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| Author: | niceguy [ Fri Sep 14, 2007 10:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | 1st Sarge Experience on HB10 with # Close Success |
Well, I only have one real sarging/approaching experience, but it was successful. Mind you, I'm a 22 year old Asian guy in San Diego, which I find difficult to do pickup with all the white girls wanting white guys, and even my own kind (the Asian girls) want the white guys. It's an uphill battle, but I learned to deal with it. I know I still have a lot to learn, but I think this experience was great - I will have to recreate this feeling many times again, which is why I'm learning from the best - HERE! I'll try to give you the run down my path as quickly as possible. I was a scared little pussy a year and a half ago. I was a student and a peon worker at a restaurant. I feared social situations. I made good and sociable friends in my first year of college thanks to the dorms/common areas which basically forced interaction. So I made my group of friends to about 20. 10-12 were really good friends and about 4 were best pals. Being the usual AFC that I was (and still am, but working on it!), I would only seek to lay down some game on girls who were friends first. I had an off and on thing going with one of my friends who is an HB9. She's a sexy brunette with a pretty face. She gets hit on all the time by randoms and after a few hookups between me and her, I was struck with major one-itis. I obsessed about it initially and even got jealous. She found our relationship to be in LJBF zone - even though the tension was always there. Anyways, I got into sales after my peon job and that opened my eyes to social interaction. Sales and PUA have many parallels from what I learned. This then led me to DYD, Mystery, Style, and mASF. I'm one of those guys who hates reading, but has no problem listening to audios. So I read about 100 pages of The Game and didn't pick up the book again - Instead I listened to David DeAngelo's interviews with dating gurus about 5x over. I didn't really act on it, but one thing hit me hard from those interviews. I forget who said it, but it went something like this.. "Why go out to a bar with a bunch of your friends, only to just mingle with yourselves and pay a bunch for drinks. You should just be doing that at home." (I shouldn't have even quoted this, because I'm sure the wording is way off, but the principal the same.) This was SO TRUE about our group. We always went out, hung out with each other only, danced with each other only, etc etc. Incredibly whack. One day, we're at the bar again, and I find myself with a drink in my hand, sitting at the table with HB9, her friend, and my good buddy. The conversation between the table goes dry, and I get pissed off thinking about why we're even at the bar. But hey, I have enough liquid courage in me - might as well put it to some use. I decide to make a move on a light skinned mutt brunette HB10, about my height 6ft (with heels) sitting right next to us grabbing a smoke. Mind you, I don't have much sense for fashion. I wore jeans, some random t-shirt, and my grandpa slippers from Payless Shoes, which I love and wear every chance I get, btw. I basically let the booze drive me over to her table to join her in a smoke. I was sitting in my chair and since there were no seats next to HB10, I decide to stay seated, lift my chair 2 inches from the floor and do one of those 100 mini steps over to her (about 5 ft away). The sound I was making in my head to describe my footwork w/ chair attached was..."Eee Err, Eee Err, Eee Err...." like a burglar at night tip toe-ing on rickety wood floors. I get right next to her and she's already intrigued by the open. That is my patented and field tested "Eee Err" opener. Use it wisely. I sit next to her and let out a nice "Ahhhhhh" in satisfaction for the success in my lazy ass way to move in close to her. She laughs, but is kinda creeped. Me: My gosh, what are you doing here all by yourself? (No Pause) Me: Can I borrow your lighter? (with my hand out and with the attitude of a kid saying "GIMME") HB10: Hands me one and waits for it back. For 10 seconds, I don't make eye contact, and instead, set my drink down, leaned back in the chair and lit my smoke. She was eyeing me the whole time since I had her lighter and I leaned back in a 45 degree angle. Me: So where were we? Oh yeah, so why you here by yourself, again? HB10: Well, my friends are on the dance floor and I needed a break. Me: Ya, I hear ya. My friends are engaged in a girly conversation about tampons and shoes and I needed a break. HB10: Laughs. Me: So what kinda smokes you got? HB10: Marlb Lights Me: Great choice I bring my cig next to hers to give her a cheers. She finds it amusing and does it while laughing. Me: Who are you here with? HB10: A couple of my girlfriends and their boyfriends. Me: Where's yours? HB10: Well, he's sorta locked up. Me: Let me guess, he was boosting cars. This was totally random - I had watched Fast and the Furious on TV earlier that day, so I took this random stab. HB10: How did you know? Me: Shit, I have a 6th sense about these things. HB10: Are you serious? Laughs, but is still a bit shocked. Yap yap yap about BF and his time left to get out, whatever I'm not one to be a homewrecker or anything, but a guy who steals from others doesn't deserve a girl like her waiting on the outside. Assuming she's nice and wonderful, not some nut. This is where my Closer sales techniques come in. Where instead of taking the low road by bashing competitors, I took the high by praising and then of course, suggesting better options. Me: Hmm, he seems like a pretty good guy still, right? (Assume close - the "right?" will naturally evoke a yes.) HB10: Yeah. Me: I'm sure there are a few other good guys around, too, don't you think? (Same assumption close, different words) HB10: Yeah. Switch gears not to let her dwell on sabotaging her relationship and get all emo. Afterall, even girls in this situation deserve to be shown that they don't need to have a bitch shield up 24/7 - she might missing out on great friendship opportunities. Anyway, at this point, my selfish ass can only think of my awesome slippers - how comfortable they were, even outside of the house! Me: You know, I would get my boogie on with you on the dance floor since my smoke is done, but I'm just not wearing the right shoes. (Bring up my slippers) My friends thought I wouldn't get in with these slippers, but I got in just fine. I'm a sneaky devil like that. HB10: (She's eating it up - laugh) I wish I'd done the same! Me: I'm thinking of basically taking these wherever I go, even the posh clubs downtown. HB10: Well, you should go to (I forget the club name) tomorrow. I'll be there. I can get you on the guest list. Me: I'll think about it, but I have to be getting back to my friends now - they're probably wondering where I wandered off to. HB10: Get my number and call me to get on the list. Number closed my first and it happened to be a 10. I guess I got lucky. After reading a bit and listening to some more audios recently, I should have done some kino as I was getting some obvious IOI and lots of smiles from her. I didn't call her back - why? I'm not 100% sure - Maybe it was nerves setting in when I was in a sober mindset, maybe it was because I had all kinds of other things planned for the weekend, and maybe it was because I didn't care to go out on a date with her. I just wanted to see if I could do it. What was GREAT was that my buddy tells me that the HB9 friend of mine was watching me the whole time and was getting insanely jealous as I number closed this hotter girl. No gain really, besides the satisfaction of Neg-ing her pretty damn hard. I think that deep inside, HB9 thought that she was the best that I could do, so I showed her up. Anyways, that's it. If you've read it all, I hope it was worth the read. I look forward to learning a bunch more from the forums! -J |
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