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| Author: | bloodtear1 [ Sat Jul 17, 2010 3:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | telling girls that you're meeting other girls |
Can I get an opinion on this? I get mixed reactions on this topic when I tell a girl that I'm dating other girls. For some it works like a charm and they want to win you over. On the other hand (which is the majority) the girls seem to flake, although i build lots of rapport and comfort on dates. I usually tell them after seduction (or f-close). And after that she is avoiding me. Should I even mention that or should I just tell them in an other way. greetz from Austria. |
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| Author: | Asserter [ Sat Jul 17, 2010 10:33 am ] |
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"After seduction (f-close)" - that's probably the issue. Most girls interpret it as you 'gamed' them, and 'used' them for sex, that your whole comfort building was basically a lie (its all in their wiring; settle down, build a family etc. not all girls are like this, though most tend to follow this internal logic, its their nature). So if your gonna date lots of girls, make it crystal clear that you are doing so before anything even happens. Its best to be honest with yourself and these girls, otherwise it just makes things worse. Remember, you're meant to leave her better off then she was before she met you, not as if she was used up and tossed away. |
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| Author: | bloodtear1 [ Sat Jul 17, 2010 7:24 pm ] |
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ah okay! thank you, really appreciated that advice =) |
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