| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Nightclub sarge no.1 https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=69526 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | highway [ Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Nightclub sarge no.1 |
Tonight I decided to go and sarge a nightclub using the pua stuff i learned from online. I got there at 11 and there was a huge line of people waiting to get in. After pacing around the block to get pumped up I went ahead and jumped in line. I first opener a girl, and I asked her how long shes been waiting so far, but she was apparently with her mom or something As we inch closer to the entrance There was a 2 set behind me. Everyone in the line look bored and the whole reason I drove here was to overcome my AA and improve my courage, body language and tonality. I decided to use the "Hey pretend im hitting on you and I want you guys to reject me as hard as you can" I then teased whatever their response was. Looking back on it, they were really open after that. We danced a little salsa, and I decided to do the ring routine from a Stylelife academy newsletter, so there was good kino. Damn, yeah we had a good time but I didnt escalate! I didnt even ask for their numbers as we entered the club, I shouldve asked! However I think during the conversation I went back to my old AFC self after the opener, and started talking about Karate kid (movie I just saw), the area around the club, where theyre from and stuff. I think that killed the attraction. Either way, this was just to pump me up for the club. As I finally enter the club, its PACKED and CHEST POUNDING LOUD MUSIC Whenever I tried to say anything from a side view with good posture they cant hear anything! I think what I should do now is whisper into their ears on the approach, cause otherwise there is no way they can hear me! 2 sets sorta just ignored my opener, where I was trying the hiroshima opener, but I never was able to completely deliver the whole thing without getting kinda ignored. How do you guys deal with LOUD PACKED environments? Like for example, there are these stands that these hot girls dance on top of and I was thinking of approaching them, but I knew words wouldnt work cuase they would never be able to hear me unless I yell at the top of my lungs. I was thinking of doing this: Walking up to her with eye contact, then do a shoulder roll from right to left and pass that energy to her I think it has to be with body language, cuase its too loud to be heard when theyre dancing atop a platform. Anyways, this was just my first sarge in a club and I only made like 5 approaches I need to do more approaches next time, at least 10 Thanks, |
|
| Author: | 0RI0N [ Sat Jun 19, 2010 10:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
dont whisper your openers, highway. youll be pecking at them and DLV before you even open the set. give her the opener and make her come close to you in order to hear it. stick to your sideview w good posture. also id stay away from girls that are dancing. catch em when they leave the dance area but youll be hard pressed to open them while theyre actually dancing. lastly you NAILED it, dude. very loud clubs arent great spots for delivering openers. your best work was outside the club where u can speak regularly. thats where u got the reactions, thats where u should be sarging. either quieter spots in the clubs or spots with generally lower music volume. just stack and youll be rollin. something im working on myself. funny thing is u said all this urself but didnt realize it. hope this was constructive to you. love your attitude. |
|
| Author: | highway [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 6:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
The thought of going sarging again is still making me nervous, but next time I will be more prepared. Im gonna try somethings out: First Im gonna try to open still from side view good posture, but I will maintain strong eye contact and if she says "what?" i will motion her to come closer instead of leaning in! (Thinking about it in a 3rd person angle and visualizing it) I think that will come off as more confident. I should also use the LOUD PACKED ENVIRONMENT to my advantage. There were many mixed sets in the crowd and next time I will open mixed sets too, just so Im always in a conversation and not just standing there. I will also try the whole "hey lets go meet my friends... hmm cant seem to find them, oh well looks like youll just have to keep me company". after leading her around the club. I also want to try to kclose fast!, and now every approach I should gauge how far I can go and always go for either a number close or a kclose, instead of just talking! Summary: Try new things, try to get rejected harder, open mixed sets too, go for kclose fast!, always at least #close |
|
| Author: | GameBoyPocket [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
why dont you dance? it builds some sexual tension depending on how yall are dancing.. then when a song changes you can say its too loud and move her to a lounge area.. |
|
| Author: | 0RI0N [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 6:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
highway u got some great ideas, i like the "lets find my friends" then u never find em. its a great way to isolate the target. what do u mean "try to get rejected harder"? |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|