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Author:  shaddix-sins [ Sat Mar 20, 2010 8:24 am ]
Post subject:  First Direct Approach and i Phsyched myself Out!!
Whatsup my Brothers of the PUA community! I love this site so alive and helpful!
ne ways...so i was at Marshalls today looking to FBH(I call sarging Furburger Hunting) haha...so i was at marshalls and i see this Hb8 looking at the bras section so im like ok lets do this! i walk over to her feeling a calm but a little nervous.
Me:Excuse me this is so random i saw you and had to come over to say hi your so cute. (i think i said it calm tone but might have talked to fast)
HB:Oh thank you so much

ME:My names Shaddix i shook her hand and asked what her name was

HB:Its Ashley

Me:Nice! so what brings you here to Marshalls

HB:Im actually on spring break so im just shopping around

Me:Oh nice where you from?

HB:Indiana

Me:cool what school?

HB:I go to Michigan

Me: Really? when i think of Michigan i think of fields..is it like that?

HB:Well i live in the twin cities

Me:oh ok what are you studying?

HB:Communications

Me: Nice i feel like everyone does communications why?

HB:Well so i can do radio or event planning

Me: Are you going to do radio that be sooo cool!

HB:No lol

Me: Hey i like your style alot you got that european french style going on

HB:Thanks

Then i paused for like two seconds to see if she would ask or say anything about her style..but nothing so i politely said well nice meeting you bye!

I felt like it was a kind of a bland convo nothing exciting.What could i have said you think to make it more fun and also did i leave to early because i scared myself?

-Shaddix Sins
Author:  Tigra [ Sat Mar 20, 2010 11:51 am ]
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Ahhh man, this was painful to read ahaha... No worries though, it happens. Let me tell you where you went wrong. Firstly you came off as exceedingly needy. Secondly, the missile that sank your boat was that you asked too many questions. It was like an interview. I would do some cold reads here, drop a neg or two and do alot push pull to build attraction. You want to come off as a cool guy people like not a lurking creep that approaches girls in the bra section. Haha. But keep at it chief. Success is always right around the corner.

cheers :twisted:
Author:  shaddix-sins [ Sat Mar 20, 2010 9:21 pm ]
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haha i know i felt like it was a interview lol...but cold readlings? like what you mean? i know the ring one? Also should i have not said your cute? did that come off needy? and said something like had to come over here you seem like a very intresting person or is that lame lol..

-Shaddix Sins
Author:  Tigra [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 2:47 am ]
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Well cold readings are like educated guesses haha. That portray value and that you know ore about her than you think. Its an effective way to start conversation taht gets her interested. For example, "I bet youre a blah blah blah type of person". You can be creative with them. As for the cute thing. Idont know. I personally never go up and tell them they are cute. It works for some people sure, but just not my thing.
Author:  The_Boss_ [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 7:50 am ]
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We all started somewhere bro! good effort.

What I would do if i was you for next time(although u will find some people on this site disagreeing with me as they think its too 'diceitful' but what the heck!) is to have some canned openers ready to stack and interesting conversation topics/negs/routines memorised.

This way the conversation wont seem so much like something her and her grandma would have and instead be more playful/flirty because you will be prepared!

It will all come with experience anyway so get back out in the field!!! :twisted:
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