Ok this HB9/HB10 is at my work and after knowing her for like 2yrs or som shit i want to pick her up. Yesterday I had a few convos with her at work (this was a saturday)
Current Relationship: We aren't real good friends like I never really use to speak to her because she works in a dif department and I was sure she had a bf. But i have been speaking to her alot more lately.
These convos are between work i am doing so they are short
Me: Hey so you going out tonight?
HB9: Nooo i'm having a quiet one tonight.. im getting old
(she's 21 i'm 20)Me: Haha what! ur 21! its like your already hitting menopause (prob not greatest thing to say) She laughs and I walk off as i say it.
Later
Me: So I guess ur hanging with your bro tonight huh (hes 16)
HB9: Nope.. hes going to his girlfriends its just me my mum and dad
Me: Sounds like fun (sarcastically).. Do you actually want to stay home?
HB9: Smiles yeh im looking forward to it.
30min before shift finishes
Me: You've got to stop being so lame
HB9: Laaame , Laame
Me: haha.. if you want I can take you in (I was trying to indirectly ask her to come to town)
HB9: What tonight?
Me: Yeah
HB9: Noo i'm already looking forward to staying home tonight .. next time (shakes her finger at me and smiles)
This girl doesn't go out that much cos of her friends but I know she gets loose when she drinks cos week before at my mates 21st she hooked up with her ex but only cos this guy forced them to.. this pissed me off lol. actually shes a HB9.5
Anyway most convos I have with her are like this but can't seem to get any further I want to get her to come to town because I am confident I can seal the deal.
Is there anything I could have said differently or shud not have said and how can I build the attraction better!