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| Author: | Dr. Chicago [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 12:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | An 8 begs me for sex, a 6 rejects me... INCONSISTENCY! |
Hi my name is Dr. Chicago, and I am very inconsistent with the girls. This is certainly a frustrating problem, but at least it makes for good stories. So with that, some of my greatest flubs and sweetest victories... (analyses appreciated) Let's start with just the other day, a flub that encouraged me to sign up on these forums... I had come off a very fun and relatively succesful night. Going partying with a "friend" of mine, a very flirtatious model who is decidedly a 9 has a photographer bf, but always talks about me being hot (really hilarious having a 9 tell me that I'M hot, haha) and about how we'll probably have sex someday, jokes about me being her future bf, lots of talk about sex, etc. It's fun and has been building, I have been using the "it's wrong to hook up with someone who is in a relationship" to build sexual tension and interest, I have a lot of experience in dealing with women with bf's, (it's almost become my forte) and have had mixed results, but they are usually of the 8 and up caliber which is nice. Anyway- had a great night with her, up until late in the night, bf calling and all that. The next day however, I decide that I need some action. I haven't had any action in over a month, too often I am playing the whole prizing and "hard-to-get" style and it can lead to droughts of sex or even make-out sessions. So, confident from the attention from the 9 the night before, I arrange to study with this girl who I have had a little interest in. She's kind of cute, really nothing special, she's a fairly average girl, a 6 is probably a little generous, but let's go with that. Anyway- I have a decent study sess with her, then we go for drinks, we connect a little (perhaps a little forced by me) we walk out of the bar, walk a block and then I'm kissing her. Se offers some token resistance, I get passed it, then we make out for about 45 minutes. It's a decent time. How is this a flub? Is what you are probably asking... First off- we are in class together. Lots of social ties that are similar, will create awkwardness. Secondly- I came on strong and needy. This was because I assumed it was in the bag, I had already lined up- makeout, then next time fooling around, then next time sex. I didn't game enough. Thirdly- It came as a surprise to her, I had not put in the work to give her hints, move towards this kind of thing- just "study buddies to makeout" in the blink of an eye. So of course she phones me the next day and says she just wants to be friends. I'm sure a little buyers remorse is at play here, but I don't think that it's just that. I'm shocked, but in retrospect I think I get most of it. But this hurts, and because she is connected to my social life, will cause untold awkwardness and paranoia of creating a bad rep for me. She is only tapped into one of my 5 or so social circles, but it is still bad. Anyway- to give you an idea of why this is so frustrating- I have met 8's and within the night had them begging me to have sex with them. I have the last few weeks gotten 8's to track me down on facebook, give me there numbers and invite me out to hang with them. The best head I ever receieved was an 8 who I met through a friend that very night, and I had a 9 kiss ME on a dance floor even though she had a boyfriend, and then we went home together. So what the fuck happened? lol |
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| Author: | denzel [ Mon Mar 29, 2010 1:36 am ] |
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Dont' worry about it, this girl knows that anything between you guys will be awkard and so do you. So I suggest let it slide, pretend like it never happen then make fun of it. Do you make a good study team? If so keep it, in the long run its better |
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| Author: | kammun1st [ Fri Apr 02, 2010 9:16 am ] |
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Here's what was the deal breaker (in my opinion). The way you phase shifted/escalated from studying to making out may have been the cause of the buyer's remorse. Did you remember your 2 steps forward 1 step backward? Did you try things along the lines of freeze outs to deal with LMRs? Those are good things to work on that really make a difference long term. |
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