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| Author: | Millstone [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 3:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Should I feel guilty? |
Last night I get a phone call from an old love interest of mine asking to go for a walk. She's my perfect type of beautiful, natural beauty mixed with a hint of hippie joy and wisdom. I've known her 4 years, & there's always been that sexual tension. Yet she's always had a BF, but she's going away to college in a few weeks so I made a decision to have her be mine for the next few weeks. I'm not gonna stand 10 years from now wondering what if.. After all she's leaving for school soon, and I'm going out west. Anyways, she picks me up and we begin our journey. I start off by teaching her a few exercises that allow herself to stay relaxed and in the moment on command. (THANK YOU STEVE P!) Soon after I start our Future Date Projections, after placing her in a relaxed state where she could accept our reality that much more we start walking. We talk about old memories, and as we stroll down the bar strip I tell her she's my bodyguard that has to protect me from the other gals. A few girls approached us and we had some short convo befofe bouncing. This was a 2 hour walk, and the conversations never got stale. I made sure to move her when it felt right, I highly suggest walking down scary looking places and going to explore them. Works like a charm! We finally get to my place and I get us some water inside but quickly lead her back outside to my swingset. My swingset is a big part of my game due to the kino oppurunities and routines I've created for it. Plus it just reminds you of being a child, girls just love it. Eventually we had to go back in to bring the cups back in. (Which is why I got her water and brought it outside.) I put on some classical music and we sit on my couch, and we continued our game of hands. Keep in mind she's got a BF, that thought was in the back of my mind the whole night but my frame never faultered. NLP is a passion of mine, and I've got originl scripts up the ying yang, I just didn't care. I wanted her so deeply, and she was sharing the same emotions. We just let it happen to us, and it was everything we thought it'd be and more. Afterwards She wakes me up telling me she's about to go to the DMV at 6am. I don't bother to even ask, I knew she had been thinking about our passionately lustful night and felt guilty. I get a call tho this morning from her in almost tears, telling mehow she told her BF what happened. Apparently they were supposed to go on a 2 week trip together,an now things aren't looking so good. Which is fine with me, we've got 4 years of sexual desire to catch up on in just a few short weeks. I ruined the relationship of a girl a truly cared for. But they were plannin on spliting up anyways due to school, she was my oneitis and I got the girl. Now time for the damage control. Should I really feel that bad tho? |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:02 pm ] |
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haha douche move, not going to lie. She probably really likes you. If you like her a lot as well you can probably make her your girlfriend. However, my rule is: once a cheater, always a cheater. She would probably tell you though so there wouldn't be any worrying lol. She seems like a loyal girl because she feels guilt. Up to you man. Just don't be a nervous wreck because of it. |
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| Author: | Litfuel [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:33 pm ] |
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i don't think you did anything wrong, she contacted you and wanted to go for a walk, you just kept your inner game strong and one thing led to another. This was bound to happen, i agree with the other post, if you like her make her your girl. but you didn't cause this, it was bound to happen. |
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| Author: | Millstone [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 4:29 am ] |
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Quote: haha douche move, not going to lie. She probably really likes you. If you like her a lot as well you can probably make her your girlfriend.
I adore this girl, I'd love nothing more than for her to be mine, but we're just going on seperate paths. I'm gettting some lovely input about the situation from her boyfriend tho, he's in shock. All I regret is the fact that she now has to deal with all the shit from him. My next step is damage control, her bf is being a total AFC now.However, my rule is: once a cheater, always a cheater. She would probably tell you though so there wouldn't be any worrying lol. She seems like a loyal girl because she feels guilt. Up to you man. Just don't be a nervous wreck because of it. Suggestions? |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 7:06 am ] |
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Just tell her that she should be yours. You both know it! Even though you are separated, it can still work out. You guys would just need to maintain a long distance relationship. |
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| Author: | juancruz [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 10:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | tough decision |
Honestly dude if ur feeling her go for it. But at the same time it seems like your having strong feelings for her . And like u said u had the oneitis for her before so if u break up with her u probably will have it again. And if she had a boyfriend that should be a big sign that if she did it once she'll do it again. But honestly ur going to do what u want and ignore all of the warning signs anyways. But i guess thats the only way ur gonna learn. Dude if more than one person is telling u this its because, suprise, suprise, buddy. ur not the only dude in the world thats been thru this. I think ur setting urself up for failure, and u should just practice ur skills and get more options. That might change ur prespective a little bit. |
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| Author: | Millstone [ Sun Jun 27, 2010 6:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: tough decision |
Quote: Honestly dude if ur feeling her go for it. But at the same time it seems like your having strong feelings for her . And like u said u had the oneitis for her before so if u break up with her u probably will have it again. And if she had a boyfriend that should be a big sign that if she did it once she'll do it again. But honestly ur going to do what u want and ignore all of the warning signs anyways. But i guess thats the only way ur gonna learn. Dude if more than one person is telling u this its because, suprise, suprise, buddy. ur not the only dude in the world thats been thru this. I think ur setting urself up for failure, and u should just practice ur skills and get more options. That might change ur prespective a little bit.
Been keeping the options open, I'm hung over as fuck right now about to go do some yoga with some girls I met last night. I'm not the type to get hung up, but have you ever heard of the 100% perfect love routine? It's powerful piece and I feel as tho that's what we are to each other. I'm a fan of long term seductions, it almost seems like it's the perfect frame to keep woman in your life. I think when I start throwing seminars long term seductions and damage control will be epic topics. =P
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| Author: | pewnslayer [ Sun Jul 04, 2010 8:14 am ] |
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Dude is definitely right, once a cheater always a cheater. My last gf of TWO years I made cheat on her boyfriend in the first week. He was a total AFC and that was when I felt at my peak game, so I figured being so much more dominant a man than him. She ended up cheating on me for a fucking cracksmoking crackhead, who has no game at all, he even fucked a homeless chick before! Feelings schmeelings I had feelings for this bitch and had my heart ripped into pieces. "Love" is cheap, fickle, and feigns. Do you wanna bet this slut probably told her bf 1000000 x times she loved him? What a whore! You should feel no guilt though, because she opened HER legs. |
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