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Dirk you hit the nail on the head, my disappointment was not that I could have got rejected its that I didn't try...
Oh yeah, same with me. I don't give a flying fuck if I'm rejected and get a slap in the face or something. In the end, I'll feel ecstatic just about the fact I approached. However, when I'm trying to approach I can't seem to remind myself enough of that fact. I rarely get that plunge feeling you get when your just about to interact with a chick. And the plunge feeling is due to your conflicting mental thoughts just washing away. Heh, a lot of the times I've approached chicks, or ALMOST recently, I was thinking 'oh shit, I'm actually going in and doing it'. It's like, good or not, you're just doing it and it's too late to change. Although last time I did manage to change at the last minute and call of the approach, basically because the target walked into a store and I didn't follow.Thinking 'oh shit, I'm actually going in and doing it' probably is a negative thing to think though, because it's like I didn't really want to approach in the first place. I remember I was standing around trying to go up to a chick for probably a good ten minutes and then having a certain thought I just went up and did it. But as soon as I did 'it' I immediately ejected out of embarresment. A better thing to think would be 'Yeah, baby, here I go! Dirk Debonaire is going in!'
