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Author:  MichaelSel [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 2:48 am ]
Post subject:  Failing everytime after a solid game period
Since the beginning of this month, I have approached 634 women in 132 sets.
in 95% of the sets, I was able to open with no problem, I was able to bridge with no problem, and I was able to attract with no problem (after that i still have some problems sometimes but i'm gradually getting better.).
In the remaining 5% i could always pin point what I got wrong or what could have been better.

In the last two nights. I have failed EVERY set! I am talking about close to 18 sets, that non of them worked!! unlike the 5% of my sets that I fail, this time, I had no idea what went wrong! Thinking back about my games it looks as if I did everything right!!

I am very frustrated and looking for an insight. anybody?! :(

would happily answer any question that might shed light on the matter.


Thanks a lot!!

Mike.


p.s I am in this game for over two years.
Author:  FastFlyer [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 6:11 am ]
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Can you tell us where you are gaming? Approaching a group or singletons? Are you Isolating? Escalating? Are you controlling the frame? Your apperance?
Author:  MichaelSel [ Fri Sep 24, 2010 6:04 pm ]
Post subject: 
Favorite venue: Low key bars with high energy.
Usually go to 6-8 people sets since I like the challenge of big groups
Not isolating since i can't even open
Not escalating since i can't even open
Not controlling the frame since i cant even open
I look fiiiiiiiine! :P

Listen, i am not a novice player.. and I didn't strike out on an opener for years! i can fail in different parts of the set but almost never the opener. it is only those past few days that i fail opening!

THE THING IS
that technically i have nothing wrong with the way i open.

I have very solid and confidant body language (Studied body language for two years in the university regardless to pu)

I come with the right amount of energy needed.

I groom myself to perfection

I time constraint

I have a reason for asking

though I can't seem to disqualify my self, since it is only the opener and I can't put it in until I atleast finished with it. PLUS false disqualifyers are meaningless in a big set of 10's (last night) since it impossible to disqualify yourself to everyone. unless i talk about me and my girlfriend which i will try but other than that..

SOLID GAMING!!

WTF went wrong? could it just be bad luck???

Thanks! Mike.
Author:  FastFlyer [ Sat Sep 25, 2010 4:25 am ]
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Well if it's only been a month than it's no big deal. Everyone goes through a bad streak. If this happens for a long time then I would say there is a problem. Are you approaching the 6-9 group single ship or are you approaching with a wingman? I am not sure you are setting yourself up for success going kamakazi into a big group like that?
Author:  Genuine [ Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:07 am ]
Post subject:  Back to Basics
if you are having rough nights and cant open the larger sets.. go back to basics.. and open 2, 3, and 4 sets..

I dont know exactly what you are saying to these girls/groups so I cant tell where you may be slippin up.. your energy level.. etc..

I mean.. I have off days where it seems all my witt for the day went with my morning shit.. but I dont even let it bother me and have fun anyway..

but then again.. sometimes.. even when I feel out of it.. I do well.. so I wouldnt worry too much about it..
This Past sat.. I didnt feel too with it.. but I had a HB 8 bring me her HB 8 friend.. too which my HB 9 friend knew both of them and my back was too a wall and they were around me.. making me look very good.. I even stated to them.. You realize you are makin me look like a Serious Pimp(my shirt said that on it, it is a MMA brand)..
So I entertained them for a good 20 minutes with just general conversation.. then finally it was just me with the one girl that I was introduced to.. She was gettin a lil drunk and was starting to annoy me.. so... even though I was initially gonna go for a # and kiss close.. I opted to venture off and speak to some other people..

The Point of the story is.. ya just make the best of the night even if you seem to be striking out..

Goodluck
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