DAY3
So I made it through day 3 of my challenge.I already knew that part or today's challenge would be to call people ramdomly and get 3 seperate people to give me movie suggestions.I knew that it might be hard to get people to agree,but I didn't think it was going to be hard on my part,nerve and anxiety wyse,just maybe time consuming.For some reason though,I kept putting it off and off,until it was like 7pm,and I finally was like"I am doing this right now,no matter what". I think I was just relunctant to do the calls because I thought that it was going to take awhile. The calling took 45 mins,and I got hung up on a bit,threatened that to be reported once,but finally I got my three suggestions.All three of them were from males,but I think that is because all of the women that answered sounded older,and I think they thought I was either a prank caller or tele market.
As for actual sarging today,I didn't actually go out and about anywhere's. I haven't shaved or showered today(part of the stlylife challenge, I will find out tomorrow why I wasn't allowed to,can't wait),but I did practice my tonality quite a bit, and did some other mind improving exercises.
I do think I might of got an IOI or 2 from 2 seperate chicks at school,but I am not sure what to make of them or how to work with them
FIRST CHICK came over at the end of math class,I was still sitting,she was standing,hugged me and pulled my head against her,like a mother does to a baby,she has a boy friend,we have each other's cell #'s,but does'nt txt me,and she has hugged me numerous times before,she is friendly,but we don't hang out,or even really talk other then briefly.
SECOND CHICK sits directly beside me in class,some days I acted overly friendly and too talkative,(mainly about myself or other non important things,but after reflecting that although she seemed interested at first,the friendlier I acted,the less open she acted,so I went days where I gave her a taste of her own medicine and other than acknowledging her,I just acted obsorbed in my work.I noticed that whenever I do this,she seems to chase an interaction and try to build rapport with me.Anyhow,today and yesterday we have talked steady and today I noticed alittle hickey while sitting beside her,I told her about it,she acted shocked,I said "right there" and rubbed it ,jokes,blah,blah,then I noticed she seemed interested in me more than usual,she asked if I drove and blah blah blah,we also have each other's cell #'s,and she doesn't call or txt.
The only reason I mentioned theses interactions is because I am not sure how to escalate without coming across as desperate or needy!
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