I've been practicing PUA techniques ever since I read The Game nearly a year and a half ago. I've gotten numbers here and there using day game, but this was my first number close in a nightclub. I thought I had to post this as I felt like Mystery or one of the masters! This was a few weeks ago and I've used this style a few times in some classy bars and a Jazz club and hasn't failed yet!
I'd been to this nightclub a few times before but only with friends and was quite comfortable with the place. I wanted to go out sarging but didn't have any plans for this particular Sat night so I thought F*** it, I'll go by myself, it's better than staying in watching TV and I'll learn something. Adam Lyons is always promoting Social Proof so you MUST GO with friends. However, when you're in the club, women use their peripheral vision to check out guys, so I needed to be seen talking to people, guys and girls, even if it's a quick word with the other guy that's there, trying to pick up chicks. Only a quick word though
I got ready, clean shaven, nice shirt, suit trousers, almost new shoes and peacocked myself as much as I could. Gold braclet, Gold watch, not too flashy, silver necklace with silver feathers, silver ring in the shape of a dragon and a black trilby hat. Rolled up my sleeves to show it all off and I got to work.
Remember, all these items are not to show off, but to get women to either open YOU, or for her to ask a question about the specific piece, then if you wish, you can elaborate or tell some DHV Story.
At first I was just dancing near a group of girls, no flashy moves, don't try too hard, just to show I wanted to have fun not out on the pull, I wait for the signal from the girl before I make my move and start dancing with her, as her friends and other girls in the club will be watching, I begin to social proof myself and move around the club increasing my value.
I'm now near the bar, I make eye contact with this cute blonde, she's with all her friends and she says, wow I really like your hat and I take it off and put it on her and say, yea, but I think it looks better on you, we chat for about 4-5 minutes while sh wears my hat, I use a false time constraint while social proofing, I say, Listen, I've got to go and meet some of my friends, they're in another club, but why don't you give me your number and we'll catch up in the week. I’ve been in a similar situation to this before, where I see a girl a really like and end up spending the rest of the night almost following her around the club looking like a complete wuss trying to make something happen. That’s why I just got her number and moved on.
She gives me her number, I text her to meet up in this classy lounge bar, very close to my flat, not too expensive, I paid $25 for a bottle of white wine, we got talking, and after an hour of gently kinoing, I kiss her briefly, then pulled back and said, you're a really good kisser, David D’s 2 steps forward 1 step back, then went back in while touching her legs and moving my hand up her dress, she enjoyed it sooo much, the bouncer tried to throw us out a few times, and after the 3rd time, I said, "why don't you come back to my place for a few cocktails", basically it's the same meaning as do you want sex, it just doesn't sound seedy! So we walked back to mine, put on some smooth music and just made it happen.
I hope this provides useful.