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| Author: | DrewWagner [ Sun Apr 18, 2010 10:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Moving in on HB10, Hired Gun fail! |
I work with a girl who used to be a NFL cheerleader (HB10) and we've been friends for 2 years now. So naturally, most of her friends are cheerleaders or former cheerleaders...Anyway, we work for the baseball team in town, she is our in-game host. And after the opener of the season, her and I went out to grab a drink with intentions of meeting up with some of her friends and some of mine. We met up with my friends who were a little too drunk so we bounced to another bar to meet her friend who is also a former cheerleader, HB10. She shows up and our mutual friend introduces us and she goes for the handshake and I go for the hug a la "Jim Carrey Dumb-and-Dumber I hate goodbyes" scene. And she laughs as they head off to grab a drink. I stay back and as they are walking away she looks back and smiles. I immediately I walk into this mixed 5 set, thinking it would DHV when they come back. They ended up talking to someone they knew on the other side of the bar for the next hour and a half. What do you suggest to do in that situation? Keep in mind its during the day, and its after a baseball game. I kind of blew it off. And went on opening a few more sets which didn't amount to anything. And get a text message that says "Did you leave? Come by the bathrooms thats where we are." How do you reengage with the target in this situation? I just tried to act like I didn't even notice that we got separated. Start a 2 set with their friends, tossing negs at the target. Next thing I know, we're all dancing and I am promoting most of it. Starting dance circles, dance tunnels and we have about half the bar in on it. And I can move my feet pretty good and at this point I am the center of attention. This carried on for a good hour. This seemed to win her over. Using some stealth non-verbal through only dancing with her. As that died down, we bounced to a few other bars doing the same thing, both girls on my arm every place we walked into but just me and her out on the dance floor. Last place, we went I had a few successful isolation moments. Escalating Kino as she says she wants to leave. We leave with both girls on my arms. Get to our cars and I lock up as they are both just staring at me, all I can come up with is: "Well, it was good to meet you." We hugged and that was it. No number close. Nothing. The next morning, I see she requested me at 1:15am to be her facebook friend. IOI? Lame, I know. Well, to make a long story longer, the same two girls came out for my birthday last night, and we shared a few laughs, used some stealth, received IOIs i.e "Is that girl on your facebook pictures your girlfriend?" And the all of the sudden our mutual friend gives me the "Ok, were gonna head out. Sorry, dude I'm just not feeling it tonight." So naturally, the target wants to leave with her. She stays back for a few and I grab both her hands, eye contact, and she says she doesn't wanna leave and I said "you can't send your girl out on her own, get outta here, but this does mean your gonna have to see me again." And they left. Again, no number close. So my only way of contacting her is through facebook or through our mutual friend. LAME. So confused on where to go from here. I mean, this girl has had the book thrown at her in terms of game. I know the right route is to continue to stand out but how? I'm a charasmatic, funny, good-looking dude with a good job. And how do I escalate given that I have clearly waited to long to get her number and move forward? And through facebook? Ugh! Anyone know any good routines even if it be through facebook for the time being? I had an idea of, and I know this is off the reservation, but asking her to be pen pals and give her my address. A little quirky, but I am sure a conversation piece, and it would keep her waiting for my letters. And have us not having each others number be kind of like "our thing" and plan us meeting up through these letters. This would be the ultimate pull and I wanna keep this "seed" blossoming but just not sure of the next move. What do you guys think? |
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| Author: | Fogell [ Sun Apr 18, 2010 11:43 pm ] |
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Honestly I think you should send her a message on facebook going direct, or ask your friend for her number and go direct over the phone. Its clear you've built up a great deal of attraction/ rapport with this girl, so theres no need to play any games with her. Shes clearly disappointed you didn't number close her when you had the chance, and the fact that she added you on facebook that same night means she wanted you to contact her. Just throw it out there that you like her, and you think theres potential for something between you to. As AFC as it sounds, your gonna have to expose yourself to being vulnerable. I dont think you can afford to string her along any further with more games. The games are all good in the initial to mid stages, but your past that. She obviously wanted you to step up and take control on your bday, but you kept things in mid-game. Too much mid-game leads to friend zone. You had to isolate her and K-closer her, or atleast directly indicate your interest. Anyways, thats my advice man. Hopefully whatever you choose to do works out for you. Also I since you mentioned you work for the baseball team in your town (I assume its the big league club). I was wondering if I could PM you with some questions about how to get into that line of work? because working in baseball is something Im strongly thinking about pursuing. |
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