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Author:  Alpha Nerd [ Sat May 08, 2010 10:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Was just flaked

I met this HB8 at my local college in the library. She was sitting in a lounge area and i came over and right away made some comment to her as i sat (cant remember what exactly). We chatted for a bit and i was running game on her. after i could tell she was attracted to me I did the whole point system bit. "oh nice, if you get two points for that! if you get up to 10 ill give you my phone number." she responded really well and said something along the lines of "well im going to be here for awhile so i have some time to work". After awhile I said "hey lets go for a walk" she was like "ok sure, i need to take a break anyway". I took her outside and ran the cube on her. when we were finished she was practically begging for my number. We went back inside and it was bout time for the library to close so i said ok fine, put ur number in my phone. she smiled and said yay! lol... we walked out together and chatted some more and hugged and left.

lots of kino was incorporated in there (spinning her around, thumb wrestling, i gave her a piggy back ride etc.)

the next day i called her and was like hey lets chill later. she was down but it was her moms b-day so she wanted to take her out. I was like oh well lets just do it another time then. she agreed and we decided on today.

we planned on hanging out in the morning. i texted her bout 10ish and said hey take ur time, i got some stuff to do first. bout an hour later she texted me back and said she was so excited blah blah. then she texted and said she was going to do some stuff for her mom as a pre mom's day gift. i was like thats cool, ima hit up the gym. i texted something random (didnt ask how things were going) to her bout 2ish and didnt get a response. i called her at 4 and left a message "hey hit me up, lets chill, if i dont hear from u in the next hour and a half ima make plans with some friends"

its almost 6 now and i haven't heard from her.


my thoughts about how to handle it:

A) wait about a week and then text her.
B) wait about a week and then call her.
C) dont say anything untill/unless she does first
D) even if she does text back just dont respond to her.

thoughts?

on a side note i went down to this coffee shop today after i was flaked and am starting to get into a new social circle.

Author:  Chelios [ Sat May 08, 2010 11:20 pm ]
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She likes you, everything suggests that from what you have said. Maybe something happened? She lost track of time, it's easy to jump, be patient, although it can be frustrating.

I'd say wait a few days, see if she comes back to you (she will) Just don't chase, a lot of girls will think your in the palm of her hand there, used to do that mistake a lot!

So be patient, and don't even bring the subject up, unless she says something. If she has some kind of respect for you, she'll mention why she flaked on you and apologize.

Update us!

Author:  Nineses [ Sun May 09, 2010 12:08 am ]
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You played it smooth brother, specially with the point system. That would have built alot of comfort definately :D

Did you run any attraction routines on her?

yeah, wait for her text back. she will apologise. make sure you make her owe you one. i had something happen like that today though my girl wants a relationship.

keep us posted -x-

Author:  Alpha Nerd [ Sat May 15, 2010 6:10 pm ]
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she dropped her phone in the pool at her moms house...

holla!

ima go tap that

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