world. - Another story of animal-saving that recently landed me in medical care. She mentions fears over being laid off, to which I reply "but your fiance can support you in the meantime"... to which she expresses skepticism, in an "as if" kind of way. I've been very cautious about discussing her fiance.... But over the course of our two conversations, I do sense a thread of dissatisfaction. In parting, she responds that she really liked my stories.... but in retrospect, I think i did too much talking. Back at my desk, I "reward" her with some valuable job-hunt information that I've been sitting on, and a recommendation of a very romantic restaurant in her neighborhood that she could take her fiance to. ( The psychology behind this is that I'VE taken women there, and that she would be required to take her deadbeat fiance there, instead of him taking her). Plan for Next meeting: Demand that SHE tell stories about HERSELF. Cautiously ask about Fiance. Perhaps "Cube" her. More to cum. Thoughts? |
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