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| Author: | The Snowman [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 7:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Gaming at Work? Mixed feelings |
I work in a mall at a clothing store as a model (title of the position) where i greet people and help them with their shopping experience. I found myself gaming a female employee who is a hb 9.5. I was just going natural game no canned material and she really responded to it well. I was getting IOI's throughout the conversation and in my head I began to phase shift to number close because it was the high point in the convo and things were going well. I made her qualify herself by asking her if she has anything going for her besides her looks because that was why were we all hired anyway. My target the hb 9.5 and I were talking about things we like to do for fun and she nonchalantly mentioned a boyfriend. I have been in this situation many times before where i disqualify myself of being a potential suiter and go for it anyway. Today I could not bring myself to number close my target because all of my other female employees that I work with are all hb 9's and 10's and I feared that even tho my game was tight if I for some reason did not get the number and got rejected all of the other female employees would have found out and it would automatically lower my value therefore fucking myself if I were to try and sarge them. I sitting here salking in my bed about the missed oppurtunity bc it was the first time in a while where i honestly just did not know what to even do, I weighed out the good and bad outcomes and made the decision to not even try for the number close. I have so many mixed feelings I do not know if I should be happy or sad haha -The Snowman- |
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| Author: | Tutu [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 12:33 pm ] |
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ok listen. i think that your biggest problem is that you think too much. when im going sarging, i just enjoy the game without any thoughts about it later on. i just do the things i know to do best and it has been almost always effective. yes, sometimes you get rejection but thats fine as well. you just need to look at those times as an oportunity to learn more about yourself and the game. one last thing, remember - with the right attitude you can always make a no into a yes 
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