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| FR: Day2 with brazillian chick-Nothing worked-Why? https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=63514 |
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| Author: | Stig [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 6:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | FR: Day2 with brazillian chick-Nothing worked-Why? |
So last night I went for a Day 2 with a HB8 who's number I got the other week. She's from Brazil and has been living in between America and Brazil for the last couple years. Her cousin recently moved here, so she always stays with her. I ended up bringing a friend to even it out, so the 4 of us went to dinner. During the dinner I acted pretty playfully, made good use of kino, touching her leg every once in a while when I said something interesting. I made sure to give constant eye contact but she wouldn't always give me eye contact. I'm assuming this was an IOD. Anyways, I continued doing what I was doing. We both ordered sushi and I told her she should try some of what I got since she'd never had it before. I gave her some of what I had and I took some of what she had. The conversation was light, and she really seemed to be enjoying herself and having a good time. She lightly touched my elbow once after saying something, I can't remember what it was, but I took this as an IOI. I was originally going to take her to a party I knew of, but it ended up getting shut down and she suggested going to a party she knew of. As we exited the restaurant, it was rainy and cold. She said she was cold and i said "Here, I'll keep you warm" and stuck my elbow out. She laughed and said something like "Oh you don't need to do that", but not in an antagonistic way. She's just a shy girl. After I stuck my arm out, we linked arms for like 20 seconds and then unlinked because she wanted to put her hair up or something. I left my arm hanging by my side casually walking, testing to see if she would initiate the arm link again. She didn't. We continued walking to the car, got in the car and headed over to the party. I still did some light kino, touching her elbow every now and then whenever I said something I wanted to emphasize. When we got to the party, I only knew 1 person. But, the second I stepped through the door, I introduced myself to every single person. I made myself the center of the conversation the second I stepped through, and the people around me were engaged. I DHV'd myself by showing how sociable I am and how receptive other people are to my conversation. I was getting kind of bored, so I initiated the cube routine with HB8. She was less shocked than the majority of the people I run the routine on, and she said it was partially accurate. Another guy who I'll refer to as F was interested in the cube, so I cube'd him as well. He was intrigued. I continued to keep the interest of the conversations, ran the 5 lies game which HB8 liked, and I did it to another drunk guy who found it entertaining. HB8 was smiling but I feel like she wasn't really enjoying herself. She was sitting in a seat next to her cousin, and here's where I think I AFC'd it up pretty bad. I told her to scooch over and make room for me. She moved over in the seat but it was too small for the both of us. I hinted at how she could sit on my lap, but she ended up getting out of the seat and sitting next to her cousin in the other seat. I felt kinda stupid at this point, but I still continued the conversation. I knew that what I was doing wasn't working. HB8 moved to a different seat later on as people shifted around. Randomly, the song Moonlight Sonata played during the kickback and I said how I know how to play that song on the piano. Here was AFC move #2 I told her to "come check this out" and I think I came off as try-hard. Either way, her and another girl came with me to the piano, where I attempted to play and completely forgot the entire song so I DLV'd myself there. I tried playing another song but i completely drew a blank and forgot that one too. I ended up playing something totally different that I came up with off the top of my head, which was actually pretty good and they liked it. DHV here, so now I'm back to square one at this point (i guess?). We went back outside and she took the last seat on a couch, and I took a chair which was pretty far away across. I start talking to this HB7 sitting next to me (in HB8's field of vision), and was getting instant IOIs from HB7. I kind of ran out of material though, and I didn't want to run the same routines on her so I just made some small talk and held her interest for a short while. I also talked to some ugly chick in front of HB8 and made very engaging conversation with her. HB8 had to have seen both of these since I was in front of her. Then later, F starts engaging in conversation with HB8 and her cousin, as I was talking to some other chick trying to up my social value. HB8 looked much more interested in him, giving him eye contact and smiling and laughing. The rest of the details are kind of unnecessary. F ended up number closing HB8, while I was dicking around trying to up my social value with chicks that I didn't really care about. At the end of the night, when I came to the front of her house and she was exiting the car, I said: Me: Hey, HB8... HB8: Ya? Me (pointing to my cheek): Kiss goodbye? And she did more of a cheek to cheek kiss, her lips only slightly grazed my cheek. So here's the issue: I don't see where I went wrong. As I'm recalling the situation, I cannot think of one thing I could have done to make it a win for me. Is there such a thing as a "No-Win" situation? Exactly where did I fuck up? (I'm guessing I wasn't cocky/funny enough, or I may have made myself seem easy/try-hard... yeah that's probably it) Replies are appreciated. -Stig |
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